Waking Up to Narcissism

Ever lost an argument you know you should have won — but couldn't explain why? That's not a coincidence. It's a strategy called "The Pop."Tony Overbay, LMFT, introduces a powerful new framework for understanding one of the most disorienting dynamics in emotionally immature and narcissistic relationships: paltering — using technically true statements to build a completely false picture of reality. Through vivid storytelling, real listener examples, and the unforgettable journey of a popcorn kernel named Kevin, Tony names the mechanism that has left so many people feeling crazy when they were actually catching something real.In this episode, you'll discover:What "The Pop" is and why a single kernel of truth can expand into a narrative that fills the entire room — mostly airHow paltering differs from outright lying, and why your brain's alarm system doesn't fire the way it normally wouldReal stories from The Kernel Collection — listener-submitted examples of half-truths weaponized in relationshipsWhy you became a "court reporter" in your own relationship, and why that's an adaptation — not a flawHow implicit memory — your body's record of every conversation that left you smaller — is the one thing The Pop can't touchWith over 1,500 couples counseled and hundreds of clients navigating narcissistic relationship dynamics, Tony delivers both the clinical framework and the emotional validation this topic demands.If you've ever told yourself, "I can't point to a specific lie — so maybe I'm the problem," this episode will change how you see every confusing conversation you've ever had. 00:00 Popcorn Obsession01:36 Kernel Origin Story02:46 Kevin Pops05:48 Truth Becomes Weapon09:33 Show Intro Concept12:38 Paltering Half Truths16:49 NXIVM Big Example20:31 Long Term Erosion21:38 Lauren Pattern Example24:04 Listener Stories25:56 Dinner Drinks Story29:55 Flat Tire Example30:22 Flat Tire Blame Shift32:12 Confabulated Hero Narrative33:38 Money Versus Love Trap34:41 Doctor Appointment Reversal36:26 Sorry But Apology38:21 Why The Pop Works40:24 Court Reporter Survival43:16 Mindfulness And Runway45:37 Boundaries Not Ultimatums52:10 Trust Implicit Memory53:50 Orienting Steps Forward55:20 Differentiation And Crucible01:01:44 Closing TakeawaysLearn more at tonyoverbay.com and explore the Magnetic Marriage course for relationships where both people want to do the work.Please follow Tony on Instagram @virtual.couch on Tiktok @virtualcouch on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tonyoverbaylmft and on Substack https://thevirtualcouch.substack.com/ You can reach out to Tony through his website tonyoverbay.com or by emailing contact @ tonyoverbay.com

"I was triggered" vs. "I chose"—what if both are true, and neither gets to the real problem?When a listener sent Tony a viral video challenging people to replace "I was triggered" with "I chose," it sparked a deeper conversation about accountability, nervous system science, and the shame-based frameworks many of us inherited long before we ever heard the word "trigger." This episode holds two truths at once: yes, adults are responsible for their behavior—and the initial nervous system activation that precedes a choice is real, automatic, and not a moral failure.Episode highlights:Why the word "trigger" can feel like a life sentence to trauma survivors—and an identity assignment to the people who hurt themRick Hanson's "first and second dart" framework and the four stages of change from unconscious incompetence to unconscious competenceThe critical distinction between activation and action—and why that space is where all growth livesHow Richard Rohr's reframe of sin as brokenness needing healing (not judgment) connects directly to why shame never produces lasting changeHow shame gets installed in childhood before a four-year-old's brain can separate "I did something bad" from "I am bad"—and how ACT defusion offers a way out00:00 Welcome and Course Plug01:08 Listener Email and The Bet03:33 Nick Pollard Trigger Reframe04:57 Agreeing With Nuance08:58 Trigger Word Cultural Weight13:21 First and Second Darts15:08 Four Stages of Change21:21 Agency vs Nervous System24:00 Pathologically Kind and Shame26:46 Language Shapes Experience27:18 Sin Versus Healing28:36 Rohr Reframes Brokenness31:08 Shame Keeps Us Stuck31:57 How Shame Gets Installed37:03 ACT And Defusion40:13 Radical Acceptance Lens41:52 Original Sin Culture Myth46:43 Kingdom Of God Within49:18 What We Learned Today51:37 Closing ReflectionsTony Overbay is a licensed marriage and family therapist, betrayal trauma certified, and host of The Virtual Couch, Waking Up to Narcissism, and Love, ADHD podcasts.If the idea of change through agency—not shame—resonates with you, explore Tony's Magnetic Marriage course at tonyoverbay.com/magneticPlease follow Tony on Instagram @virtual.couch on Tiktok @virtualcouch on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tonyoverbaylmft and on Substack https://thevirtualcouch.substack.com/ You can reach out to Tony through his website tonyoverbay.com or by emailing contact @ tonyoverbay.com

Your memory has been turned—and the double agent is inside your own mind. After years in a relationship with someone emotionally immature or narcissistic, the damage isn't just that they rewrite history. It's that you stop trusting your own ability to know what happened. This episode unpacks confabulation—the unconscious, real-time rewriting of memory that goes far beyond lying or gaslighting—and explains why the story keeps changing, why you can't win the memory argument, and why your gut is still your most reliable intelligence.Tony Overbay, LMFT, walks through the neuroscience of how memory actually works, why your brain's negativity bias makes you especially vulnerable in these relationships, and what you can do when your explicit memory has been compromised but your body still knows the truth.In this episode, you'll discover:The critical difference between lying, gaslighting, and confabulation—and why confabulation is the most disorienting of the threeWhy your implicit memory (your gut) can't be gaslit—and how to start trusting the data your nervous system is handing youHow the brain's negativity bias creates a lopsided scorecard that someone emotionally immature exploits, often without even knowing itThe "false self" vs. a healthy ego—and why confabulation is a fragile identity fighting for survival, not a calculated strategyReal examples from therapy sessions, interrogation rooms, and faith transitions that reveal confabulation in actionAs a licensed marriage and family therapist who has worked with hundreds navigating emotionally immature relationships, Tony brings both clinical precision and deep compassion to a topic that can finally help you stop questioning your sanity.If you've been told your memory is wrong but your body keeps telling you something isn't right—this episode is your permission to trust what you feel.00:00 Your Memory Betrays You02:21 The Double Agent Reveal02:54 Why You Feel Crazy04:27 Implicit Memory Saves You07:15 What Confabulation Means09:59 How Narcissists Rewrite Reality15:38 How Memory Gets Shaped17:20 Negativity Bias And Healing23:49 Lies Gaslighting Confabulation26:40 Why The Story Keeps Changing29:51 Fame Identity Collapse31:37 Everyday Confabulation Fights32:51 Faith Crisis Family Story37:27 Belief Systems Double Down39:47 Interrogation Room Patching43:13 Politics Ego Survival47:06 Healthy vs False Ego50:48 Course Pitch Pillars54:30 Final Takeaways Wrap

What happens when your greatest strengths—your empathy, your willingness to self-reflect, your sensitivity—become the very tools someone uses to convince you everything is your fault? In this crossover episode with therapist Angela De Hoyos, ALC, Tony explores why validation feels like survival when you were raised in an emotionally unpredictable home. You learned that love could vanish without warning—so you became hypervigilant, endlessly working to secure a connection that was never yours to earn. Now you may find yourself starving for validation from the one person who can't hold it steadily.You can learn more about Angela by visiting her website https://www.findingbalancecounseling.com/ and subscribe to her podcast “Finding Balance with Mental Health and Spirituality” here https://www.findingbalancecounseling.com/podcastEPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:Understand the origins of validation: why we learn we exist through others' responses—and how that wiring gets exploitedDiscover why "pathologically kind" people attract emotionally immature partners—and keep trying harder when it doesn't workRecognize the trap of "if it's my fault, I can fix it"—and why that belief keeps you chasing validation instead of building self-trustLearn the crucial difference between validation and agreement—you can acknowledge someone's experience without abandoning your ownBuild a 90% solid sense of self so you stop outsourcing your worth to people who use it against you00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview01:25 Guest Introduction: Angela de Hoyos03:16 The Magnetic Marriage Course Pitch06:20 Understanding Validation and Emotional Immaturity08:15 Therapeutic Insights and Parenting Dynamics20:46 The Concept of Co-Regulation28:40 Exploring the Concept of Existence and Value29:05 The Story of Jill: Unpredictable Childhood30:33 Understanding Validation and Recognition33:50 The Role of Self-Validation40:59 Spiritual Perspectives on Validation51:25 Final Thoughts and ReflectionsGet on the waitlist today for Tony's upcoming Magnetic Marriage live course! Head to https://tonyoverbay.com/magneticIf you are interested in joining Tony's private Facebook group for women in narcissistic or emotionally immature relationships of any type, please reach out to him at contact@tonyoverbay.com or through the form on the website, HTTP://www.tonyoverbay.comIf you are a man interested in joining Tony's "Emotional Architects" group to learn how to better navigate your relationship with a narcissistic or emotionally immature partner or learn how to become more emotionally mature yourself, please reach out to Tony at contact@tonyoverbay.com or through the form on the website, HTTP:www.tonyoverbay.com

Why do the people you thought knew you best stay silent—or worse, side with the person who hurt you?This secondary betrayal often cuts deeper than the narcissistic behavior itself. Switzerland friends insist on neutrality while your pain makes them uncomfortable. Flying monkeys carry your vulnerability straight back to your abuser. When you finally name what's happening and the people closest to you rush to minimize or report back, your nervous system doesn't just register disappointment—it registers danger. Tony walks through why "I don't want to take sides" isn't actually neutral, how flying monkeys weaponize your words, and the exhausting ping-pong match of trying to be understood by people who need not to understand you in order to feel safe themselves.In this episode, you'll learn:The critical difference between Switzerland friends (who neutralize) and flying monkeys (who expose)—and why both leave you questioning realityHow narcissistic systems hijack co-regulation, making everyone responsible for stabilizing the most emotionally immature person in the roomWhy your body's response after sharing something vulnerable is better data than the words exchangedThe five ways narcissists regulate their nervous systems through you: superiority, victimhood, being right, being admired, and being defendedHow to stop "auditioning for belief" and start choosing relationships that can actually hold emotional weightDrawing from over 20 years of couples therapy and thousands of real conversations, Tony offers a framework for recognizing when explanation has replaced connection—and why the most regulated thing you can say is simply, "I know what I experienced."Ready to stop offering your nervous system as a resource to people who won't protect it? Subscribe and share this episode with someone who needs to hear they're not crazy—they're waking up.00:00 Introduction and Gratitude00:37 Sales Pitch: Magnetic Marriage Course05:37 Understanding Narcissistic Relationships06:46 The Pain of Secondary Betrayal07:44 Navigating Anger and Injustice15:04 Switzerland Friends and Emotional Avoidance22:03 Story Time: Ned, Steve, and Fran30:01 Avoiding Accountability and Ownership30:17 The Role of Flying Monkeys30:32 Switzerland Friends vs. Flying Monkeys30:57 Emotional Honesty in Unsafe Systems31:17 The Futility of Over-Explaining34:02 Adjusting Expectations and Setting Boundaries34:42 Understanding and Managing Anger35:28 Withdrawing the Need for Permission36:23 Grieving What Won't Change37:14 Recognizing Emotionally Safe Relationships39:13 The Concept of Co-Regulation39:55 Narcissistic Systems and Emotional Regulation45:43 Interacting with Switzerland Friends and Flying Monkeys54:46 Choosing Relationships That Hold Emotional Weight55:41 Final Thoughts and EncouragementGet on the waitlist today for Tony's upcoming Magnetic Marriage live course! Head to https://tonyoverbay.com/magneticIf you are interested in joining Tony's private Facebook group for women in narcissistic or emotionally immature relationships of any type, please reach out to him at contact@tonyoverbay.com or through the form on the website, HTTP://www.tonyoverbay.comIf you are a man interested in joining Tony's "Emotional Architects" group to learn how to better navigate your relationship with a narcissistic or emotionally immature partner or learn how to become more emotionally mature yourself, please reach out to Tony at contact@tonyoverbay.com or through the form on the website, HTTP:www.tonyoverbay.com

Can you "turn off" a narcissist with one calm sentence? Tony unpacks the viral "narcissistic off switch" concept and discovers why tactics alone won't save you—but they might be exactly where real transformation begins.After stumbling upon behavioral expert Chase Hughes' framework for disarming manipulation using FOG (Fear, Obligation, Guilt), Tony initially resisted the idea. It felt too simple. But when he traced the concept back to its source, something shifted. The off switch isn't about changing them—it's about stopping the erosion of you. Through raw client stories and David Schnarch's differentiation work, Tony reveals why awareness doesn't land as insight to the emotionally immature—it lands as exposure. And exposure is a threat.What you'll learn:Recognize when FOG and CAVA (Control, Approval, Validation, Attention) are being used against youUnderstand why naming manipulation often backfires in deeply bonded relationshipsApply Schnarch's four points of balance to stay grounded during accusationsStop defending a "reflected sense of self" and start building one that's truly yoursEmbrace outcome independence—saying your truth without needing their agreementDrawing from 20+ years as a marriage and family therapist specializing in emotionally immature dynamics, Tony bridges tactical awareness with the deeper work of differentiation.00:00 Introduction and Social Media Plugs01:11 The Lost Episode: Narcissistic Off Switch05:27 Chase Hughes and the Concept of Prediction16:11 Understanding Manipulation: FOG and KAVA18:33 Real-Life Examples: Navigating Emotional Manipulation28:46 Understanding Unhealthy Responses29:24 The Power of Differentiated Response30:18 Challenges in Relationships30:42 Contrasting Views on Manipulation32:09 Real-Life Examples of Manipulation37:22 The Concept of Differentiation43:35 Projection and Emotional Immaturity46:50 The Four Points of Balance50:53 Gridlock and Constructing Your Crucible54:22 Final Thoughts on Emotional AutonomyContact Tony at contact@tonyoverbay.com to learn more about his Emotional Architects men's group.And visit https://julie-dejesus.com/cruise to learn more about Tony and his friend Julie De Jesus's "I See You Living" cruise, a 5-night Western Caribbean Cruise from January 24-29, 2026 aboard the Royal Caribbean Cruise Line. To learn more about Tony's upcoming re-release of the Magnetic Marriage course, his Pathback Recovery course, and more, sign up for his newsletter through the link at https://linktr.ee/virtualcouchAvailable NOW: Tony's "Magnetic Marriage Mini-Course" is only $25. https://magneticmarriage.mykajabi.com/magnetic-marriage-mini-courseYou can learn more about Tony's pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com

What do you do when someone in your family needs drama to feel alive? In this crossover episode, Tony dives deep into the anatomy of emotional immaturity through the story of "Uncle Ray"—a family member whose constant need for conflict, grievance, and the "one-up position" sent shockwaves through an entire family system.Tony breaks down the key patterns of emotional immaturity you'll recognize: black-and-white thinking, assumed intent without curiosity, difficulty with accountability, emotional reasoning ("I feel it, so it must be true"), external validation dependence, magical thinking, and the exhausting game of "whack-a-mole" that comes with trying to have a conversation with someone who's looking for attack surfaces rather than connection.You'll also learn about "pathological kindness"—the breakup-resistant dynamic that keeps enablers locked in relationships with emotionally immature people—and how these patterns get passed down through generations. Tony traces Uncle Ray's patterns back to his mother's divorce and the emotional template that shaped him, showing how one grandmother's pain rippled forward into holiday traditions lost and family relationships fractured.If you have an Uncle Ray in your life, this episode offers clarity: you can't change them, but you can set boundaries, refuse triangulation, grieve the family you wished you had, and become the catalyst for a different kind of ripple in your own family system.00:00 Introduction: Family Dynamics and Roles01:05 The Butterfly Effect in Families03:02 Crossover Episode: Emotional Immaturity and Family Systems04:36 The Butterfly Effect: Scientific Examples10:02 The Butterfly Effect in Family Systems14:33 Uncle Ray: The Catalyst of Chaos23:25 Pathological Kindness: Janet's Role27:39 Emotional Immaturity: Patterns and Consequences33:10 Black and White Thinking33:40 Mind Reading and Assumed Intent34:28 Difficulty with Accountability35:39 Emotional Reasoning36:35 External Validation Dependence37:58 Magical Thinking39:03 Managing Other People's Emotions40:40 The Butterfly Effect in Family Dynamics41:15 Curiosity and Emotional Maturity43:28 Reconnecting with Uncle Dave51:30 The Impact of Family Systems55:55 The Cost of Emotional Immaturity58:25 Breaking the Cycle58:45 Setting Boundaries and Responding Differently01:02:38 Hope and Creating Positive RipplesContact Tony at contact@tonyoverbay.com to learn more about his Emotional Architects men's group.And visit https://julie-dejesus.com/cruise to learn more about Tony and his friend Julie De Jesus's "I See You Living" cruise, a 5-night Western Caribbean Cruise from January 24-29, 2026 aboard the Royal Caribbean Cruise Line. To learn more about Tony's upcoming re-release of the Magnetic Marriage course, his Pathback Recovery course, and more, sign up for his newsletter through the link at https://linktr.ee/virtualcouchAvailable NOW: Tony's "Magnetic Marriage Mini-Course" is only $25. https://magneticmarriage.mykajabi.com/magnetic-marriage-mini-courseYou can learn more about Tony's pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com

Is there such a thing as a "narcissistic collapse" — or is it just another trend designed to keep you scrolling at 2 AM looking for answers to why your relationship is the number one source of your frustration?Tony answers an email from a listener who keeps seeing videos promising that 2025 will be "the year of the narcissistic collapse"—the moment when the mask finally falls off, and everyone sees the truth. Cosmic justice would finally be served, and he would immediately feel a sense of relief, and either his partner would now become the person he’d always dreamed of, or he would undoubtedly find his soulmate within minutes after the collapse. And they would ride off into the sunset together. Tony breaks down the email line by line and unpacks everything from emotional immaturity and projection, the danger of couples therapy with the narcissist, to the continuing trap of trying to give your partner an epiphany. But the real conversation is about what narcissistic collapse actually is — and more importantly, what it isn't.Here's what the internet won't tell you: A narcissistic collapse isn't a sign of their progress. It's a sign of yours. They're not collapsing because they've changed. They're collapsing because you have — and the system that kept them emotionally afloat is breaking down.In this episode, you'll learn:- Why asking "Am I the narcissist?" almost always means you're not- The difference between reactive abuse and actual instability — and why therapists often get it wrong- How your vulnerability becomes an "attack surface" in emotionally immature relationships- What the research actually says about narcissistic injury, decompensation, and collapse- Why your growth equals their loss of control — and your calm equals their panic- David Schnarch’s theory on differentiation, and his Four Points of Balance that make real change possible- How to stop selling yourself on a destination of hope and start building the vehicle that will truly take you where you need to goIf you've ever scrolled through narcissism content at 2 AM looking for answers, this one's for you.00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:38 Listener Email: A Muse for Self-Discovery01:00 Defining a Muse in Everyday Life01:55 Listener's Struggle: Emotional Immaturity and Narcissism02:28 The Narcissistic Collapse: Fact or Fiction?02:51 Listener's Background and Marriage Issues03:30 Therapy and Self-Doubt03:51 Emotional Immaturity's Impact on Vulnerability04:06 The Epiphany Trap and Anxious Attachment04:35 Couples Therapy Pitfalls05:18 The Role of Social Media in Coping19:45 Reactive Abuse and Emotional Safety28:01 The 5-4-3-2-1 Countdown Technique29:09 Understanding Narcissistic Collapse30:08 The Origin and Impact of Narcissistic Injury30:39 The Role of Boundaries in Narcissistic Collapse31:21 Emotional Immaturity and Defensive Structures36:13 The Process of Differentiation37:51 The Importance of Self-Validation38:26 The Narcissistic Collapse as a Sign of Your Progress44:10 Selling the Destination vs. Building the Vehicle47:12 The Reality of Transformation and Healing52:10 Final Thoughts and EncouragementWomen navigating emotionally immature relationships: come join Tony’s private women’s Facebook group.Men beginning your own emotional maturity journey: check out the Men’s Emotional Architects group.Links in the show notes.Contact Tony at contact@tonyoverbay.com to learn more about his Emotional Architects men's group.And visit https://julie-dejesus.com/cruise to learn more about Tony and his friend Julie De Jesus's "I See You Living" cruise, a 5-night Western Caribbean Cruise from January 24-29, 2026 aboard the Royal Caribbean Cruise Line.

If you’ve ever been in a relationship with emotional immaturity or narcissistic behavior, you know the truth: Healing doesn’t come with a map. Emotional safety doesn’t come with instructions. And waking up is rarely a straight line.In this 10th “Death by 1,000 Cuts” episode, Tony introduces The Ten Emotional Commandments — the patterns, boundaries, and insights that so many people wish they had years earlier. These commandments aren’t rules you obey; they’re survival skills you learn. They’re the shifts that help you understand your emotions, trust your gut, stop overexplaining, and finally step out of the chaos you didn’t choose.This episode is validating, grounding, sometimes funny, sometimes painful — and deeply relatable. With listener-submitted “cuts,” real-world examples, and a gentle breakdown of what healing actually looks like, Tony helps you recognize the patterns AND understand how to break them.If you’ve felt alone in your confusion, in your exhaustion, or in the emotional whiplash of trying to make sense of someone else’s immaturity — this episode is for you.00:00 Introduction and Series Overview00:37 The Power of Your Stories01:20 A Survivor's Poem04:42 The 10 Emotional Commandments08:54 Commandment 1: Raise Your Emotional Baseline15:59 Commandment 2: Get Your PhD in Gaslighting21:53 Commandment 3: Drop the Rope of Emotional Tug of War27:33 Commandment 4: Set Boundaries and Mean Them32:17 Stop Searching for the Perfect Words33:01 Examples of False Promises and Manipulation33:52 Understanding Emotional Immaturity36:41 Limiting Your Attack Surface40:13 Recognizing Projection44:45 Honoring Your Inner Dialogue48:37 Trusting Your Gut and Emotions53:07 Change is Not Linear57:51 Final Thoughts and ResourcesWomen navigating emotionally immature relationships: come join Tony’s private women’s Facebook group.Men beginning your own emotional maturity journey: check out the Men’s Emotional Architects group.Links in the show notes.Contact Tony at contact@tonyoverbay.com to learn more about his Emotional Architects men's group.And visit https://julie-dejesus.com/cruise to learn more about Tony and his friend Julie De Jesus's "I See You Living" cruise, a 5-night Western Caribbean Cruise from January 24-29, 2026 aboard the Royal Caribbean Cruise Line.

Have you ever remembered something so vividly that it feels etched into your bones — only to have someone look at you blankly and say, “That never happened”? Have you ever started to wonder if maybe you’re the one who’s losing your mind?If so, you know the disorienting pain of questioning your own reality.In this episode, Tony Overbay, LMFT, unpacks what happens when your memory becomes the battleground in a relationship with an emotionally immature or narcissistic partner. When every disagreement seems to rewrite history, your sense of truth can start to unravel — not because you’re broken, but because your brain and body have been conditioned to survive confusion.Tony explores how:Cognitive dissonance makes you doubt what you know is trueGaslighting and confabulation distort shared realityThe false self uses denial to avoid shameChronic emotional stress rewires your nervous system and memoryTools like gray rocking and self-regulation help you reclaim peaceThrough clinical examples, evidence-based research, and hope, this episode reveals how to rebuild trust in your own perception — and why remembering that you were there is the first step toward healing.Because waking up isn’t about convincing anyone else what happened, it’s about remembering: you were right to trust yourself all along.00:00 Introduction: The Fallibility of Memory00:58 Healthy vs. Unhealthy Relationships02:15 The Reality Police: Types of Memory Issues03:14 Emotional Immaturity and Narcissism04:12 The Impact of Chronic Invalidation05:33 Welcome to Waking Up to Narcissism07:00 Pam and Jim: A Story of Emotional Distortion11:38 Cognitive Dissonance and Emotional Survival21:06 Understanding Gaslighting24:33 A Heartbreaking Misunderstanding25:58 The Power of Gaslighting26:13 Confabulation: Filling Memory Gaps27:08 The Patchwork Quilt of Self-Image28:18 The Cost of Emotional Immaturity32:25 Interpersonal Neurobiology and Co-Regulation35:37 The Impact of Chronic Stress37:15 Rewiring Your Brain for Peace45:29 Gray Rocking: A Strategy for Self-Protection48:20 Reclaiming Your Sense of CalmContact Tony at contact@tonyoverbay.com to learn more about his Emotional Architects men's group.And visit https://julie-dejesus.com/cruise to learn more about Tony and his friend Julie De Jesus's "I See You Living" cruise, a 5-night Western Caribbean Cruise from January 24-29, 2026 aboard the Royal Caribbean Cruise Line. To learn more about Tony's upcoming re-release of the Magnetic Marriage course, his Pathback Recovery course, and more, sign up for his newsletter through the link at https://linktr.ee/virtualcouchAvailable NOW: Tony's "Magnetic Marriage Mini-Course" is only $25. https://magneticmarriage.mykajabi.com/magnetic-marriage-mini-courseYou can learn more about Tony's pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com