Sex Chat for Christian Wives

When God created women, He gave us an amazing gift—the clitoris! Its only purpose is our sexual pleasure, but many of us don't know too much about this part of our body. In this episode, we're going to help you learn about the wonderful clitoris. Sponsor Learn more about Venus Pearls! From the Bible For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well. Psalm 139:13-14 Resources Amphis, CC SA 1.0, via Wikimedia Commons Debunking myths about the clitoris | by Jessica Pin | Medium (8,000 nerve endings myth) Female orgasms and a 'rule of thumb' – Chicago Tribune (C-V distance) Clitoris | Online Etymology Dictionary (etymonline.com) Dragonfly Sex Position | Christian-friendly Sex Positions (named by J!) Packing the Suitcase Sex Position | Christian-friendly Sex Positions CAT Sex Position & Technique | Christian-friendly Sex Positions Orgasm Webinar - GREAT VALUE at only $10! Unlock Your Orgasm: Through a Christian Lens by Bonny Logsdon Burns Visit our website: forchristianwives.com

About this episode In summertime, the living is supposed to be easy, but we often find it just as stressful and scheduled as the rest of the year is. In this episode we talk about simplifying your summer in ways that can improve your sex life. From the Bible Better one handful with tranquility than two handfuls with toil and chasing after the wind. Ecclesiastes 4:6 So I commend the enjoyment of life, because there is nothing better for a person under the sun than to eat and drink and be glad. Then joy will accompany them in their toil all the days of the life God has given them under the sun. Ecclesiastes 8:15 Resources Episode 60: Vacation Sex 10 Ways to Keep Cool While Heating It Up This Summer - Hot, Holy & Humorous Vacationing with Hubby: How to Make It Better - Hot, Holy & Humorous 6 Simple Ways to Slow Down This Summer - Calm.Healthy.Sexy. How to Have "Vacation Sex" – Even When You're Not on Vacation - Calm.Healthy.Sexy. 4 Reasons Wives and Moms Need a Summer Vacation - Calm.Healthy.Sexy. What Do Your Children Need this Summer – It May Not Be What You Think! - Calm.Healthy.Sexy. Just Breathe - The Forgiven Wife Stressed and Overwhelmed? - The Forgiven Wife Eat, Drink, and Be Merry - The Forgiven Wife Webinars 2019-2020 Webinar Bundle $40.00 Add to cart 2020 Webinar Series $25.00 Add to cart Orgasm Webinar $10.00 Add to cart Oral Sex Webinar $10.00 Add to cart Getting in the Mood Webinar – Replay $10.00 Add to cart 2019 Webinar Series $15.00 Add to cart Understanding Her Sex Drive – Webinar Replay $5.00 Add to cart Foreplay – Webinar $5.00 Add to cart Understanding Your Sex Drive – Webinar Replay $5.00 Add to cart

About this episode Bonny and Chris answer questions about older kids knowing that their parents are having sex, responding to a husband's struggle with pornography, and discerning what is okay in the bedroom. Sponsor https://b-ltx.com/venus-pearls/ From the Bible Matthew 5:28 - But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. Song of Solomon 2:3 - Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest is my beloved among the young men. I delight to sit in his shade, and his fruit is sweet to my taste. Song of Solomon 4:16 - Awake, north wind, and come, south wind! Blow on my garden, that its fragrance may spread everywhere. Let my beloved come into his garden and taste its choice fruits. Ephesians 6:11-15 - Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. Resources The Joy of Earbuds | The Forgiven Wife Q&A with J: Avoiding Sex Because the Kids Can Hear - Hot, Holy & Humorous 5 Reasons to Stop Using Porn...Now - Hot, Holy & Humorous Samson Society Hope for Wives podcast Beggar's Daughter SheRecovery

About this episode You probably know from your own marriage, or from observing other marriages, that non-sexual interactions can make or break a marriage. Today, we talk about why this is true and how we can leverage it to benefit our marriages. Sponsors Use coupon code SC10 for 10% off! Click to Learn More This episode was also sponsored in part by Married Dance, a Christian-owned store for marital aids and sex toys. From the Bible Greet one another with a holy kiss. - 2 Corinthians 13:12 Resources 15 Simple Ways to Connect with Your Spouse - CalmHealthySexy 6 Ways to Invest in Your Marriage - CalmHealthySexy Speak Your Husband's Love Language - CalmHealthySexy 6 Kinds of Touch Every Marriage Needs - Hot, Holy & Humorous 5 Kisses You Need to Master - Hot, Holy & Humorous Recreational Enjoyment Inventory | Marriage Builders, Inc. Nurture Your Nonsexual Intimacy | The Forgiven Wife Sensate Focus - PDF Recovering your sex drive with Sensate Focus Mindful Touching Techniques |Linda Weiner

Our listeners have varied experiences, and some may value knowing some basic principles from a physical and emotional perspective. So today, we're getting back to the foundations of sexual intimacy, including what we wish we'd known going into marriage. Sponsor Check out our special offer for women-owned businesses. From the Bible But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22–23 Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. Romans 12:10 You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love. Galatians 5:13 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. Ephesians 4:32 Greet one another with a kiss of love. Peace to all of you who are in Christ. 1 Peter 5:14 And this is his command: to believe in the name of his Son, Jesus Christ, and to love one another as he commanded us. 1 John 3:23 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4–7 Song of Songs (the mutuality and intimacy of sex in marriage) "I have the right to do anything," you say—but not everything is beneficial. "I have the right to do anything"—but not everything is constructive. 1 Corinthians 10:23 Resources Q&A with J: Protecting Yourself from Infection - Hot, Holy & Humorous Dealing with Erection Problems - The Forgiven Wife Should You Track the Frequency of Sex in Your Marriage? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 125: Is Sex a Need? Love Like a Woman: Should Your Sexual Response Be Like Your Husband's? - The Forgiven Wife These 3 Actions Could Bring You to Orgasm - Hot, Holy & Humorous 5 Times of Day to Make Love - Hot, Holy & Humorous You're Not Kissing Enough - Hot, Holy & Humorous Husbands, How to Help Your Wife Feel Sexy Again - CalmHealthySexy How Do You Like to Be Touched? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Female Ejaculation: Is It Real? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Orgasm Webinar Unlock Your Orgasm: Through a Christian Lens by Bonny Logsdon Burns Dear Wife, Sex is for You Too - CalmHealthySexy What Are the Real Purposes of Sex? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 43: Rebuilding Her Trust, with Jessica McCleese - Knowing Her Sexually Faithful Counseling – now Better Help Do I Have To? - The Forgiven Wife Setting Boundaries in the Bedroom - Hot, Holy & Humorous Is Anal Sex Okay? - Hot, Holy & Humorous 5 Ways to Talk About Sex with Your Husband - CalmHealthySexy Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. Parker Couples Sharing Exercise (FANOS) (hopecounselingtexas.com) Do You Pray for Your Sex Life? - Hot, Holy & Humorous includes affiliate links Visit our website: forchristianwives.com

With Bonny out again, we're down one wife today, but we've invited not one but two other wives to join us at today's virtual kitchen table. We're so happy to have Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer, co-authors of The Flirtation Experiment, with us to discuss how flirting with your husband can lead to greater intimacy in marriage and the bedroom. Be sure to check out their book! Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Venus Pearls, from Burns Logsdon Therapeutics. This episode is also sponsored by Married Dance. From the Bible What does the Bible say about flirting? You have stolen my heart, my sister, my bride; you have stolen my heart with one glance of your eyes, with one jewel of your necklace. Song of Songs 4:9 His mouth is sweetness itself; he is altogether lovely. This is my beloved, this is my friend, daughters of Jerusalem. Song of Songs 5:16 And the rest of Song of Songs! Resources The Flirtation Experiment: Putting Magic, Mystery, and Spark Into Your Everyday Marriage by Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer Lisa Jacobson | Club31Women Phylicia Masonheimer | Every Woman a Theologian Honest Marriage Episode 9 // On Flirtation | Phylicia Masonheimer Did You Know That God Loves a Good Romance? - Club31Women The Flirtation Experiment - 6 Fun Ways to Rekindle Your Marriage - Calm.Healthy.Sexy. 7 Fun & Flirty Take-Turns Games to Play with Your Spouse - Hot, Holy & Humorous How to Feel Attractive - Real Beauty and Confidence for Real Women - Calm.Healthy.Sexy. Flirt with your Husband (12 SFW text messages) • Bonny's Oysterbed7 How to Flirt with Your Husband | The Forgiven Wife The Misunderstood Science of Sexual Desire | The Cut (Rosemary Basson and responsive desire) Identifying a Facial Expression of Flirtation and Its Effect on Men: The Journal of Sex Research: Vol 58, No 2 (tandfonline.com) Elvis Presley - Burning Love (hunka hunka ~wink~) Episode 41: Flirting with Your Husband (includes affiliate links) Visit our website: forchristianwives.com

About this episode We've heard from many women that their sex life sometimes feels boring. Today, we talk about boredom in the bedroom and what to do about it. Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Venus Pearls, from Burns Logsdon Therapeutics. From the Bible The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved. – Song of Songs 7:13 Resources Study on sexual satisfaction linked to understanding sexual growth (University of Toronto study reveals secret to a happy sex life | EurekAlert!) 2019 Webinar Series - Sex Chat for Christian Wives 2020 Webinar Series - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Games & Sex Dice for Couples | Christian sex toy store (marrieddance.com) Why I Still Wear Lingerie (though My Hubby Doesn't Care) - Hot, Holy & Humorous.com) How to Feel Sexier - Practical Tips for Wives and Moms Sexual Variety and Libido in Marriage • Bonny's Oysterbed7 Episode 98: Overcoming Boredom in the Bedroom Create the Exciting Sex Life That Wives Want - Hot, Holy & Humorous (by guest Ruth Buezis) The Comfort Zone | The Forgiven Wife 4 Ways to Be Present During Sex | The Forgiven Wife Is the Spark Gone from Your Sex Life? | Honeycomb & Spice 75 Ideas for Spicing Up Your Sex Life | Honeycomb & Spice 3 Benefits of Sexual Adventure | Honeycomb & Spice

Have you heard it said that sex is a need? We have too. Quite a few people talk about how a spouse can and should meet their mate's sexual needs. Today we're addressing that underlying assumption: Is sex a need? Sponsor This episode is sponsored by Strong Wives - Bonny Burns' Coaching Site. Also sponsored by Married Dance, a Christian, marriage-focused sex toy store. From the Bible And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus. – Philippians 4:19 Resources Q&A with J: Sexual Wants Vs. Needs - Hot, Holy & Humorous THE INTIMACY PYRAMID - Home What Is Sex? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Q&A with J: "He Wants It Every Night...Several Times" - Hot, Holy & Humorous Leviticus 15:19, 28 - 14-Day Break around Menstruation Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing by Jay Stringer The Gift of Sex: A Guide to Sexual Fulfillment by Clifford and Joyce Penner Visit our website: forchristianwives.com

About this episode In this episode, we're responding to questions from listeners about touching yourself during sex, whether it's okay to have sex just for fun sometimes, and why a young husband might struggle to maintain an erection. Sponsor This episode is sponsored by Strong Wives - Bonny Burns' Coaching Site. From the Bible A cheerful heart is good medicine... ~ Proverbs 17:22a Heal me, Lord, and I will be healed; save me and I will be saved, for you are the one I praise. ~ Jeremiah 17:14 Resources Solo Masturbation? - The Forgiven Wife Masturbation: Hands On or Hands Off? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Why Sex Should Be Hot, Holy, and Humorous - Hot, Holy & Humorous Is Sex a Spiritual Experience in Your Marriage? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Dealing with Erection Problems - The Forgiven Wife Searchable Database for Certified Sexual Addiction Therapists (CSAT) Covenant Eyes Blog - information on pornography addictions and sexually problematic behavior Hope For Wives: Overcoming the Impact of Sexual Betrayal through a Christian Lens - podcast Understanding Your Sex Drive - Webinar Replay - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Episode 118: Sex Is For You, Too - previous podcast RAINN - Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network Q&A with J: "He Goes Hard and Then Soft" - Hot, Holy & Humorous

When we started podcasting in February 2017, we didn't know whether we'd get through one year, much less five years. But here we are, celebrating this amazing milestone with a bit of reminiscing, some bloopers, and our wishes and hopes for our fabulous listeners! Sponsor Visit Married Dance Shop From the Bible She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. - Proverbs 31:25 Resources Hope for Wives Podcast Strong Wives - Bonny's Coaching Practice Healthy Life Toolbox - Gaye's New Site Honeycomb & Spice - Chris's Site Higher Desire Wives - J's Community Webinar Shop Page Visit our website: forchristianwives.com