We Can Do Hard Things

Treat Media and Glennon Doyle
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Sep 9, 2021 • 54min

25. You’re NOT A MESS. The world is.

A viral note sparks a heartfelt conversation about collective struggles, reflecting the overwhelming pain in the world. The hosts explore the emotional complexities of motherhood, especially as children grow independent. They discuss the balance between addressing climate anxiety and fostering shared humanity. Emphasis is placed on proactive empathy and the importance of recognizing individual contributions. Personal anecdotes illustrate navigating vulnerability and the power of emotional connections.
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Sep 7, 2021 • 58min

24. ALL THE FEELS: Can we experience our emotions—not as good or bad—but as information to guide us?

Exploring the emotional rollercoaster of sending a child to college, the speakers share personal strategies for navigating tough feelings. They discuss how recognizing hard emotions as informative tools can foster resilience and growth. Insights on sobriety reveal that confronting deep emotions is vital for personal stability. A unique life hack called 'Save as Drafts' emphasizes improving relationships. Ultimately, the conversation encourages embracing the full spectrum of emotions as crucial for self-discovery and connection.
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Sep 2, 2021 • 43min

23. Lightning Love & Not Calming Down

Explore the intriguing idea of 'summer rain' love versus 'lightning love' as the ideal relationship. Discover the delicate balance of when to speak up or remain silent, especially in high-stakes meetings. Hear about the concept of 'silent solidarity' and its implications on gender dynamics in professional settings. Gain insights on effectively communicating with highly sensitive children and the importance of validating their emotions. These discussions blend humor with essential life lessons on love and resilience.
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Aug 31, 2021 • 54min

22. REAL TALK: How can we begin to use conversation as a key to unlocking each other?

The discussion dives into five key communication strategies that enhance connection. One host expresses frustration over how talking often overshadows true listening, leading to feelings of loneliness. They delve into the art of active listening and the disruptive nature of interruptions in conversations. Personal anecdotes reveal how structured family discussions foster inclusivity. The hosts emphasize the moral responsibilities of sharing thoughts, the significance of empathy, and the need for meaningful dialogues to strengthen relationships.
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Aug 26, 2021 • 43min

21. On Cussing, “Cattiness” & What Feminism Means to G

Delve into the perplexing world of female friendships and the societal conditioning that labels women as ‘catty.’ Discover how the language we use, especially in cursing, reflects deep-rooted misogyny and gender dynamics. Hear personal insights on feminism and the baffling exclusion within movements that aim to uplift all women. Plus, Glennon shares her surprising love for parenting teenagers, celebrating the unique joys and challenges during these pivotal years. It's a candid exploration of identity, empathy, and the ongoing fight for equality.
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Aug 24, 2021 • 49min

20. PLAYING OUR ROLES: How does culture’s invention of gender typecast every last one of us?

The discussion dives into the challenges of gender roles in professional settings, highlighting how women often face bias that affects their ambitions. Personal stories reveal the emotional impact of misgendering, while examining societal expectations that pressure individuals to conform. The speakers argue for more inclusive language and practices, challenging traditional views on identity. Moreover, the dynamics of same-sex marriages are explored, particularly how they disrupt patriarchal norms and redefine relationships.
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Aug 19, 2021 • 40min

19. SISTER ACT: Who is Amanda—and seriously, how does she know all the things?

The hosts dive into the intriguing complexity of identity as they discuss the significance of names and nicknames, particularly for Amanda. They reflect on their college weekends spent in jail, revealing starkly different reasons behind those experiences. An exploration of power dynamics reveals how personal stories intertwine with larger societal systems, especially concerning violence against women. Listeners are encouraged to embrace authenticity and resist societal pressures while also finding wisdom in stillness amidst life's chaos.
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Aug 17, 2021 • 53min

18. “BEAUTY”: How did we get trapped in this cage, and how do we break free?

The discussion unveils how societal beauty standards trap individuals, especially women, in a cycle of self-doubt. It questions why women's worth is often tied to their appearance while exploring the liberating notion of reclaiming beauty as empowerment. The paradox of beauty and success is examined, revealing the pressures of conforming to unrealistic ideals. Listeners are encouraged to embrace self-acceptance and redefine beauty beyond superficial notions, ultimately celebrating the essence of personal beauty within.
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Aug 12, 2021 • 51min

17. EASY THINGS: Why, for some of us, is lightening up the hardest thing to do?

Glennon shares her acceptance of being a midnight person in a sunshine world, sparking laughs and relatable reflections. The hosts discuss how favorite movies and music reveal personality traits, diving into dramatic versus comedic preferences. There’s a humorous take on relationships and the importance of inclusive language, alongside a light-hearted comparison of their emotional journeys through playful metaphors. Themes of personal growth, wellness, and the uplifting impact of music add depth to their engaging banter.
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Aug 10, 2021 • 60min

16. QUITTING: When is it time to let something or someone go?

Discover the profound power of quitting and how it can be an act of self-care, especially for women facing societal pressures. Explore the tension between ambition and present happiness, reflecting on personal anecdotes that reveal the joy of living in the moment. Hear poignant insights on navigating life transitions, like ending a marriage, as empowering steps toward new beginnings. Embrace the idea that quitting can be liberating, fostering personal growth and deeper fulfillment in your journey.

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