Submission is Being Taken Out of Context ft. Pastor Darren Whitehead

What if everything you’ve been told about submission, dating, and gender roles… isn’t the full story?

In this powerful episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian Bevere sits down with Pastor Darren Whitehead from Church of the City for an honest, biblical conversation that challenges assumptions and calls believers back to truth.

Together, they unpack what biblical submission really means—moving beyond cultural extremes and misunderstandings to rediscover God’s design for mutual honor, strength, and order in marriage. Is submission about silence and control, or is it something far deeper and more powerful?

They also dive into dating through a biblical lens, asking the hard questions many avoid:

• How do you truly evaluate someone for marriage?
• Are you choosing based on feelings, or fruit?
• What does wisdom—not culture—say about compatibility?

This conversation tackles the often controversial topic of gender roles in the Bible. What did Scripture actually intend? Where has the modern church gotten it right—or wrong? And how do we live this out in a way that reflects both truth and grace? Whether you’re single, dating, or preparing for marriage, this is a conversation you don’t want to miss.

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