

The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini
Does your marriage feel like a war of unmet wants?
We know how this feels.
Follow our conversation in The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast. We’ll help you both get what you want in marriage so you never have to feel at war again.
Hosted by relationship coaches, and husband and wife, Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini.
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May 18, 2023 • 1h 4min
93: Why Male Marital Lone-Wolfing Without Support Makes Total Sense
Why the ultra common habit of husbands, lone-wolfing without support in marriage, makes total sense. Understanding why will change everything for you going forward! Let's begin.....Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message Now

May 17, 2023 • 1h 12min
92: How To Positively Influence Her Complete Lack of Discipline
It's the age old frustration of husbands with wives: Why can't she be more disciplined in her life? We feel frustrated when she doesn't have her shit together, and then feel more disconnected when she gets super disciplined. Today's episode does a deep dive into why this becomes such and issue within us men, and introduces the #1 way to positively influence her behaviour for the better! Let's begin.....Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message Now

May 11, 2023 • 1h 21min
91: The 3 Most Important Words In Intimate Relationships with Duey Freeman
In this episode we welcome in Duey Freeman. He deep dives into how to create profound connection when you come into contact with other human beings. Duey is a sought after teacher, trainer, licensed therapist, and equine professional around the world. He has travelled to teach professionally in over 8 countries, has developed a practical attachment theory and human development theory that is taught to thousands of university students, has over 80,000 direct client hours, and co-founded both the Gestalt Equine Institute and the Gestalt Institute of the Rockies. Gestalt and Relational Horsemanship are not just approaches to Duey; they are how he walks through the world. He embodies both tenderness and strength in all his relations and work. His quality of contact and relationship with others is authentic and unique, and has many people coming from around the country and world to study with him. He has worked incredibly hard to master his arts, and finds great joy in teaching ‘honest students’. Duey is a true elder and mentor, and is exploring new horizons in facilitating men’s growth work. To find out more about Duey and his work: Duey Freeman (@dueyfreeman) • Instagram photos and videos dueyfreeman.org GESTALT EQUINE INSTITUTE OF THE ROCKIES - HomeWill you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message Now

May 10, 2023 • 1h 2min
90: Simple Steps to Become Her Dependable and Trustworthy King
Broken promises to be a better man tend to plague the landscape of most husband's married lives. We set great intentions, follow through for a couple of weeks, and then fall back into old patterns. This is one of the most corrosive patterns destroying our wives capacity to trust our leadership as husbands. Broken promises hurt our women like hell.Today's episode introduces key steps every husband can take to end this cycle forever and become the dependable and trustworthy King she's been yearning to finally meet!!!Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message Now

May 4, 2023 • 1h 24min
89: Mastering The Dragon of Sexual Desire with Justin Patrick Pierce
Enjoy a sensational and truly profound conversation about mastering the dragon of sexual desire with Justin Patrick Pierce.Author, intimacy teacher, and founder of the Yoga of Intimacy, Justin offers workshops and private training for men and women around the world to help them overcome challenges in relationship, master the embodiments of sexual polarity, and pursue a life of spiritual depth alongside their chosen partner. He and his life partner, Londin Angel Winters, are parents, passionate lovers, and co-authors of Playing With Fire: The Spiritual Path of Intimate Relationship and The Awakened Woman's Guide to Everlasting Love.To know more about Justin's work:Website: JUSTIN PATRICK PIERCE Book: Amazon.com: Playing With Fire: The Spiritual Path of Intimate Relationship: 9780986394256: Pierce, Justin Patrick, Winters, Londin Angel: BooksWill you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message Now

May 3, 2023 • 57min
88: This One Skill Will Have Her WET & YEARNING You!!!
There is one masculine capacity that fires up our women's trust and sexual attraction for us more than any other capacity. When you learn to master this capacity, she will melt like butter in your hands on the altar of sexual bliss and devotional loving.Curious to know more?!!! Let's begin....Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message Now

Apr 27, 2023 • 1h 36min
87: Navigating Your Queen's Dreaded Time of the Month!
This episode we welcome back my beautiful Queen, Matilde, and her full flame fiery wisdom. This ended up becoming an extraordinary deep dive into empowering us Heroic Husbands to consciously lead our Queens during their sacred moon cycle, especially in their bleeding phase. Armed with a list of conscious and high-leverage strategies and perspectives, you will rapidly become the husband she brags about! Let's begin.....Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message Now

Apr 26, 2023 • 1h 19min
86: 3 Steps to Stopping Your Wife's Abuse of You
Enjoy this intense deep dive into reconnecting with your masculine unfuckwithable core strength and find a power of positive influence within an abusive relationship. It's a no BS, thought provoking perspective that's put forward that will not sit well with the politically correct mainstream views of such a situation. Yet, high conscious extreme ownership has never been mainstream!!! Let's begin....Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message Now

Apr 20, 2023 • 1h 10min
85: Setting Strong Boundaries with Boundary-Violating In-laws with Darren Magee
In this episode, we do a deep dive into how to set non-negotiable boundaries with disrespectful in-laws with Darren F Magee.Darren is a grounded, down to earth therapist with many years experience working with individuals, couples and groups providing counselling in Belfast. Practicing an integrative approach, he draws on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Person Centred, Psychodynamic and Solution Focused approaches to maximise support for clients.He has experience working with issues such as trauma, chronic illness, abuse, personality disorder, addiction, obsessive compulsive disorder, depression, anger, anxiety, relationship issues and bereavement.Darren is author of the book ‘Surviving Other People’s Self Esteem‘. He has a popular YouTube channel where he discusses topics focusing on relationships, mental health and personality.Check out more on Darren's work at:Darren F Magee YouTube channelSentient Counselling - Counselling in BelfastWill you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message Now

Apr 19, 2023 • 1h 13min
84: The Great Perceptual Mistake ALL Husbands Make
"Sugar or Shit with your pancakes sir?" asks your waiter."Why the hell would I put shit on my pancakes?!!!" you respond with outrage.Yet, the great perceptual mistake ALL husbands make, has us serving SHIT (our unconscious emotional reactivity and the resulting verbal vomit) into our relationship space every day. And then we wonder why our wife doesn't love us anymore!!!This episode will go deep into arguably the most important aspect of your Marriage Transformation quest.Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode and/or express interest in Heroic Husbands Men's Circles! Send Mark voice message Now


