The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast
Jamie Scrimgeour
When Jamie couldn't find the stepmom support and conversations she was looking for, she decided to create her own. Each week, Jamie Scrimgeour brings you real life conversations about blended family, relationships, personal development and more. With tips, strategies, mindset shifts and KICK-ASS Guests, Jamie's goal is to inspire you to live your own version of a KICK-ASS Life while bringing you along as she creates her own.
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Nov 17, 2025 • 41min
This is 40. What I've Learned + Where I'm Going
Turning 40 has made me very reflective. I guess that's common, but I keep thinking about where I'm headed and what I want to do next. Today I'll share my plans for my birthday (Hello an all-inclusive Mexico trip with Darren) and what my goals are for the decade to come. Get The Disengaging Without Disconnecting Masterclasswww.jamiescrimgeour.com/disengaging Work With Me.www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching Get My Ebook - 120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook Episode Sponsors: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. Cozy Earth | Go to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 20% off of your order
Nov 10, 2025 • 59min
High Functioning Codependency, Letting Go + Boundaries In the Stepmom Space With Terri Cole
Licensed psychotherapist and global relationship and empowerment expert Terri Cole is back in KICK-ASS Stepmom to dive into how to break the cycle of high-functioning codependency. Stepmoms, you're going to see yourself in this one! Get The Disengaging Without Disconnecting Masterclass www.jamiescrimgeour.com/disengaging Work With Me. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching Get My Ebook - 120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook Episode Sponsors: Cozy Earth | Go to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 20% off of your order OSEA | Clean skincare that actually works. Shop OSEA:https://bit.ly/47jvKIj OSEA Ocean Body Glow Set: https://bit.ly/4h16E59 Use code KICKASSSTEPMOM10 for 10% off your first order Metabolic Reset Program | Get $350 off with the code JAMIE350 at https://www.jentherhn.com
Nov 3, 2025 • 36min
Are Your Boundaries With the Ex Ridiculous? Do You Have to Like Your Stepkids? How to Disengage Without Disconnecting.
I'm back with another Q+A. You'll hear my thoughts on how to know if your boundaries with the ex have gone too far, feeling confident around the ex, disengaging without disconnecting, and navigating discipline, personality differences, and house rules with your stepkids. Get The Disengaging Without Disconnecting Masterclass www.jamiescrimgeour.com/disengaging Work With Me. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching Get My Ebook - 120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook Episode Sponsors: Cozy Earth | Go to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 20% off of your order Metabolic Reset Program | Get $350 off with the code JAMIE350 at https://www.jentherhn.com
Oct 27, 2025 • 27min
How To Stop Spiralling As A Stepmom, The Ex is Lying + Our Thoughts On My House My Rules
Darren's back for another Q+A. Answering listener questions on how to stop spiraling as a stepmom, what to do if Mom is checked out, when mom is lying to you, how to motivate your stepkids and more… Get The Disengaging Without Disconnecting Masterclass www.jamiescrimgeour.com/disengaging Work With Me. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching Get My Ebook - 120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook Episode Sponsors: Cozy Earth | Go to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 20% off of your orderOSEA | Clean skincare that actually works. Shop OSEA: https://bit.ly/47jvKIj OSEA Ocean Body Glow Set: https://bit.ly/4h16E59 Use code KICKASSSTEPMOM10 for 10% off your first order
Oct 20, 2025 • 20min
Is Child Support Keeping You Broke? Money Mindset. Stepmom Resentment + Taking Control Of Your Life
You asked and I answered - I'm diving into your listener questions. I'll share thoughts on navigating financial growth and mindset amidst child support, plus I'll talk about my hardest period as a stepmom, if I resent Darren, and whether or not I'd do this again. Get The Disengaging Without Disconnecting Masterclass www.jamiescrimgeour.com/disengaging Work With Me. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching Get My Ebook - 120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook Episode Sponsors: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. Metabolic Reset Program | Get $350 off with the code JAMIE350 at https://www.jentherhn.com
Oct 13, 2025 • 33min
Navigating Haters, The Ex, Burnout + Screenshots. Creating A Thriving Stepmom Coaching Business
Taking it back in this episode, talking about how this whole platform started + answering your questions about running this platform. I'm also sharing what's changed since I changed things last year and where my head is at now. Work With Me. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching Get My Ebook - 120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook Join Elevate: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/elevate Episode Sponsors: Cozy Earth | Go to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 20% off of your order OSEA | Clean skincare that actually works. Shop OSEA: https://bit.ly/47jvKIj OSEA Ocean Body Glow Set: https://bit.ly/4h16E59 Use code KICKASSSTEPMOM10 for 10% off your first order Kajabi | Build the business of your dreams and make a profit - all in one place. Go to www.jamiescrimgeour.com/kajabi to get all the details.
Oct 6, 2025 • 28min
Ours Baby Q+A. Does The Ex Go To The Hospital And More…
Having an ours baby is a hot topic in a stepfamily dynamic. I get questions daily. In this week's episode Darren and I answer your questions and concerns about adding an ours baby to your blended family crew. Work With Me. Stepmom Coaching & Mentorship www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching Get My Ebook. 120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook Episode Sponsors: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. Metabolic Reset Program | Get $350 off with the code JAMIE350 at https://www.jentherhn.com
Sep 29, 2025 • 32min
Solo Q+A: The Power of Delegating, Moving Into Their Home, Finding Your Style + Maintenance Sex
We're switching it up this week, and not just talking about stepmom stuff. You asked, and I answered: How do I 'do it all'? What health and wellness looks like in my current life My approach to fashion and style The experience I had moving into Darren's home where he used to live with his ex How I navigate goal setting and burnout The biggest shift I ever made in my stepmom mindset Making space for intimacy in a busy life PRIVATE COACHING. WORK WITH ME www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching JOIN ELEVATE: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/elevate GET THE EBOOK: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook THANKS TO MY SPONSORS: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. Cozy Earth | Go to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 40% off of your order Metabolic Reset Program | Get $350 off with the code JAMIE350 at https://www.jentherhn.com
Sep 22, 2025 • 25min
Are Your Boundaries Too Much?
Boundaries are extremely important to implement and hold in your relationships, but in my years as a stepmom coaching I've come to find that many people misunderstand what boundaries are. Boundaries are not about controlling another person - they are about communicating your needs and preferences in regards to how people treat you. Good boundaries should get you closer to the dynamic you need in your relationship, not further away from it. Today, Darren and I are diving into boundaries that stepmoms have submitted. You'll hear boundary talk about: Kids in the bedroom Sending memes to the ex Constant communication with the ex Kids dropping by unannounced outside of the custody agreement Driving the step kids to bio mom's house to pick up things they forgot Sitting with the ex at events Work with Jamie: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching Join Elevate: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/elevate Thanks to our sponsors: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. OSEA | Clean skincare that actually works. Shop OSEA: https://bit.ly/47jvKIj OSEA Ocean Body Glow Set: https://bit.ly/4h16E59 Use code KICKASSSTEPMOM10 for 10% off your first order
Sep 15, 2025 • 33min
Stepkids are 18. Is it Freedom?
Darren and I have entered a whole new season of life - the kids are 18, child support is over, and the house is very quiet. Honestly? I sometimes miss the frenzy and chaos of a full house! Darren joins me today for an update on our lives now that all of these changes have occurred. We'll tackle your listener questions: What does life feel like without child support? How do we support our young adult children? How do I expect to show up as a stepmom in the lives of my adult stepkids? What has changed in our marriage on the other side of this journey? Work with Jamie: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching Join Elevate: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/elevate Thanks to our sponsors: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. Cozy Earth | Go to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 40% off of your order Metabolic Reset Program | Get $350 off with the code JAMIE350 at https://www.jentherhn.com


