Dear Future Husband

What if the confusion you’ve felt in dating… actually makes sense?In this episode, we’re doing something a little different. I sat down with three single Christian men in their 30s and asked them the questions we’ve all been wondering—the ones that keep us up at night, overthinking texts, mixed signals, and everything in between.What are they really thinking while dating? What actually matters to them? And why does it sometimes feel so confusing?They didn’t hold back.This conversation is honest, thoughtful, and full of perspective that might just shift the way you see dating—and men. If you’ve ever wished you could get inside a man’s mind and finally understand what’s going on… this episode is for you!Ready to invest in better quality meat? Save $25 on your first Good Ranchers Box with code "DFH" at https://go.goodranchers.com/dfhPray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

What if everything you’ve been told about submission, dating, and gender roles… isn’t the full story?In this powerful episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian Bevere sits down with Pastor Darren Whitehead from Church of the City for an honest, biblical conversation that challenges assumptions and calls believers back to truth.Together, they unpack what biblical submission really means—moving beyond cultural extremes and misunderstandings to rediscover God’s design for mutual honor, strength, and order in marriage. Is submission about silence and control, or is it something far deeper and more powerful?They also dive into dating through a biblical lens, asking the hard questions many avoid:How do you truly evaluate someone for marriage?Are you choosing based on feelings, or fruit?What does wisdom—not culture—say about compatibility?This conversation tackles the often controversial topic of gender roles in the Bible. What did Scripture actually intend? Where has the modern church gotten it right—or wrong? And how do we live this out in a way that reflects both truth and grace? Whether you’re single, dating, or preparing for marriage, this is a conversation you don’t want to miss.Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

In a world of casual dating and mixed signals, etiquette might be the most underrated advantage.In this episode of Dear Future Husband, I’m joined by Alison Chepernick from @ElevatedEtiquette to talk about the art of dating well. From how you present yourself on a first date to the subtle social skills that create genuine connection, Alison breaks down why etiquette is far more than knowing which fork to use—it’s about confidence, respect, and emotional intelligence.We dive into how to maintain high standards without becoming rigid, the small behaviors that instantly elevate your presence, and the hidden life skills etiquette teaches us that make dating smoother, more intentional, and actually enjoyable. Alison also shares practical tips on navigating modern dating with grace, setting the tone for meaningful interactions, and showing up as your best self—without losing authenticity.If you’ve ever wondered how to balance confidence with kindness, keep your standards high while staying open, and create dates that feel effortless and memorable, this conversation is for you.Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

What if the way you handle money right now is preparing — or disqualifying — you for the marriage you’re praying for?In this episode of Dear Future Husband, I sit down with Rachel Cruze from Ramsey Solutions to talk directly to single women about stewarding your finances with wisdom and intention, plus "investing" in your future marriage.We discuss:󠁯•󠁏Why your single season is the best time to build wealth󠁯•󠁏Money red flags in dating󠁯•󠁏How debt affects future marriage󠁯•󠁏Why married couples should share money󠁯•󠁏And moreIf you want a strong, unified marriage one day, it starts with how you steward what God has already placed in your hands.Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

What if singleness and marriage were never meant to be opposing seasons — but invitations to the same deeper goal?In this honest and hope-filled conversation, Lisa Harper shares her personal story of not choosing singleness — and discovering that Jesus meets us fully in the life we didn’t plan. Together, we explore the tension between longing for marriage and learning contentment, and unpack what Paul the Apostle truly meant when he wrote that singleness is a gift.Lisa opens up about grief, growth, unmet expectations, and the steady faithfulness of Christ. We look at the full context of 1 Corinthians 7, gently challenge cultural narratives, and reframe what it means to walk closely with Jesus in every season.Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

"I never thought I could love again… until I did."In this tender and honest episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Courtney Pray Duke shares what it’s like to open your heart after you were certain it was closed forever. After losing her first husband, love felt impossible — even unimaginable. The grief was heavy. The future felt rewritten. And the idea of loving another man felt both distant and complicated.Courtney vulnerably walks through the emotions no one prepares you for — the guilt, the fear, the questions, and the quiet hope that slowly returns. She talks about honoring her late husband while stepping into a new relationship, learning that moving forward doesn’t mean moving on, and discovering that the heart can expand in ways we never expect.If you’ve ever thought, “I’ll never love like that again,” this conversation is a reminder that healing doesn’t erase your past — it makes room for a future. And sometimes, love finds you when you least expect it.Find "And She Got Back Up" here: https://amzn.to/3OnNigqPray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

Valentine’s Day can make singleness feel louder than usual. But what if this season isn’t about waiting — it’s about preparation?In this special episode, I share 3 ways to intentionally prepare for marriage as a single woman who desires a godly relationship. We talk mindset shifts, dating with clarity, emotional readiness, and becoming the woman you’re asking God to bless.You’ll also hear a live Q&A where I answer honest questions about dating, standards, and how to stay hopeful.This conversation was recorded during our first-ever live taping at a Galentine’s celebration — a room full of women choosing growth in their single season.Because you’re not just single.You’re in preparation.Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

What do you do when following Jesus puts tension in your closest relationships, especially with your family?In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian Bevere sits down with Sazan Hendrix to talk honestly about navigating faith, love, and obedience when the people you love most are not on the same page. Raised in a Middle Eastern Kurdish family, Sazan shares how unexpectedly falling in love with a Christian boy changed her life forever.We touch on topics such as:How do you honor your parents when they do not share your beliefs?How do you walk in obedience without hardening your heart or burning bridges?The cost of choosing faith and the pain of misunderstanding, and the slow, faithful work of God in redeeming relationships.This episode is for anyone navigating love across different backgrounds, carrying the weight of family expectations, or praying for God’s hand over their future marriage. It is a reminder that when you trust God with your love story, He is able to honor your faith, redeem what feels fractured, and write a story that is far more beautiful than you could plan on your own.Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

Women carry a powerful key to connection—but most have no idea they even have it.In this powerful episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with bestselling author and relationship expert Dr. Emerson Eggerichs to unpack how men and women are uniquely wired by God—and how misunderstanding those differences can quietly sabotage our relationships.In this episode, we explore:1. Why conflict so often goes wrong between men and women2. How our natural wiring shapes the way we give and receive love3. The hidden cycle that fuels misunderstanding and emotional distance4. The often-overlooked power women carry for deep connection—a power many don’t even realize they haveThis conversation brings biblical truth, practical wisdom, and eye-opening insight that will challenge the way you see relationships, communication, and your own influence within them. Whether you’re single, dating, or preparing for marriage, this episode will help you navigate relationships with greater clarity, grace, and purpose.__Find Dr. Emerson's new book, Lightbulb Moments in Marriage, here: https://www.amazon.com/Lightbulb-Moments-Marriage-Perspectives-Successful/dp/1400352169Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

In our second conversation, with my father-in-law and renowned author, John Bevere, he confronts the spiritual roots shaping modern relationships. We explore how sin nature influences attraction, why God’s design for marriage clashes with today’s dating culture, and how compromise—often mistaken for chemistry—can quietly cost us covenant.Drawing from biblical truth and traditional Jewish courtship, John challenges common dating patterns and unpacks why so many Christian women (and men) find themselves choosing the wrong partners again and again. This episode calls listeners to move from emotion-led decisions to discernment rooted in truth.Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.