Sex Chat for Christian Wives

About this episode Today, we have special guest Ngina Otiende of Intentional Today, and we're talking about... Our most vivid memories of our weddings or first few months of marriage. When did reality set in that marriage might take more work than you initially thought? Now, bringing the conversation back to our mission of speaking candidly about God's design of sexual intimacy, what is one newlywed obstacle you can speak to and give advice in overcoming? What is one piece of sexually intimate advice you'd give to a bride today? Sponsors Buy or Learn More Share the Soap sharethesoap.com Newlywed Set Prepared Especially for Our Listeners Use coupon code FCW for 20% off your first purchase. Existing customers can use coupon code FCWspecial for 15% off. Carefree Organics Skincare Carefree Organics was established in 2013 by a boy mama of 3 to provide clean products for all concerned mothers and entire families. In starting small, the company has gone from just 5 basic products to high-end skincare, a baby/spa line, hair care, new cosmetics, supplements, and even mood-enhancing aromatherapy. There is truly something for everyone. Check out carefreeorganics.com and use coupon code FCW20 for 20% off one purchase. Use FCW20 for 20% off your purchase. https://www.carefreeorganics.com From the Bible "...Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God." ~ 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Resources Episode 32: Advice For Our Newlywed Selves Free Access To "Subscriber Only" Resources - Ngina Otiende How To Navigate Conflict In Marriage - Ngina Otiende What Newlyweds Should Know About Married Sex - Bonny's OysterBed7 A Letter To My Newlywed Self (Age 20) - Bonny's OysterBed7 A Letter to My Newlywed Self: Age 25 - Hot, Holy & HumorousWhat I Wish I'd Known Before the Wedding Night - Hot, Holy & Humorous Wedding Tips for Bride - Hot, Holy & Humorous store item Visit our website: forchristianwives.com

We are so privileged today to have Shaunti Feldhahn—social researcher, bestselling author, and popular speaker—pulling up a chair at our virtual kitchen table. Sponsor Click Here to Purchase or Learn More Click Here to Visit Our Sponsor Use coupon code FCW for 20% off your first purchase Click Here to Visit Carefree Organics Skincare Use coupon code FCW20 for 20% off one purchase And not mentioned in the show, but check out this Online Marriage Retreat, with J. Parker's 5 Steps to Better Sex. Click to Buy or Learn More Use code PARKER10 (click Apply) for an additional 10% off From the Bible So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27 I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman. Job 31:1 Resources [includes affiliate links] For Women Only, Revised and Updated Edition: What You Need to Know About the Inner Lives of Men by Shaunti Feldhahn Through a Man's Eyes: Helping Women Understand the Visual Nature of Men by Shaunti Feldhahn Do Our Yoga Pants Make Men Sin? - Hot, Holy & Humorous On "Pigs," Good Men, and the Difference - Hot, Holy & Humorous The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages: The Little Things That Make a Big Difference by Shaunti Feldhahn The Good News About Marriage: Debunking Discouraging Myths about Marriage and Divorce by Shaunti Feldhahn 10 Takeaways from the Spark Marriage Conference - Hot Holy & Humorous 4 Things Your Husband Wants from You in Bed - Hot, Holy & Humorous 7 Ways Screen Sex Is Not Like Real Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous Thriving in Love and Money: 5 Game-Changing Insights about Your Relationship, Your Money, and Yourself by Shaunti Feldhahn What Is Sexual Interest and Why Should I Care? - OysterBed7 25 Ways to Improve Sexual Interest - OysterBed7 Budget Minded Gifts For Her (Pursuit) - OysterBed7 A Moment of Hard Truth - The Forgiven Wife To Duty Sex—and Beyond! - The Forgiven Wife Can "Fake It to Make It" Really Work with Sex? - The Forgiven Wife Why "10 Minutes and Lube" Is Horrible Advice - The Forgiven Wife Visit our website: forchristianwives.com

Today we're talking about sensuality and how wives can feel more sensual. What does it mean to feel sensual? Why can it be difficult, and why does it matter? And what can you do to feel more sensual yourself? Sponsors Share the Soap sharethesoap.com Sensual Set Prepared Especially for Our Listeners Use coupon code FCW for 20% off your first purchase. Carefree Organics Use coupon code FCW20 for 20% off one purchase. From the Bible What does God have to say about sensuality? So I commend the enjoyment of life, because there is nothing better for a person under the sun than to eat and drink and be glad. Then joy will accompany them in their toil all the days of the life God has given them under the sun. (Ecclesiastes 8:15) How delightful is your love, my sister, my bride! How much more pleasing is your love than wine, and the fragrance of your perfume more than any spice! (Song of Songs 4:10) And the rest of Song of Songs! Resources 5 Ways to Feel More Sensual – CalmHealthySexy Essential Oils for Sex and Intimacy – CalmHealthySexy Sensual Essential Oil Blends – CalmHealthySexy How to Give Your Spouse a Sensual Massage – CalmHealthySexy What Makes You Feel Sexy? – Hot, Holy & Humorous Use Scent to Enhance Your Sex Life – The Forgiven Wife Eat, Drink, and Be Merry – The Forgiven Wife Orgasm Webinar on October 15 All 3 Webinars Visit our website: forchristianwives.com

It's a common scenario we hear: She wants him to touch her body in various places, and he wants to focus on the "good bits." So today, we're going to talk about where you'd like to be touched, besides your special lady-parts, and how you can get your husband to spend more time and attention there. Sponsor Click to Learn More. From the Bible What does God have to say about touching and kissing her body? She Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth— for your love is more delightful than wine. Song of Songs 1:2 His left arm is under my head and his right arm embraces me. Song of Songs 2:6, 8:3 A loving doe, a graceful deer— may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be intoxicated with her love. Proverbs 5:19 Resources How Do You Like to Be Touched? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Why woman are different from men and vice versa - Amanda Gore The Most Sensitive Spots on Men (and on You) - Women's Health (study of college men and women) You're Not Kissing Enough - Hot, Holy & Humorous Open Your Mind and Take Off Your Shoes - The Forgiven Wife Episode 78: Breasts and How They Impact Female Sexuality 7 Ways to Communicate with Your Husband About Sex How to Talk with Him About Sex Feet and Sex (Pedicures link to arousal?) - OysterBed7 "Dirty Dice" - Married Dance (despite the name, it's simply a game to encourage touching/kissing various body parts - affiliate link) Learn What You Like in Bed - The Forgiven Wife Click to Learn More. Visit our website: forchristianwives.com

We want to encourage you to just think of one thing you could do to improve your sex life. To give you some ideas, we're each going to share one thing we did to improve our sex life. Sponsor Click to Learn More! From the Bible What does God have to say about our tips? For his unfailing love toward those who fear him is as great as the height of the heavens above the earth. He has removed our sins as far from us as the east is from the west. Psalm 103:11-12 (NLT) I belong to my beloved, and his desire is for me. Song of Songs 7:10 Resources Entering Marriage with Sexual Baggage - Hot, Holy & Humorous Q&A with J: How Can I Forgive Myself for My Past? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Has Your Previous Promiscuity Impacted Your Marriage? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Why You Feel Worse Than He Does about the Premarital Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous Dealing with Sexual Baggage - The Forgiven Wife A Husband's Emotional Need - The Forgiven Wife I Thought Sex Was Just for My Husband. Here's What Changed My Mind. - The Forgiven Wife Lessons Learned from Premarital Sex - The Forgiven Wife How Not to Think About Sex - The Forgiven Wife If You Make Just One Change . . . - The Forgiven Wife Dear Wife, You Deserve a Great Sex Life Too - Calm.Healthy.Sexy. 5 Questions to Ask about Your Sexual Intimacy - Hot, Holy & Humorous Click to Learn More! Visit our website: forchristianwives.com

About this episode There is some really bad sex advice out there, most of it because the people giving the advice don't know any better themselves. Today we're sharing with you the worst sex advice we've personally received, but also the best sex advice we've received. Okay, ladies, what is the worst sex tip you have gotten either from a resource or an individual? Taking a positive perspective, how can we correct the record? That is, how should each of us and women out there respond when we encounter bad advice? What is the best sex tip you've ever gotten from some resource or someone? Sponsor Faithful Counseling (now Better Help) From the Bible What does God have to say about receiving advice? The way of fools seems right to them, but the wise listen to advice. – Proverbs 12:19 But Jehoshaphat also said to the king of Israel, "First seek the counsel of the Lord." – 1 Kings 22:5 Resources Episode 87: How to Talk to Friends About Sex The Experts Who Are Damaging Your Sexual Intimacy – Hot, Holy & Humorous How to Read a Marriage Book – Hot, Holy & Humorous Finding a Good Gynecologist – Hot, Holy & Humorous The #1 Myth Christian Women Learned about Sex – Hot, Holy & Humorous Forget What You Look Like While Making Love – Hot, Holy & Humorous Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations About Sex for Married Couples by J. Parker Helpful Marriage Books and Resources – CalmHealthySexy Why "10 Minutes and Lube" Is Horrible Advice" – The Forgiven Wife Click Here to Learn More

Our podcast is hosted by four friends talking biblically and authentically about sexual intimacy. How can you find your own friend group to talk with about sex? We've got some tips! Sponsors From the Bible Friends We rejoice and delight in you; we will praise your love more than wine. Song of Songs 1:4 The godly give good advice to their friends; the wicked lead them astray. Proverbs 12:26 (NLT) Resources Finding Friends to Support Your Marital Intimacy – Hot, Holy & Humorous What Should You Share about Your Sex Life with Friends? – Hot, Holy & Humorous HD Wives Community (subscription) Honeycomb & Spice (with subscription community) Episode 38: A Conversation About Porn (Part 1) - Bonny's Story Episode 39: A Conversation About Porn (Part 2) - Bonny's Story Strong Wives Facebook Community (website coming soon) Passion Pursuit Study (with Chris Taylor) Calm.Healthy.Sexy. website Sign up for our next webinar! Visit our website: forchristianwives.com.

About this episode Today we're talking about making space in your life for sex. And whether you're listening to this in the time of COVID, when we're recording it, or at a time when things are more back to normal, you probably have some sense of what it means to make space (or lack space) in your life for sex, intimacy, and just in general enjoying your marriage. Sponsor I want to know more! I want the whole series! Faithful Counseling (now Better Help) From the Bible What does God have to say about making space for sex in your marriage? Song of Songs 7:11 - Come, my beloved, let us go to the countryside, let us spend the night in the villages. Resources How to Manage Your Family's Schedule - Calm.Healthy.Sexy 5 Words You Need to Learn to Say - Calm.Healthy.Sexy How to Regroup and Start Over in July - Calm.Healthy.Sexy How Do You Manage Sex When Your Schedules Are Different? The Forgiven Wife How Does Stress Affect Your Marriage? The Forgiven Wife Where Do You Need to Say "No" to Say "Yes" to Your Marriage? - Hot, Holy & Humorous How Do You Measure Up to the Virtuous Woman? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Friendship Builds Sexual Interest - OysterBed7 Friendship - The Art of Conversation - OysterBed7 Friendship 101 - OysterBed7 I Love Friendship Closes Its Eyes - OysterBed7

About This Episode Is it time to expand your sexual position repertoire? We discuss going beyond "missionary" to include other positions, with a dose of reality on what's do-able and how to introduce new positions into your marriage. Sponsor Click HERE to Learn More! From the Bible "His left arm is under my head, and his right arm embraces me." Song of Songs 2:6, 8:3 The mandrakes give off a fragrance, and at our doors is every delicacy, both new and old. I have treasured them up for you, my love. Song of Songs 7:13 (CSB) Resources Spice Up Your Marriage! 18 Fun Ideas - Calm.Healthy.Sexy. I Love New Positions! - OysterBed7 Learn What You Like in Bed - The Forgiven Wife Enjoy a Plus-Size Sex Life, Part 1 - The Forgiven Wife Enjoy a Plus-Size Sex Life, Part 2 - The Forgiven Wife Sexual Positions for Pregnancy, or "My Belly's In the Way!" - Hot, Holy & Humorous Q&A with J: Adding Variety to Your Marriage Bed - Hot, Holy & Humorous Why You Should Try This Sex Position - Hot, Holy & Humorous "Considering Sexual Positions," Hot, Holy, and Humorous: Sex in Marriage by God's Design by J. Parker (Amazon affiliate link) Christian Friendly Sex Positions Visit our website: forchristianwives.com

About this episode Self-care is important—and it helps our sexual interest too! In this episode we talk about why and share some tips. Sponsor Click Here to Learn More From the Bible "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." Matthew 11:28-30 Then he said to them, "The Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath." Mark 2:27 But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed. Luke 5:16 Resources 5 Ways to Treat Yourself Like a Friend – CalmHealthySexy Silence the Lies – The Forgiven Wife New Day, New Way – It's Never too Late to Start Something New – CalmHealthySexy Episode 80: Intimacy During Lockdown Self-Bullying: What to do when the bully is YOU! (affiliate link) 5 Ways to Take Care of Yourself in a Crisis – CalmHealthySexy