

Sari Swears
Sari de la Motte
Sari de la Motte is the host of "Sari Swears" and has been dubbed the "Attorney Whisperer" because of her unique ability to help attorneys communicate their real selves. Tune in every Friday for a new episode of the best fucking podcast on the Internet. I swear. (Like… a LOT. Parental discretion is advised.)
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Apr 9, 2021 • 20min
How to Argue (With Yourself) and Win Every Time
If you're a trial lawyer, you argue for a living. But there's one person you should be arguing with and probably aren't. You. Give this podcast a listen to learn why arguing with yourself is a necessary skill to live a fulfilling life.

Apr 2, 2021 • 14min
The Problem with the Word "Humble"
Get ready for a rant. I have a HUGE problem with the word "humble" and I'm going to share it with you in today's episode. Give this podcast a listen to learn why I think telling people to stay "humble" is a huge mistake and what to do instead. -Sari

Mar 26, 2021 • 17min
The Point of Positive Thinking
On one hand, I kinda hate "positive" thinking. It just doesn't feel authentic sometimes. On the other hand, I know that our thoughts create our results, so choosing our thoughts carefully really, really matters. But what happens when you choose to think positively and -don't- get the result you want? Is it a cosmic fuck you from the universe? Give this podcast a listen to learn the point of positive thinking and what to do when you feel like you've just been kicked in the gut. -Sari

Mar 19, 2021 • 46min
BONUS Episode - FHTH FB Live: Creating Your Trial Dialogue
One of my client's favorite things about my work is what I call the Trial Dialogue. What is the Trial Dialogue you ask? It's sourcing your opening from jurors in voir dire. It's genius if I may say so myself, and moves jurors from information to investment. Give this special FB LIVE podcast a listen to learn how the Trial Dialogue works and how to use it in your next case! -Sari

Mar 12, 2021 • 30min
Meet Coach Joon! (And Learn about Creating Habits)
We've added a new coach to the SariDLM team: Coach Joonho Hong! In this podcast episode we learn a little bit about Joon, how he stalked Sari, and why he's gone "all in" with SariDLM. We'll also talk about something Joon is passionate about: creating habits that support him (and you!) as a trial lawyer. Give this podcast a listen to learn the three truths about creating habits that LAST. -Sari

Mar 5, 2021 • 17min
Trial Lawyers Are Artists. Here's How to Claim Your Artistry
Trial law is a creative practice. And sometimes it's difficult to feel creative. This is precisely why you must claim your identity as an artist and live into what it truly means to live a creative life. In this podcast episode I give you three ways to start treating yourself as an artist and taking your trial practice to the next level. -Sari

Feb 26, 2021 • 20min
Fuck Self Improvement. Do This Instead
Title get your attention? I'm serious y'all. Cancer has got me thinking and in this podcast you're gonna hear those thoughts! If you're feeling pressure to continue "improving" yourself, you've got to give this podcast episode a listen!

Feb 19, 2021 • 1h 2min
FB Live Episode - Issue-Oriented Voir Dire
I was in the From Hostage to Hero FB group a few weeks ago talking about my revolutionary voir dire process: ISSUE ORIENTED VOIR DIRE. Want to find out what it is and how to use it in your next case? Give this podcast episode a listen to find out! -Sari

Feb 12, 2021 • 13min
Who "Owns" Your Client?
"My client." "The plaintiff in this case…" Language like this makes your client yours, when your client actually belongs to the JURY. Give this podcast episode a listen to find out how to allow the jury to claim your client as their own. -Sari

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Feb 5, 2021 • 16min
What if You Don't Have "Motive?"
Motive is crucial in both criminal and civil cases, but especially vital for appealing to jurors. The podcast explores challenges faced by plaintiff attorneys when proving motive without resorting to fabrication. It highlights strategies for establishing credible motives, encouraging a focus on rule violations to bolster arguments. Understanding the juror's perspective can make all the difference in the courtroom!


