Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Bonny Burns, J Parker, and Chris Taylor
Three Christian wives encourage other wives to enjoy God's gift of sex in all of its awesomeness by presenting a biblical view, practical tips, and engaging discussion about godly sexual intimacy.
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Sep 6, 2018 • 21min
42-Oral Sex
Thanks for your support! Click here for GoFundMe. We know that oral sex can be a difficult subject in plenty of marriages. Is it okay for oral sex to be part of a Christian marriage? What about germs? What if a couple disagrees, with one spouse wanting to give or receive while the other spouse doesn't want anything to do with it? In this episode, we're going to tackle these questions. Let's start with whether it's okay for oral sex to be part of a Christian marriage. Ladies, what do you think? What kinds of health concerns might come into play with oral sex? If a husband and wife don't agree about oral sex in their marriage bed, how can they work through their disagreement? More links and resources at our website: forchristianwives.com
Aug 29, 2018 • 25min
41-Flirting with Your Husband
GoFundMe - Thanks for your support! Author Charlotte Bronte said, "Flirting is a woman's trade, one must keep in practice." And yet, once we get married, we tend to forget how we flirted so successfully in our courtship. Or maybe we were never comfortable with flirting. Everyday life and awkwardness set in, and we fail to pursue our husband's interest like we could. So today we're going to talk about flirting with your husband. Why is it important to flirt with our husbands? What are the benefits to flirting? Why would a wife feel awkward flirting? What obstacles are in our way? Now let's talk about specific tips. What are some ideas for how a wife can flirt with her husband? Any flirting or encouragement to flirt in the Bible that you can think of?
Aug 14, 2018 • 41min
40-Healing after Porn Discovery
This episode concludes our "Conversation about Porn" 3-part series. The four of us are return as a group around the virtual kitchen table to help give some perspective and thoughts on moving forward in a marriage after pornography use is discovered. (Just a quick aside, we are aware that pornography isn't just a problem husbands have. There are also wives battling the urge to consume porn or read erotica. In a future episode, we will tackle that. But, for today, we are focusing on a marriage where the husband has been viewing porn.) How can a wife capture ruminating thoughts to soothe her pain? How can a wife find forgiveness and rebuild trust? When should they resume sexual intimacy? What we say to men who believe that a sexless marriage attributed to their temptation. For our show notes, visit us at forchristianwives.com. To make a donation, go to our GoFundMe page.
Jul 31, 2018 • 23min
A Conversation About Porn (Part 2)
Pornography affects so many marriages--even Christian marriages. Although porn can be a problem for both men and women, we're going to spend some time looking at a situation we know many of our listeners can relate to. Join us for the second of three episodes about a wife dealing with her husband's pornography use. In this episode, Bonny offers advice to other wives based on her own experience. You can find show notes for this episode at http://forchristianwives.com/episode-39-a-conversation-about-porn-part-2. For the first part of the conversation, click here: http://forchristianwives.com/episode-38-a-conversation-about-porn-part-1/.
Jul 17, 2018 • 22min
Episode 38: A Conversation About Porn (Part 1)
Join us for the first of three episodes about a wife dealing with her husband's pornography use. In this episode, Bonny chats with Chris about what she experienced in her marriage. Be sure to check out the show notes on our website.
Jul 3, 2018 • 22min
37 - Periods and Sex
In ancient Judaism, a woman was unclean while she was on her period. She could only return to the marriage bed 7 days after her period stopped and only then after going through ritual cleansing. So, that means opportunity for sexual relations were not nearly as plentiful as it is for us since Christ came. So, my friends, let's talk about periods and sex To start, let's talk about female health in general, what are some things that affect our periods and are signs that a woman should go to her doctor? Is there any reason to prohibit sexual relations while a wife is on her period according to Christian traditions? What are some things to help make it less messy and more comfortable? From the Bible Leviticus 12: "Purification after childbirth." Leviticus 15:19: "When a woman has her regular flow of blood, the impurity of her monthly period will last seven days, and anyone who touches her will be unclean till evening." Leviticus 15:28: "When she is cleansed from her discharge, she must count off seven days, and after that she will be ceremonially clean." Galatians 3:23-25: "Before the coming of this faith, we were held in custody under the law, locked up until the faith that was to come would be revealed. So the law was our guardian until Christ came that we might be justified by faith. Now that this faith has come, we are no longer under a guardian." Resources Learn more about Orthodox Judaism laws surrounding menstruation here. The Unending Period (peri-menopause symptom) – Bonny's OysterBed7 No More Period, Period. – Hot, Holy & Humorous Finding a Good Gynecologist – Hot, Holy & Humorous Sexual Intimacy & Your Period: Tips for Wives – Hot, Holy & Humorous Support Us: GoFundMe
Jun 19, 2018 • 27min
36 - Pregnancy and Sex
It's been a while since any of us ladies were pregnant, but we remember. Mostly. So today, we're tackling an important issue for many of y'all out there: sex when you're pregnant. Because when you're carrying a child, your body changes in so many ways, and those changes impact sexual intimacy. What changes might a pregnant wife face with her libido? How does pregnancy influence the actual act of sex, like arousal and positions? What advice do you have for keeping sexual intimacy thriving during a pregnancy? What if sexual intercourse isn't possible at some point? What can a couple do then? Does the Bible have anything to say about sex and pregnancy? From the Bible Genesis 1:27, Psalm 127:3, 1 Corinthians 7:3-5, 1 Samuel 12:24a Resources Sexual Positions for Pregnancy, or "My Belly's In the Way!" – Hot, Holy & Humorous Q&A with J: Pregnancy Bed Rest Makes Sex Forbidden – Hot, Holy & Humorous "(You're) Having My Baby" – Paul Anka Episode 15 – Listener Questions (with talking to husband about sex) 4 Ways Sex Can Comfort in Crisis or Grief – Hot, Holy & Humorous Request If Sex Chat for Christian Wives has blessed your marriage, please consider blessing us. We are asking for donations to help defray the cost of attending the October 2018 Declare Conference in Dallas, TX. This conference will serve as continuing education, helping us hone our skills as Christian communicators. If you've got some pocket change, please throw it into our cup. Sex Chat for Christian Wives GoFundMe Link.
Jun 5, 2018 • 40min
35 - Listener Questions
We're answering your questions in this episode! How can a wife teacher husband about her body? What can a wife do if she is embarrassed about queefing? Is it possible to relax and enjoy sex when your kids are in the house? What can you do if you ask your husband about his needs and he responds with "I don't know"? For more resources about these questions, check out our show notes.
May 22, 2018 • 29min
34 - Food and Sex
We've encouraged you to use all your senses to better experience sex, and that includes the sense of taste. The Song of Songs is filled with reference to both food and sex. Does that mean we can combine the two? In this episode, we're going to talk about food and sex. You might say this episode is a real treat! Find more info and resources in our show notes at http://forchristianwives.com/episode-34-food-and-sex/.
May 8, 2018 • 30min
33-Getting in the Mood 2
The four wives revisit the topic of "Getting in the Mood." How to rev up your engine in anticipation of lovemaking. Each lady brings her favorite idea to the table and they all discuss. Visit our website, forchristianwives.com, for more resources and links related to this topic. Go Fund Me If Sex Chat for Christian Wives has blessed your marriage, please consider blessing us. We are asking for donations to help defray the cost of attending the October 2018 Declare Conference in Dallas, TX. This conference will serve as continuing education, helping us hone our skills as Christian communicators. If you've got some pocket change, please throw it into our cup. Agape Love Box Coupon Code: SC2018 (50% off first month, exp. July 31, 2018)


