

Hot Water (fka Mind Your Manners)
Sara Jane Ho
Sara Jane unpacks the traditions, beliefs, and practices that continue to shape Chinese life—and what they mean for you. New episodes every Tuesday.
Want more? Follow along @sarajaneho and watch her Netflix show Mind Your Manners.
Want more? Follow along @sarajaneho and watch her Netflix show Mind Your Manners.
Episodes
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Mar 31, 2026 • 39min
Why Foot Soaks Work, Iron Isn’t Enough & I Microdose Mounjaro
From whether ionic foot soaks actually detox the body to why iron deficiency isn’t just about iron in Chinese medicine, Sara Jane breaks down the deeper patterns behind common health concerns. She also shares her approach to managing cravings and staying slim, and what thinning hair, sensitive scalp, and recurring dreams can reveal about your body and mind.
*On April 1, Mind Your Manners becomes Hot Water
*Shop Sara Jane Ho's TCM feminine care line and feng shui collection on www.antevorta.us Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 24, 2026 • 37min
Jaw Massages, Zodiac Years & Chinese Baddie Culture
Sara Jane shares what really happens when you try a buccal (intra-oral) massage — from releasing deep jaw tension to sculpting the face, she unpacks the “Chinese baddie” trend, navigating your returning zodiac year, vibrational chart readings vs. Bazi, and the honey-in-hot-water controversy through both TCM and Ayurvedic lenses. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 17, 2026 • 1h 5min
Low-Tox, Low-Stress — With The House CEO Nicole Jaques
Sara Jane sits down with Nicole Jaques to explore how hidden toxins in our homes — from cookware to cleaning products — may be affecting our health more than we realize.
*On April 1st Mind Your Manners becomes Hot Water — a name that better reflects the deeper conversations we’ve been having all along
*Shop Sara Jane's feng shui collection and feminine hygiene products on www.antevorta.us Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 10, 2026 • 26min
Why Dampness Is the Root of Everything, Jade Is “Alive” & Your Cycle Is Talking
In this episode, Sara Jane tackles your most-asked questions through the lens of Chinese medicine — why phlegm is more than just mucus, why jade is considered a “living” stone, and what period migraines, lower back pain, and dampness all have in common. She also shares how she achieves her signature perfectly shaped brows.
*On April 1, Mind Your Manners becomes Hot Water – a name that better reflects our deeper conversations on Eastern wellness and tradition, even down to drinking hot water.
*Shop Sara Jane Ho's TCM feminine care line and feng shui collection on www.antevorta.us Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 3, 2026 • 1h 7min
What Your Spine Is Trying to Tell You — Alignment, Sleep & the Brain with Dr. Ben Shamoiel
Dr. Ben Shamoiel, a chiropractor who specializes in drug-free spinal alignment and functional neurology, discusses how the spine shapes the nervous system, sleep, hormones, and overall health. Short segments explore tech-related posture damage, the atlas vertebra’s brainstem role, spinal links to digestion and fertility, and practical tips for sleep, menopause, and recovery.

Feb 24, 2026 • 59min
When Music Heals — The Spiritual Power of Sound with RY X
RY X, Grammy-nominated singer-songwriter known for spacious, healing music. He describes how silence, restraint and repetition let sound bypass the mind and touch the nervous system. He shares how nature, spiritual practice and grief shaped his creative honesty. He talks about holding emotional space in performance and why concerts can catalyze personal repair.

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Feb 17, 2026 • 34min
The Zodiac Beliefs That Shape Birth Rates in China
They explore why many parents in China avoid certain zodiac years and how that affects birth rates. They discuss traits tied to animal years like Goat, Horse and Dragon. Conversation covers feng shui tools for career energy and practical timing in the 12-year zodiac cycle. Cultural customs for Chinese New Year and myths behind the zodiac order also come up.

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Feb 10, 2026 • 36min
How Dating in China Is Nothing Like Dating in America
A lively look at how dating customs in China contrast with American norms. Topics include family-led vetting, financial requirements like house and car, and formal courtship rituals such as gifting soup. Conversation touches on dating app use, exclusivity expectations, timing of sex, emotional expression through actions, and social pressure to commit quickly.

Feb 3, 2026 • 29min
Cold Drinks, Blood Sugar Spikes & the Food Mistakes Women Make
Sara Jane answers your most-asked food questions—from whether air fryers are really better than microwaves to how acid reflux, period cravings, and blood sugar imbalances are viewed in Traditional Chinese Medicine.
*On April 1, Mind Your Manners becomes Hot Water – a name that better reflects our deeper conversations on Eastern wellness and tradition, even down to drinking hot water.
*Shop Sara Jane Ho's TCM feminine care line and feng shui collection on www.antevorta.us Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 27, 2026 • 1h 24min
Clearing Blocks, Claiming Freedom – with Frank Elaridi
Four-time Emmy-winning journalist turned energy healer Frank Elaridi joins Sara Jane to explore why people get stuck in repeating patterns and how to clear them. Frank breaks down plant medicine (psychedelics), breathwork, and how trapped emotions, sexual abuse and inherited trauma show up in real life.
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