Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Once again, we're answering your questions! Today, we'll cover three topics: what does "deprivation" really mean (1 Corinthians 7:3-5), dealing with the messiness of sex, and when sex cannot happen. Sponsor Share the Soap has a September Special for our listeners! Buy a Face Set (face renewal, eye gel & facial soap) and get a free lip balm. Put the face set & lip balm of choice in the cart, then add coupon at checkout: FCWFS. Helps skin transition to the Fall! From the Bible The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 Resources Vibrator for Husband/Couple Is Refusing Sex in Marriage a Sin? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Are You Owed Sex in Marriage? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Maintaining Sexual Intimacy When Sex Isn't Possible | WORTHY Bible Studies Enjoying Your Husband's Semen | The Forgiven Wife Liberator Fascinator Throw Sex Sheets | Married Dance Dealing with Erection Problems | The Forgiven Wife Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a five-star rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives (Bonny Burns) Honeycomb & Spice (Chris Taylor) Calm.Healthy.Sexy. and The Healthy Life Toolbox (Gaye Christmus) Hot, Holy & Humorous (J. Parker) This post may contain affiliate links, meaning we receive a commission for purchases made through these links at no additional cost to you.

Subscribe to our upcoming newsletter HERE! Recorded while still on our retreat in Nashville, Tennessee, we're playing a game and invite you to play along! Inspired by a board game in the Airbnb where we stayed, Chris and J present trivia questions about sex and test how much we "sexperts" really know. DOWNLOAD YOUR FACT OR FICTION PRINTABLE! Sponsor Married Dance online Christian sex toy / marital aid store 13% off sitewide for Labor Day with code LD23 at checkout. From the Bible For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. Psalm 139:13 My dove in the clefts of the rock, in the hiding places on the mountainside, show me your face, let me hear your voice;for your voice is sweet, and your face is lovely. Song of Songs 2:14 Resources The Hardest Sex Quiz You Will Ever Take (buzzfeed.com) Sex Trivia Quiz (buzzfeed.com) Penis Size: From the Wife's Point of View - Hot, Holy & Humorous Q&A with J: "Is My Penis Big Enough?" - Hot, Holy & Humorous Q&A with J: Doesn't She Really Want a Bigger Penis? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Q&A with J: Is Sex Disconnected from Love for Men? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Sex After a Hysterectomy - Part 1: The Basics | The Forgiven Wife Episode 132: The Orgasm Iceberg Orgasm Webinar Fun Findings about Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous BentCarrot.com What we didn't know about male anatomy | Diane Kelly - TED Talk Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a five-star rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives (Bonny Burns) Honeycomb & Spice (Chris Taylor) Calm.Healthy.Sexy. and The Healthy Life Toolbox (Gaye Christmus) Hot, Holy & Humorous (J. Parker)

We have often shared tips of things you can do to enjoy sex more, but today we're going to talk about things not to do. In this episode, we address 6 things not to do during sex. Sponsor Hot, Holy & Humorous Intimacy Cruise From the Bible My dove in the clefts of the rock, in the hiding places on the mountainside, show me your face, let me hear your voice;for your voice is sweet, and your face is lovely. Song of Songs 2:14 Resources Enough, Already | The Forgiven Wife 4 Ways to Be Present During Sex | The Forgiven Wife Mindfulness & Meditation During Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous Q&A with J: Engaging Your Mind in Lovemaking - Hot, Holy & Humorous Wives: What Is Your Husband Thinking During Sex? - Hot, Holy & Humorous (guest post from Gerad Harris) Does Your Spouse Think about Previous Lovers? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Two Words Your Higher-Desire Spouse Needs You to Hear - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 118: Sex Is for You Too This post may contain affiliate links, meaning we receive a commission for purchases made through these links at no additional cost to you.

You've probably heard of love languages, or maybe you haven't. But when minister Gary Chapman noted that spouses often communicated love past one another, he realized that we express love in different ways. So, he proposed that there are five love languages—and his book of the same name became a bestseller and perennial favorite. Today, we'll talk about those languages and what they mean when it comes to our favorite topic: sex. Sponsor Get 20% off the new CBD skincare and bath & body line (derived from USA-grown hemp and independently lab tested to be THC free). Use coupon code FCW20 at checkout! Click here for the new CBD Line Click here to visit the main webite From the Bible Gifts: Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates are in bloom— there I will give you my love. Song of Songs 7:12 Quality Time: My beloved is mine and I am his; he browses among the lilies. Until the day breaks and the shadows flee, turn, my beloved, and be like a gazelle or like a young stag on the rugged hills. Song of Songs 2:17 Physical Touch: His left arm is under my head and his right arm embraces me. Song of Songs 2:6, 8:3 Acts of Service: I would lead you and bring you to my mother's house— she who has taught me. I would give you spiced wine to drink, the nectar of my pomegranates. Song of Songs 8:2 Words of Affirmation: HE How beautiful you are, my darling! Oh, how beautiful! Your eyes are doves. SHE How handsome you are, my beloved! Oh, how charming! And our bed is verdant. (Many other passages in Song of Solomon demonstrate Words of Affirmation!) Resources The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts by Gary Chapman Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages® Identify Your Spouse's Love Language - Love Languages Quiz (calmhealthysexy.com) Speak Your Husband's Love Language- and Strengthen Your Marriage (calmhealthysexy.com) Why Knowing Your Low Drive Wife's Love Language is Important • Bonny's Oysterbed7 "Do You Enjoy Getting Flowers?" What Your Answers Tell Me About Marriage - Hot, Holy & Humorous Help Your Husband Speak Love in Your Language | The Forgiven Wife Loving My Husband | The Forgiven Wife Episode 67: Romance and Your Bedroom Fuzu Massage Candle | MarriedDance Astroglide Strawberry-Flavored Water-Based Personal Lubricant | MarriedDance Episode 10: Tending Your Garden Bedazzled, Bothered, and Bewildered - Hot, Holy & Humorous (on vajazzling) Episode 120: Our Holiday Gift Guide – Sexy and Romantic Gifts for Couples Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a five-star rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives (Bonny Burns) Honeycomb & Spice (Chris Taylor) Calm.Healthy.Sexy. and The Healthy Life Toolbox (Gaye Christmas) Hot, Holy & Humorous (J. Parker)

The term "emotional labor" has come to mean the emotional cost of outwardly acting with composure when inwardly we are feeling something different. Rose Hackman, an expert on emotional labor describes is at the editing work of emotions that someone would do in order to have an effects on the emotions of someone else. Today, we want to talk about emotional labor and how it can negatively affect sexual interest. Sponsor MarriedDance - Christian sex toy store - Nudity-Free, Discreet Shipping Join the podcast team for a Meet & Greet! Saturday, July 22, 1:00–3:00 pm 1035 Acorn Drive, Nashville TN 37210 From the Bible Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. If anyone thinks they are something when they are not, they deceive themselves. Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else, for each one should carry their own load. Galatians 6:2–5 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Romans 12:18 Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor. Ephesians 4:9 A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants. She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night. Proverbs 31:10–18 Resources What Is Emotional Labor in Relationships? (brides.com) (mentioned by J) 5 Words Women Need to Learn to Say – CalmHealthySexy How to Manage Your Family's Schedule (to Reduce Stress!) – CalmHealthySexy The Working Mother's Guilt Guide Helping Your Wife Balance Motherhood and Sexual Intimacy – Knowing Her Sexually (khsministry.com) Dad Discovers the Mental Load | Video | SBS Voices Women are earning more, but they're still doing more housework and caregiving : NPR Does Choreplay Work? – Knowing Her Sexually Why a Husband Helping Around the House Makes a Wife More Open to Sex – Hot, Holy & Humorous (hotholyhumorous.com) Episode 5: Sex Scheduling Episode 148: Sex Scheduling 101 Calm. Healthy. Happy. – 17 Simple Ways to Slow Down, Feel Great, and C – CalmHealthySexy ($5 book) This post may contain affiliate links, meaning we receive a commission for purchases made through these links at no additional cost to you. Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a five-star rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives (Bonny Burns) Honeycomb & Spice (Chris Taylor) Calm.Healthy.Sexy. and The Healthy Life Toolbox (Gaye Christmas) Hot, Holy & Humorous (J. Parker)

We're recording before the American Independence Day, but this episode will air on July 4th—a time when fireworks displays can be found all over the country. But what about the explosive power of lovemaking? How can you create fireworks in the bedroom? Sponsor From Share the Soap, check out the new quarterly subscription box! And for FCW listeners only, use coupon code FCWJuly and get a free lip balm. Put the Celebrate box and the desired lip balm in the cart, apply the coupon, and the lip balm will be free. Coupon good for the month of July. Get the subscription box HERE, and shop more widely at Share the Soap HERE. From the Bible The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved. Song of Songs 7:13 Resources Episode 153: Practical Tips for Reaching Orgasm How to Have Vacation Sex - Even When You're Not on Vacation (calmhealthysexy.com) Marriage Cruise - Hot, Holy & Humorous - ONLY A FEW SPOTS LEFT! 5 Times of Day to Make Love - Hot, Holy & Humorous Want a transcript of this episode? With the help of AI, we're trying out a new feature. Click HERE to get a PDF with a (rough) transcription of Episode 157: Creating Fireworks in the Bedroom. Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a five-star rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives (Bonny Burns) Honeycomb & Spice (Chris Taylor) Calm.Healthy.Sexy. and The Healthy Life Toolbox (Gaye Christmas) Hot, Holy & Humorous (J. Parker)

About this episode Today we're talking about the penis. What exactly is it? How does your husband feel about it? How do you feel about it? And how can you get comfortable and have fun with it? Sponsor Click here to learn more From the Bible So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27 Resources Diane Kelly: What we didn't know about penis anatomy | TED Talk Oral Sex Webinar - Sex Chat for Christian Wives - ONLY $10! Penis Size: From the Wife's Point of View - Hot, Holy & Humorous Q&A with J: "Is My Penis Big Enough?" - Hot, Holy & Humorous Q&A with J: "Will My Larger Penis Hurt My Bride?" - Hot, Holy & Humorous Q&A with J: Doesn't She Really Want a Bigger Penis? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Does size matter? Men's and women's views on penis size across the lifespan. (apa.org) - study mentioned Get to Know His Penis - The Forgiven Wife How to Give a Hand Job - Hot, Holy & Humorous Enjoying Your Husband's Semen - The Forgiven Wife Erection - The Cleveland Clinic

Today's episode focuses on a group of women who often struggle to enjoy sex or prioritize sex in their marriages – busy moms. This group includes women across a wide range of ages and life stages 0151from those caring for infants and toddlers at home to those juggling all of the activities, demands, and worries involved in raising teenagers. We talk about some of the things that get in the way of busy moms enjoying sex in their marriages and share some ideas for creating a more enjoyable sex life. Sponsor From Share the Soap, check out the new quarterly subscription box! And for FCW listeners only, use coupon code FCWJuly and get a free lip balm. Put the Celebrate box and the desired lip balm in the cart, apply the coupon, and the lip balm will be free. Coupon good for the month of July. Visit Share the Soap. From the Bible She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: "Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all." Proberbs 31:25, 28-29 Resources Manage Your Family's Schedule - Calm.Healthy.Sexy. 5 Words You Need to Learn to Say - Calm.Healthy.Sexy. 6 Simple Ways to Slow Down this Summer - Calm.Healthy.Sexy. 4 Reasons to Add a Regular "Parents' Night" to Your Family's Schedule - Calm.Healthy.Sexy. Q&A with J: Baby's Here, But Sex? Not So Much. - Hot, Holy & Humorous Yes, Kid, Your Mommy and Daddy Have Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous Making Love When You Have Teens in the Home - Hot, Holy & Humorous Q&A with J: Avoiding Sex Because the Kids Can Hear - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 95: How Does Depression Affect Sex? After Baby Comes Along | The Forgiven Wife What Will the Kids Think? | The Forgiven Wife 3 Ways for a Young Mom to Feel More Sensual • Bonny's Oysterbed7 Moms still doing more housework in COVID 19 pandemic | Ball State University (bsu.edu) A Guy's Guide To Emotional Labor - AskMen (article recommended by Chris) Getting in the Mood Webinar – Replay - ONLY $10! Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a five-star rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives (Bonny Burns) Honeycomb & Spice (Chris Taylor) Calm.Healthy.Sexy. and The Healthy Life Toolbox (Gaye Christmas) Hot, Holy & Humorous (J. Parker)

Today, we're discussing pornography and erotica, and you can probably guess where our collective opinions land. But we want to explore this topic just a little further to solidify where your values land. Sponsor Strong Wives - Coaching & Sexual Clarity Course Email Bonny: bonny@strongwives.com From the Bible So God created human beings in his own image. In the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27 (NLT) I will conduct the affairs of my house with a blameless heart. I will not look with approval on anything that is vile. Psalm 101:2b–3a Drink water from your own cistern, running water from your own well. Should your springs overflow in the streets, your streams of water in the public squares? Let them be yours alone, never to be shared with strangers. May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth. Proverbs 5:15–18 Do not lust in your heart after her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes. Proverbs 6:25 "You have heard that it was said, 'You shall not commit adultery.' But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell." Matthew 5:27–30 "I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman." Job 31:1 Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. 1 Peter 5:8 Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. Hebrews 13:4 Resources Defining Pornography • Bonny's Oysterbed7 Episode 3: 50 Shades of Here-We-Go-Again A Shaded View of Romance | The Forgiven Wife Are Romance Novels Okay for Christian Women? | The Forgiven Wife As Bad as Porn? | The Forgiven Wife Common Myths of Romance Novels - Hot, Holy & Humorous An Open Letter on Porn (gottman.com) Why Do Women Pose for Porn? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing by Jay Stringer 5 Reasons to Stop Using Porn...Now - Hot, Holy & Humorous It's True: Porn Can Kill Your Sex Life - Hot, Holy & Humorous You're Not Freaking Out, You're Responding to Death • Strong Wives The Betrayal Bind: How to Heal When the Person You Love the Most Hurts You the Worst by Michelle Mays Q&A with J: "My Husband Is Addicted to Porn" - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 40: Healing after Porn Discovery Strong Wives - Bonny's website Hope For Wives Podcast: Overcoming the Impact of Sexual Betrayal Is Porn Use an Addiction (and Does It Even Matter)? | The Forgiven Wife Q&A with J: "What Should We Call Persistent Porn Use?" - Hot, Holy & Humorous Why Does He Watch Porn? Understanding Root Causes • Bonny's Oysterbed7 Critiques of Questionable & Misleading Studies; Debunking Propaganda Pieces (yourbrainonporn.com) Check out our webinars. Some are priced at $5, some at $10 — ALL an amazing deal! Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a five-star rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives (Bonny Burns) Honeycomb & Spice (Chris Taylor) Calm.Healthy.Sexy. and The Healthy Life Toolbox (Gaye Christmas) Hot, Holy & Humorous (J. Parker)

About this episode One of the most frequent questions we hear is how can we more easily achieve the ultimate moment with our husbands in the bedroom. So today, we are talking about practical tips to reach orgasm. Sponsors Venus Pearls This episode is also sponsored by Married Dance, an online Christian sex toy store From the Bible Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth— for your love is more delightful than wine. Song of Songs 1:2 Eat, friends, and drink; drink your fill of love. Song of Songs 5:1b Resources Orgasm Webinar - ONLY $10! Peace and Fireworks | The Forgiven Wife Unlock Your Orgasm: Through a Christian Lens by Bonny Logsdon Burns Q&A with J: Does He Know How Your Orgasm Works? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Rebuilding Intimacy in Marriage (When Trust Has Been Damaged) - Hot, Holy & Humorous Forget What You Look Like While Making Love - Hot, Holy & Humorous 6 Steps to Learn to Orgasm with Your Husband | Honeycomb & Spice Q&A with J: "How Can I Orgasm with Penetration?" - Hot, Holy & Humorous A Key to Understanding Orgasm: Deep Spots • Bonny's Oysterbed7 (see O series list at the bottom) Does Your Husband Prioritize Your Orgasm? - Hot, Holy & Humorous These 3 Actions Could Bring You to Orgasm - Hot, Holy & Humorous Use Scent to Enhance Your Sex Life | The Forgiven Wife This post may contain affiliate links, meaning we receive a commission for purchases made through these links at no additional cost to you.