Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Trust is a fundamental pillar in both romantic and non-monogamous relationships, yet it's incredibly fragile. The podcast delves into the complexities of trust, highlighting how past experiences shape our willingness to trust after betrayal. It emphasizes the need for mutual acknowledgment of mistakes and the role of honesty in rebuilding connections. Balancing intuition and rationality is key, along with fostering open communication. Through shared insights, the speakers explore how trust evolves and can be strengthened even after significant breaches.

Dive into the realities of sexual health, breaking down the stigma surrounding STIs. Explore the risks of infections like chlamydia and herpes, and learn why regular testing matters. The discussion emphasizes the significance of open communication in relationships, along with personal responsibility in polyamorous dynamics. Discover the emotional implications of HPV and the importance of vaccination. Overall, it's a candid conversation aimed at empowering listeners to take charge of their sexual health through knowledge and awareness.

Kitty Stryker, a feminist writer and queer activist, delves into the critical theme of consent culture. She explores how consent extends beyond the bedroom into daily life, emphasizing open dialogue and personal autonomy. The conversation navigates the complexities of consent dynamics across various relationship types, promoting accountability and compassion. Stryker also humorously discusses unsolicited medical advice, raising awareness about power dynamics in professional relationships. Join her in advocating for a more conscious approach to consent in all interactions.

The Multiamory crew answers common questions about polyamory, exploring its practice and distinguishing it from other forms of non-monogamy. They address misconceptions about polyamorous relationships and discuss the importance of communication with metamores. The podcast also delves into different relationship models in polyamory and emphasizes the importance of treating all partners with kindness and respect.

Conflict is a natural part of relationships, but it can lead to growth instead of negativity. The hosts share tools for constructive resolution, including regular check-ins to address issues before they escalate. They explore personal conflict tactics, emotional manipulation, and harmful behaviors like contempt. Strategies for managing fights in the moment, writing out competing narratives, and using communication techniques are discussed. Lastly, they highlight the importance of reconnection through positive activities after disagreements.

Relationship Anarchy: what is it? Who invented it? Does it mean overthrowing the relationship government? This week we're looking at the original relationship anarchy manifesto written by Andie Nordgren and discussing what it all means and how it can apply to your relationships.Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Whatever you want to learn, MasterClass has something for you, taught by experts in their fields. Support the show and keep learning at multiamory.link/masterclass.Skillshare is an online learning community with thousands of classes for creators. Everything from graphic design and video editing to photography, writing, and business. Get a free month of Skilllshare at multiamory.link/skillshare.Record your own podcast or videos with the same platform as us! Check out multiamory.link/riverside to try it yourself for free.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we're talking about consciously choosing to stay single! Can staying single be just as emotionally valuable as being in a relationship? We have some surprising statistics as well as a look at how "single" can have a different meaning when you are a relationship anarchist or even if you're polyamorous.Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Whatever you want to learn, MasterClass has something for you, taught by experts in their fields. Support the show and keep learning at multiamory.link/masterclass.Skillshare is an online learning community with thousands of classes for creators. Everything from graphic design and video editing to photography, writing, and business. Get a free month of Skilllshare at multiamory.link/skillshare.Record your own podcast or videos with the same platform as us! Check out multiamory.link/riverside to try it yourself for free.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The discussion delves into the popular trend of labeling ex-partners as narcissists, examining how this term has evolved in society. Personal anecdotes highlight the need for deeper understanding rather than casual diagnoses. The podcast explores the myth of Narcissus, illustrating its relevance in modern relationships. It emphasizes the spectrum of narcissism, distinguishing between healthy self-interest and pathological traits. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their breakup narratives and the implications of how we talk about relationships.

Discover the benefits of the RADAR method for relationship check-ins and creating a safe space. Learn tips for navigating intense conversations and setting topics for discussion. Explore how action points can implement changes in relationships and the importance of reconnecting through appreciation.

The podcast dives into the nuances of FOMO, particularly how social media intensifies feelings of missing out. It explores its historical roots and psychological effects, especially in the context of relationships and polyamory. Listeners learn about creating social media rules to manage insecurities in romantic dynamics. Personal experiences of reverse FOMO among digital nomads are shared. Valuable strategies for overcoming these feelings are discussed, emphasizing gratitude and meaningful connections over passive scrolling.