Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Episode 4: Stress and Sex About this episode In this episode we're talking about the ways that stress can affect women's interest in and enjoyment of sex. We focus on everyday sources of stress and the things that women can do to reduce the effects of stress in their lives. (And we acknowledge that some sources of stress require medical or other professional assistance, and that those are beyond the scope of this podcast.) The questions we discuss include: How does stress affect libido and enjoyment of sex for women? What can a woman do if stress is affecting her interest in or enjoyment of sex? What are some strategies women can use to reduce everyday sources of stress From the Bible What does God have to say about stress? Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7 ...the mind governed by the Spirit is life and peace. Romans 8:6b Resources 3 Questions that Can Reduce Stress and Increase Calm in Your Life - CalmHealthySexy How Do You Respond to Stress in Your Marriage - The Forgiven Wife 4 Simple Ways to Reduce Stress in Your Life and Marriage - CalmHealthySexy Find Peace so You Can Find Orgasm - OysterBed 7 De-Stress to Improve Libido - OysterBed 7 How Does Stress Affect Your Marriage - The Forgiven Wife Visit our website.

About this episode Out in theaters right now is Fifty Shades Darker, the second film based on Fifty Shades series. These novels have spurred a lot of conversation and questions about erotica. And we're going to address that topic head-on. 1. Why do you think so many wives have been drawn to erotic romance stories? What about this genre appeals to them? 2. I've had wives tell me that reading these novels awakened their sexual desire. What's wrong with that? Isn't that ultimately good for the sexual intimacy in their marriage? 3. Some say that these erotic stories are no different from porn, and others say they're no different from romance novels. What do you think about either or both of those charges? How are they the same or different? 4. Let's get practical: What is okay and what's not okay in the world of BDSM? 5. What are your own greatest concerns about the Fifty Shades phenomenon? From the Bible Galatians 5:22-23: "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law." Colossians 3:19: "Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them." 1 Corinthians 10:23: "'Everything is permissible,' but not everything is helpful. 'Everything is permissible,' but not everything builds up." (HSCB) Resources The Forgiven Wife: A Shaded View of Romance The Forgiven Wife: Are Romance Novels Okay for Christian Women? The Forgiven Wife: As Bad As Porn? Authentic Intimacy: The Good News about Fifty Shades of Grey OysterBed7: 50 Shades of Uncertainty? OysterBed7: Libido Boundaries? Hot Holy & Humorous: Why I Haven't Talked about 50 Shades Hot Holy & Humorous: Has the Mainstream Embraced BDSM? Should You? Hot Holy & Humorous: Q&A with J: How about Bondage in the Bedroom?

About this episode Practical tips on positioning to help you find gain greater pleasure and intimacy in your marriage bed. 1. Why should wives be interested in learning new positions? 2. What positions are some women afraid to try? 3. Does the Bible have anything to say on the subject of sexual positions? 4. How can wives overcome their reluctance to expand their repertoire of sexual positions? 5. What's a sexual position couples might not have tried that you recommend? From the Bible Song of Songs 7:13: "The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved." Song of Songs 2:6: "His left arm is under my head, and his right arm embraces me." Song of Songs 2:14: "My dove in the clefts of the rock, in the hiding places on the mountainside, show me your face, let me hear your voice; for your voice is sweet, and your face is lovely." Resources Christian Friendly Sex Positions Journey to Surrender: "What's on Your Sex Menu?" The Cookie Sutra Liberator Wedge Pillow Christian Friendly Sex Positions: "Packing the Suitcase" Oyster Bed 7: "Sex Variety and Libido in Marriage" Hot, Holy & Humorous: "Why Try More Than One Sexual Position"

About this episode How can we help ourselves be interested—and ready—for sex? What are some of the challenges women face when it comes to getting in the mood? What does the bible have to say about getting ready for sex? What are some things we can actually do to help ourselves look forward to sex? From the Bible What does God have to say about getting in the mood? One biblical wife we know well is the woman in the Song of Solomon. One thing she does is describe--in detail--the physical attributes of her husband. My lover is dark and dazzling, better than ten thousand others! His head is finest gold, his wavy hair is black as a raven. His eyes sparkle like doves beside springs of water; they are set like jewels washed in milk. His cheeks are like gardens of spices giving off fragrance. His lips are like lilies, perfumed with myrrh. His arms are like rounded bars of gold, set with beryl. His body is like bright ivory, glowing with lapis lazuli. His legs are like marble pillars set in sockets of finest gold. His posture is stately, like the noble cedars of Lebanon. His mouth is sweetness itself; he is desirable in every way. Such, O women of Jerusalem, is my lover, my friend. Song of Solomon 5:10-16 {NLT} Resources Calm.Healthy.Sexy: 5 Ways to Feel Sexier This Year The Forgiven Wife: 6 Ways to Nurture Your Sexual Desire The Forgiven Wife: Are You in the Mood for Sex? OysterBed 7: 1 Simple Thing to Turn on Sexual Arousal and Intensify Orgasm