REALIFE Conversations for Christian Coaches

Who am I really? At one point or another, most all of us wrestle with this question!  As a Type 9, Enneagram author of "Self to Lose – Self to Find: A Biblical Approach to the 9 Enneagram Types", Marilyn Vancil says identifying her type was a relief initially! "At first, I was just glad to be 'somebody.'" As Marilyn has continued the deep work of discovering her not only her best authentic Type 9 qualities, she also has become aware of her adaptive behaviors as well. On this episode, Marilyn shares through the lens of a transforming Type 9 about: Taking her hobbies and interests and turning them into a calling Learning that her voice matters Navigating seasons of transition Moving toward action Join the conversation as we dive in and discover the power of the paradox–how truly losing yourself can be the very thing that leads you to find yourself.  About our Guest: Marilyn Vancil is a trained spiritual director, life coach, and Certified Enneagram Professional in the Narrative Tradition through Enneagram Worldwide. She facilitates introductory and advanced workshops on the Enneagram for individuals and couples. She practices in Seattle where she enjoys life with her husband, Jeff.  To purchase an autographed copy of Marilyn's book, "Self to Lose – Self to Find: A Biblical Approach to the 9 Enneagram Types" visit her website www.marilynvancil.com.  To connect with Marilyn Vancil:  www.marilynvancil.com Instagram: marilynvancil Facebook: Marilyn Vancil Author Twitter: @MarilynVancil REALIFE Shout Outs:  Recently our REALIFE Process® Team traveled to Marshall, MI for an Enneagram Certification with our teachers and friends, Scott and Clare Loughrige. We stayed an at amazing Bed and Breakfast called, Villa on Verona. Katy Banfield is the owner of this lovely historic home and an extraordinary hostess! If you're passing through Marshall, MI make sure to book a stay at Villa on Verona!  So what are you doing to up your game this summer? The REALIFE Process® would love to connect with you! Email Teresa at teresa@teresamccloy.com and share what trainings you're attending, how you're growing, or desiring to go deeper in your REALSELF, REALIFE, or REALWORK! If you're newer to the podcast or the Enneagram, welcome to the journey! Make sure to go back to visit these episodes to learn more about your Enneagram Type, Harmony Triad and moving FULL CIRCLE! Episode 001: What's Your Type Episode 002: All the Way Around the Circle Feel free to submit a question for the Enneagram In Your REALIFE Podcast with the subject: “Question for the Podcast” to podcast@teresamccloy.com To discover your Enneagram type and Harmony Triad, here are a few tools: CLICK FOR THE FREE ENNEAGRAM IN YOUR REALIFE TYPING GUIDE Take an Enneagram in Your REALIFE Assessment and process it with a REALIFE Coach–visit https://teresamccloy.com/work-with-me/  Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on: Facebook- Teresa McCloy Coaching Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloycoach  Work with the REALIFE Process®: Visit https://teresamccloy.com/work-with-me/ to see many of the ways we can partner together!  JOIN THE REALIFE PROCESS TRIBE About Teresa McCloy: Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, an Executive Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!

What would it make possible in your life or business if you could reframe taking some S.P.A.C.E. to “reset” not as a failure, but as an opportunity? The struggle is REAL–we all get stuck! Even with the most organized 90 day plans, holidays come, sickness happens, roadblocks appear and we get distracted and have a hard time moving forward with the projects we've set out to accomplish. The good news is there is a way to refocus and reengage with a renewed passion to build momentum once again!  On this episode, we'll focus on a 5 step method we call S.P.A.C.E. at the REALIFE Process®. This acronym gives us tangible ways to create the space we need to take a bigger picture view and really evaluate the direction in which we're moving and what next steps need to be.  Make sure to download the FREE S.P.A.C.E. Reset Resource that accompanies this episode to see the steps in detail!  Click here to download the FREE REALIFE Enneagram S.P.A.C.E. Reset Resource This episode is part of the REALIFE Enneagram Series that focuses on applying the tool of the Enneagram to our everyday, ordinary lives!  To discover your Enneagram type and Harmony Triad, here are a few tools: CLICK FOR THE FREE ENNEAGRAM IN YOUR REALIFE TYPING GUIDE Take an Enneagram in Your REALIFE Assessment and process it with a REALIFE Coach–visit https://teresamccloy.com/work-with-me/  Feel free to submit a question for the Enneagram In Your REALIFE Podcast with the subject: “Question for the Podcast” to podcast@teresamccloy.com Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on: Facebook- Teresa McCloy Coaching Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloycoach Work with the REALIFE Process®: Visit https://teresamccloy.com/work-with-me/ to see many of the ways we can partner together!  JOIN THE REALIFE PROCESS TRIBE About Teresa McCloy: Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, an Executive Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!

What does it mean to live FULL CIRCLE in your work? Dan Miller knows that a great majority of helping others comes from looking inward first! He believes that the way to have confidence about proper direction in your life comes 85% from looking inward first and the other 15% of it is application!  On this episode, we'll explore: Dan's wisdom and insight into his organization–48 Days Eagles Time Management for Dan as a Type 5  Dan's new awareness of FULL CIRCLE living through Head, Heart, and Gut About our Guest: Dan Miller, President of 48 Days LLC, specializes in creative thinking for increased personal and business success. He believes that meaningful work blends our natural skills and abilities, our unique personality traits and our dreams and passions. Dan is active in helping individuals redirect careers, evaluate new income sources, and achieve balanced living. He believes that a clear sense of direction can help us become all that God designed us to be. Dan is the author of the New York Times best-selling 48 Days To The Work You Love, No More Dreaded Mondays and Wisdom Meets Passion. He has been a guest on CBS’ ‘The Early Show,’ MSNBC’s ‘Hardball with Chris Mathews,’ Moody MidDay Connection, and the Dave Ramsey Show. Dan has spoken at the White House Christian Fellowship and is in high demand at national conferences speaking on aging and changes in the workplace as well as at universities and churches.  Over 130,000 people have subscribed to his weekly newsletter, his 48 Days Podcast consistently ranks in the top 3 under Careers on iTunes, and the 48Dayseagles.com business community is viewed as an example around the world for those seeking to find – or create – work they love.  Book Dan to speak or check out 48 Days products at www.48Days.com. To connect with Dan Miller:  https://www.48days.com/ https://www.48dayseagles.com/ Thank you for listening to the podcast! We've hit a milestone in the past couple of weeks with our audience and it's because of faithful listeners like you!  If you're newer to the podcast or the Enneagram, welcome to the journey! Make sure to go back to visit these episodes to learn more about your Enneagram Type, Harmony Triad and moving FULL CIRCLE! Episode 001: What's Your Type Episode 002: All the Way Around the Circle Feel free to submit a question for the Enneagram In Your REALIFE Podcast with the subject: “Question for the Podcast” to podcast@teresamccloy.com To discover your Enneagram type and Harmony Triad, here are a few tools: CLICK FOR THE FREE ENNEAGRAM IN YOUR REALIFE TYPING GUIDE Take an Enneagram in Your REALIFE Assessment and process it with a REALIFE Coach–visit https://teresamccloy.com/work-with-me/  Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on: Facebook- Teresa McCloy Coaching Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloycoach Work with the REALIFE Process®: Visit https://teresamccloy.com/work-with-me/ to see many of the ways we can partner together!  JOIN THE REALIFE PROCESS TRIBE About Teresa McCloy: Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, an Executive Business Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!

How do you naturally walk into a room? What does it look like for you to show up automatically without a script or off the cuff in relationships?  Whether we are aware of it or not, we all bring energy as we walk into a room and as we interact in relationships with others! It's the natural way we move! Enneagram professional and author, Suzanne Stabile refers to this movement as the "Stances." In her book, The Path Between Us she says, "In everyday language, stance describes how we stand or carry ourselves. It's much the same in the Enneagram: stance indicates a posture or attitude that is a habitual, patterned way of responding to experiences. It's the default mode for how a number behaves."  On this episode, we'll explore the three stances: the Aggressive Stance, the Dependent Stance, and the Withdrawing Stance and how they relate to each Enneagram Type through the Harmony Model. As we find, again and again, the Harmony Model brings us FULL CIRCLE to allow us access to each of the three stances within our natural, authentic personality through the triads!  This is just the beginning of our REALIFE Enneagram Series that focuses specifically on applying the Harmony Model of the Enneagram to everyday life!  For more information on the Stances check out these great resources mentioned in this episode: The Path Between Us: An Enneagram Journey to Healthy Relationships by Suzanne Stabile The Wisdom of the Enneagram by Don Riso & Russ Hudson Thank you for listening to the podcast! We've hit a milestone this past week with our audience and it's because of faithful listeners like you!  If you're newer to the podcast or the Enneagram, welcome to the journey! Make sure to go back to visit these episodes to learn more about your Enneagram Type, Harmony Triad and moving FULL CIRCLE! Episode 001: What's Your Type Episode 002: All the Way Around the Circle Feel free to submit a question for the Enneagram In Your REALIFE Podcast with the subject: “Question for the Podcast” to podcast@teresamccloy.com To discover your Enneagram type and Harmony Triad, here are a few tools: CLICK FOR THE FREE ENNEAGRAM IN YOUR REALIFE TYPING GUIDE Take an Enneagram in Your REALIFE Assessment and process it with a REALIFE Coach–visit https://teresamccloy.com/work-with-me/  Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on: Facebook- Teresa McCloy Coaching Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloycoach Work with the REALIFE Process®: Visit https://teresamccloy.com/work-with-me/ to see many of the ways we can partner together!  JOIN THE REALIFE PROCESS TRIBE About Teresa McCloy: Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, an Executive Business Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!

What do you get when you blend two transforming tools together? The Enneagram + Essential Oils = Greater HARMONY for your head, heart, and body!  On this episode, you'll explore the Enneagram through a whole new sense! The REALIFE Process® is excited to be partnering with Kari Coody from a Natural Shift to bring the Enneagram and Essential Oils Experience!  The Enneagram Harmony Triad Model connects each of us to our head, heart, and body centers of intelligence. Combining the Harmony Triad model with an oil for each Enneagram Type as well as Harmony Blends for each triad helps to move us forward to live as our most authentic, best REALSELF!  Kari Coody is a pharmacist turned natural health + self-investment expert. She is co-founder and owner of a Natural Shift, a space to help others take small daily steps toward real progress and lasting change in their lives.  She is passionate about helping others discover and bring forth what has been within them all along, therefore truly allowing them to shine!  To connect with Kari Coody at A Natural Shift:  Website: https://anaturalshift.com/ Insta: @karicoody Facebook: /aNaturalShift Podcast: Take the Upgrade https://anaturalshift.com/podcast/ Click here to download the Enneagram and Essential Oils REALIFE Guide!  Submit a question for the Enneagram In Your REALIFE Podcast with the subject: “Question for the Podcast” to podcast@teresamccloy.com To discover your Enneagram type, here are a few tools: CLICK FOR THE FREE ENNEAGRAM IN YOUR REALIFE TYPING GUIDE Take an Enneagram in Your REALIFE Assessment–visit https://teresamccloy.com/work-with-me/  To celebrate the Enneagram and Oils partnership, if you purchase an Enneagram in Your REALIFE Assessment Package, the REALIFE Process will send you a FREE Essential Oil roller bottle blend for your Harmony Triad! Just write the keyword: OILS on the checkout page in response to "How did you connect with the Enneagram Assessment?" Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on: Facebook- Teresa McCloy Coaching Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloycoach Work with the REALIFE Process®: Enneagram In Your REALIFE Assessment Package JOIN THE REALIFE PROCESS TRIBE About Teresa McCloy Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, a Business Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!

Personality profiles are amazing tools to help us know our best REALSELF in order to live our best REALIFE and do our best REALWORK! Ashley Logsdon is an expert in the DiSC Profile and works in her business, Mama Says Namaste to, "take families from surviving to thriving by helping them uncover how 'the uniqueness in each of us strengthens all of us'. As Ashley guides parents through identifying their strengths - and also their triggers - it opens to the door to connection. Even with children, parents have to remember their own voice in the home."   On this episode, we'll explore the Enneagram and the DiSC Profile and notice what wisdom we can gain from each personality tool! Ashley has great tips for using the DiSC with young families, parents, or even kids!   To connect with Ashley Logsdon:  Website: www.MamaSaysNamaste.com Insta: @MamaSaysNamaste, @FieldTripGypsies Facebook and Pinterest: /MamaSaysNamaste CLICK HERE to download the FREE REALIFE Process® Enneagram and DiSC Profile Resource Submit a question for the Enneagram In Your REALIFE Podcast with the subject: “Question for the Podcast” to podcast@teresamccloy.com To discover your Enneagram type, here are a few tools: CLICK FOR THE FREE ENNEAGRAM IN YOUR REALIFE TYPING GUIDE Take an Enneagram in Your REALIFE Assessment–visit https://teresamccloy.com/work-with-me/  Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on: Facebook- Teresa McCloy Coaching Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloycoach Work with the REALIFE Process®: Enneagram In Your REALIFE Assessment Package JOIN THE REALIFE PROCESS TRIBE About Teresa McCloy Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, a Business Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!

What do you get when you bring Enneagram Types 1, 3, 4, and 9 together? Beautiful opportunities to practice HARMONY!  On this episode, Doug and Adele Calhoun and Scott and Clare Loughrige, the four authors of the brand new book, Spiritual Rhythms for the Enneagram: A Handbook for Harmony and Transformation come together to share insights from writing the book, practices to live out the Enneagram in Your REALIFE, Enneagram harmony, and more!  Spiritual Rhythms for the Enneagram is for anyone who knows their Enneagram type and wonders, "What's next?" This handbook is the answer!  Tune into this great conversation as we talk specifically about: Soul Resources: STOP for Harmony (to practice opening to transformation) Work Styles and Harmony Moving from Empathy to Compassion Enneagram in Hiring/Teamwork We're so grateful for this amazing new resource, Spiritual Rhythms for the Enneagram!  Connect with the Authors, Doug & Adele Calhoun and Clare & Scott Loughrige:  Purchase the book: Spiritual Rhythms for the Enneagram: A Handbook for Harmony & Transformation Visit the book website: http://enneagramharmonytriadstransform.com/ Connect on Facebook: Spiritual Rhythms for the Enneagram Group Doug & Adele Calhoun- calhounministries.org Speaking Spiritual Direction Facilitated Discernment Spiritual Pilgrimage (July 7-17, 2019) Visit the website to see additional books authored by Adele Calhoun Scott & Clare Loughrige- scottandclareloughrige.org ©iEnneagram Motions of the Soul Certification & Training (June 4-7, 2019 & January 2020) Enneagram in Christianity Podcast Visit the website to see additional books authored by Clare Loughrige Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on: Facebook- Teresa McCloy Coaching Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloycoach CLICK FOR THE FREE ENNEAGRAM IN YOUR REALIFE TYPING GUIDE Submit a question for the Enneagram In Your REALIFE Podcast with the subject: “Question for the Podcast” to podcast@teresamccloy.com. Work with the REALIFE Process™: Enneagram In Your REALIFE Assessment Package JOIN THE REALIFE PROCESS TRIBE About Teresa McCloy Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process™, a Business Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, creators, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK! 

What could a deeper discovery of your Enneagram type make possible? The Enneagram is an amazing tool to help you explore both your authentic and adaptive behaviors. Beyond the discovery of your type and triad, there are ways to live out the Enneagram in Your REALIFE in some really practical ways!  On this episode, you'll get a backstage pass to listen in to a LIVE Client Enneagram Assessment Review Session with special guest, Carol Cox as she discovers her Enneagram home space.  Carol Cox is the founder of Speaking Your Brand, which helps high-performing, purpose-driven women entrepreneurs and professionals create their signature talks (keynote, TEDx, business presentation) to grow their business and become recognized as influencers in their fields. Carol is the host of the Speaking Your Brand podcast and a sought-after speaker and trainer on public speaking, business storytelling, and women’s leadership. To connect with Carol Cox, visit: https://www.speakingyourbrand.com If you're interested in taking an Enneagram assessment and processing your results with Teresa: Take an Enneagram in Your REALIFE Assessment–visit https://teresamccloy.com/work-with-me/ (In addition to working with individual clients, we also work with teams and couples at the REALIFE Process® to discover the Enneagram.)  CLICK FOR THE FREE ENNEAGRAM IN YOUR REALIFE TYPING GUIDE Submit a question for the Enneagram In Your REALIFE Podcast with the subject: “Question for the Podcast” to podcast@teresamccloy.com Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on: Facebook- Teresa McCloy Coaching Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloycoach Work with the REALIFE Process®: Enneagram In Your REALIFE Assessment Package JOIN THE REALIFE PROCESS TRIBE About Teresa McCloy Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, a Business Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!

REALIFE stories matter. In this special edition of the podcast, I'll share some of my REALIFE story through the lens of the Enneagram. We’ll begin with the beloved Children’s Classic, The Velveteen Rabbit, and talk about how it weaves into my personal journey of becoming REAL, my family’s story through joy and sorrow, and even my business, The REALIFE Process®. Both the Velveteen Rabbit and the tool of the Enneagram have been instrumental for my family in the journey of becoming REAL. Through the hardship and pain of our son's addiction to drugs and alcohol, we learned so much as a family about our own REALSELF stories, the journey to recovery, and the invitation to embrace the moments.  The transformation continues, “...but once you are REAL you can’t become unreal again. It lasts for always.”  Thank you for listening to my REALIFE story. I would love to hear your story and invite you to share with me through my email at teresa@teresamccloy.com.  And remember, "Every Ordinary Day has Extraordinary Moments–You Just Have to Look for Them."   Podcast Resources One Life Maps by Sharon Swing & Sibyl Towner For Families or Loved Ones Struggling with Addiction:  Al-Anon Alcoholics Anonymous Narcotics Anonymous Thank you again for taking the time to listen to the podcast. We love hearing your feedback! To submit a question for the Enneagram in Your REALIFE Podcast, send an email with the subject: "Question for the Podcast" to podcast@teresamccloy.com. One of the greatest compliments you can pay us as a listener is to share the podcast with family, friends, and on your social media! Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on: Facebook- Teresa McCloy Coaching Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloycoach Work with the REALIFE Process™: REALIFE Productivity Process 2.0 Online Course Enneagram In Your REALIFE Assessment Package JOIN THE REALIFE PROCESS TRIBE CLICK FOR THE FREE ENNEAGRAM IN YOUR REALIFE TYPING GUIDE Visit teresamccloy.com and click on the WORK WITH ME tab for more information! About Teresa McCloy Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process™, a Business Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, creators, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!

Leadership, Teams, and Coaching Circles, oh my! Nancy Beach brings years of experience and invaluable wisdom through the tool of the Enneagram as a Leadership Coach, Pastor, Speaker and more.  Nancy has always been a passionate champion for artists and leaders in the local church. For over 20 years she served as the Programming Director for Willow Creek Community Church in suburban Chicago, building a community of artists who sought to create transformational moments in Sunday morning church services. Nancy also served as a Teaching Pastor, periodically bringing the weekend message. Currently, Nancy serves as a leadership coach with the SlingShot Group, helping church leaders and teams to flourish in life and ministry. Nancy also uses her teaching gifts to cast vision at conferences and workshops, for both artists and women in leadership. In her book, An Hour on Sunday, Nancy expresses the core vision and values which she believes are foundational to any effective arts ministry. Nancy’s second book is titled: Gifted to Lead: The Art of Leading as a Woman in the Church. Nancy and her husband Warren live in the village of Barrington, Illinois with their dog, Beanie. They serve at Soul City Church in downtown Chicago where Nancy is on the Teaching Team. Their two daughters, Samantha and Johanna, are both theatrical artists. To connect with Nancy Beach, visit: www.nancylbeach.com or email Nancy at nancylbeach@gmail.com For more information on Nancy's Worship Arts Coaching Circle, that begins soon, click here! Submit a question for the Enneagram In Your REALIFE Podcast with the subject: “Question for the Podcast” to podcast@teresamccloy.com To discover your Enneagram type, here are a few tools: CLICK FOR THE FREE ENNEAGRAM IN YOUR REALIFE TYPING GUIDE Take an Enneagram in Your REALIFE Assessment–visit https://teresamccloy.com/work-with-me/  Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on: Facebook- Teresa McCloy Coaching Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloycoach Work with the REALIFE Process®: Enneagram In Your REALIFE Assessment Package JOIN THE REALIFE PROCESS TRIBE About Teresa McCloy Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, a Business Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!