

How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast
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How to Get the Girl (formerly Ask Women) is the podcast where men finally learn what actually works with women.
Hosted by Your Wing Girl, Marni Kinrys, and banter coach Kristen Carney, this weekly show breaks down attraction, dating, confidence, and communication — without the guesswork, games, or outdated advice.
Every week, we bring you real talk from regular women, celebrities, relationship experts, and strong, opinionated females who tell you exactly what makes them lean in… and what makes them walk away.
No fluff.
No theory.
Just honest female insight and practical tools you can use immediately to get the girl — and keep her.
New episodes every week.
Hosted by Your Wing Girl, Marni Kinrys, and banter coach Kristen Carney, this weekly show breaks down attraction, dating, confidence, and communication — without the guesswork, games, or outdated advice.
Every week, we bring you real talk from regular women, celebrities, relationship experts, and strong, opinionated females who tell you exactly what makes them lean in… and what makes them walk away.
No fluff.
No theory.
Just honest female insight and practical tools you can use immediately to get the girl — and keep her.
New episodes every week.
Episodes
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Mar 9, 2026 • 46min
(Video) What the top 1% of men do differently that attracts all women (and it's not looks or money)
Kit Barris, OnlyFans creator with degrees in math and psychology, shares patterns she’s seen from thousands of interactions. She discusses why behavior beats looks or money. Topics include confident competence, handling rejection with independence, subtle signals of interest, respectful approaches that create intrigue, and complimenting in ways that actually land.

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Feb 26, 2026 • 17min
The Biggest Female TURN ON of ALL Time? (Over 10,000 Women Surveyed)
A reveal of the single biggest thing that truly turns women on, according to a large survey. A bar story contrasts desperation with relaxed confidence to show what works. Clear definition of outcome independence and why it signals value. Three actionable tips to become outcome independent, plus exercises to desensitize rejection and boost options.

Feb 23, 2026 • 12min
How To "Attract" Women WITHOUT Saying A Word | The "Natural" Effect
Learn to do AFTER the attraction phase to keep the girl here: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/beyond_attraction_skills
In this episode, Marni reveals 3 scientific reason why SIZE doesn't matter to women. It is a false belief that so many guys have that the bigger you are, the better you are in bed BUT that is 100% not true. This video shows you the truth about size and how to use what you got so you can be an amazing in the bedroom with women ;)
MORE TIPS, ADVICE & SECRETS ABOUT WOMEN: http://www.winggirlmethod.com
Top dating advice for men coming directly from a woman! Marni is now your personal Wing Girl and she's going to tell you how to attract women, date women, seduce women and get any woman you want. She's helped 100's of thousands of men around the world be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you!
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Feb 23, 2026 • 28min
Here’s Why Flirting FAILS on 90% of Women
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Why does the same flirting move work on one woman but completely fail on another?
It's not random—it's because there are 4 distinct types of women, and each one responds to a completely different approach.
In this episode, Wing Girl Nadia breaks down our DISC chart that categorizes women into 4 personality types. You'll learn how to quickly identify which category a woman falls into, and exactly how to approach, flirt, and connect with her based on her type.
Once you understand this framework, you'll never waste time using the wrong tactic on the wrong woman again. You'll know within minutes of meeting her exactly how to create attraction.
If you've ever wondered why "being yourself" works sometimes but not others—this episode explains everything.
📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/G4cXVFxabO4
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Feb 19, 2026 • 18min
How To "Attract" Women WITHOUT Saying A Word | The "Natural" Effect
Learn how nonverbal signals shape first impressions and attraction. Discover eye contact timing that builds presence and trust. Hear posture tweaks and hand gestures that project confidence. Find out how authentic smiles and a well-timed smirk can up your flirt game.

Feb 17, 2026 • 7min
Private Message From Marni
The Ask Women Podcast is getting a little facelift. Moving forward our show will be called What Turns Women On and we’ll air 2 episodes a week.Same heart. Same purpose and same goal of helping amazing men get the women they want and become the men they’ve always want to be.Marni will be your host, your best female friend and your own personal Wing Girl. She’s heard it all before and will deliver the best of the best insider information to help you turn women on.New episodes every Monday and Thursday.Help us by leaving a review and sharing our podcast!It’s time to turn women on! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 3, 2026 • 1h 17min
Ep. 563 Misconceptions Of What Women Want
What women want is one of the most misunderstood topics in dating and this episode proves exactly why. In this throwback conversation Marni sits down with comedian Graham Elwood for a candid funny and sometimes controversial discussion about dating attraction and the stories men tell themselves about women.They break down the biggest misconceptions that keep men confused frustrated and stuck including why common advice misses the mark how mixed signals get misread and what women actually respond to versus what men think they do.This episode is part debate part reality check and packed with insights that will challenge how you see dating and attraction.>>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews.>>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide>>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty
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Jan 27, 2026 • 1h 22min
Ep. 562 A Bad Boy Women Want
Nadine Piat, an Australian dating and relationship coach who helps people with self-worth and communication. She unpacks what women mean by wanting a "bad boy" and how to blend confidence, boundaries, and emotional leadership. Short takes cover avoiding arrogance, why consistency beats chaos, and concrete ways to be exciting yet reliable.

Jan 20, 2026 • 1h 7min
Ep. 561 How to Escape the Friend Zone
Dun dun dunnnn. The dreaded friend zone. We have all landed there and it can feel like the Bermuda Triangle of dating. Once you are in it feels nearly impossible to get out.In this throwback episode we break down why the friend zone happens in the first place what mistakes keep you stuck there and what actually shifts attraction so a woman starts seeing you differently. You will learn how to change the dynamic without awkward conversations pressure or gimmicks.If you have ever been told you are such a great guy but felt invisible romantically this episode will help you understand what is really going on and how to finally escape the friend zone for good.>>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty
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Jan 13, 2026 • 26min
Ep. 560 What Really Turns Women On
Most dating advice is generic outdated and honestly pretty cringey. In this episode Marni sits down with Dr Jennifer Berman New York Times bestselling author and renowned urologist to have an honest conversation about attraction emotional connection and what actually turns women on.They talk about why desire starts in the mind how emotional safety impacts sexual chemistry and what men often misunderstand when it comes to intimacy. This episode also dives into real world topics like sexual confidence aging communication sexual compatibility menopause perimenopause and the insecurities both men and women experience as they get older.If you want real insight into how women think feel and experience attraction without gimmicks or surface level advice this episode will give you a deeper more honest perspective.>>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty
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