The KYLO Show

When we talk about choosing love over fear in parenting, we’re talking about what is motivating our behavior toward our kids––and the motives we want to foster in them. We are actively trying to get them to manage themselves to make choices and behave in ways that promote and protect healthy connection. A reminder that as we look at parenting, these truths not only apply to listeners who have children, but also help us understand our relationships with our parents, with authority, and with God himself.--If you want to develop your character and build a whole, healthy family of your own, visit LovingOnPurpose.com and get all of our online courses plus access to additional training and resources. Visit https://lovingonpurpose.com/ now!--Referenced Resources:Coffee, Kids, & Crazy PodcastApple Podcasts- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/coffee-kids-and-crazy/id1437672748Spotify- https://open.spotify.com/show/5CZGLpDSK5Lhcl7suEPmOG YouTube- https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLkhlpzDb67iC4eJUPlfmQB7qXF3xy9gFf Loving Our Kids On Purpose (Book) https://lovingonpurpose.com/shop/loving-our-kids-on-purpose/  Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

For the next five episodes, we’re going to dive into how to apply the 5 KYLO Principles in parenting. If you’re not a parent don’t tune out because this is still going to be helpful for you! These episodes are about parenting, but it is ultimately rooted in our relationship with God and how He parents us. One of the greatest classrooms for your relationship with God is being a parent. Today we’re going to zone in on #1: Be powerful.--If you want to develop your character and build a whole, healthy family of your own, visit LovingOnPurpose.com and get all our online courses plus access to additional training and resources. Visit https://lovingonpurpose.com/ now!--Referenced Resources:Life Academy Kidshttp://www.lifeacademykids.com Family Coaching by Loving On Purposehttps://lovingonpurpose.com/familycoaching/  Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

A healthy boundary keeps in what you want to keep in your life and keeps out what you want to keep out. When we make the powerful choice to say yes to a relationship, that “yes” means saying “no” to other things. So, Boundaries are ultimately about protecting and honoring our “yes.” Danny and Brittney will explain further in this week’s episode of The KYLO Show.--If you want to develop your character and build a whole, healthy family of your own, visit LovingOnPurpose.com and get all of our online courses plus access to additional training and resources. Visit https://lovingonpurpose.com/ now!--Referenced Resources:Become a Life Academy Facilitatorhttps://loplifeacademy.com/facilitator/Keep Your Love On! by Danny Silkhttps://lovingonpurpose.com/shop/keep-your-love-on-books/ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Do you want to be; A) a passive communicator, B) an aggressive communicator, C) a passive-aggressive communicator, or D) an assertive communicator? Here’s a hint- the answer is D! Unfortunately, knowing the answer and practicing the answer are two different things. In this week’s episode, Danny and Brittney talk about the #1 reason for communication breakdowns and how to become a better communicator.--If you want to develop your character and build a whole, healthy family of your own, visit LovingOnPurpose.com and get all our online courses plus access to additional training and resources. Visit LovingOnPurpose.com now!--Referenced Resources:Keep Your Love On! by Danny Silkhttps://lovingonpurpose.com/shop/keep-your-love-on-books/  Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In every relationship we’re pursuing one of two goals; the goal of connection or the goal of distance. And in case you didn’t know the goal you want to pursue is connection. It's a really simple concept but it can feel very hard to do. In this week’s episode, Danny and Brittney teach on how you can pursue the goal of connection (always), the 7 Pillars of a Healthy Relationships, and you’ll get to hear an amazing listener testimony. This is an episode you’ll want to listen to over and over again. So, get your popcorn ready because this week’s episode just might be your new favorite.--If you want to develop your character and build a whole, healthy family of your own, visit LovingOnPurpose.com and get all our online courses plus access to additional training and resources. Visit LovingOnPurpose.com now!--Referenced Resources:The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene' Brownhttps://brenebrown.com/books-audio/ Keep Your Love On! by Danny Silkhttps://lovingonpurpose.com/shop/keep-your-love-on-books/  Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Hiding, avoiding, blaming, manipulation, and using people are all fear-based tools that create relationships full of anxiety. This is not the way it should be. In this week’s episode, Danny and Brittney talk about how to move out of self-preservation and into connection so that you can love like Jesus. If you want connected, life-giving, relationships then buckle up and get ready for this week’s episode, and KYLO Principle #2, Choose Love Over Fear!--If you want to develop your character and build a whole, healthy family of your own, visit LovingOnPurpose.com and get all our online courses plus access to additional training and resources. Visit LovingOnPurpose.com now!--Referenced Resources:Unpunishable by Danny Silkhttps://lovingonpurpose.com/shop/unpunishable/ Daring Greatly by Brene' Brownhttps://brenebrown.com/books-audio/  Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In the last 8 episodes, Danny and Brittney laid the groundwork for why whole, healthy families are going to save the world. In these next 5 episodes they're going to launch into how to keep your love on with The 5 KYLO Principles, starting with Principle #1: Be Powerful. Being a powerful person does not mean being angry, loud, or destructive. Being powerful means loving God, others, and ourselves like God loves. If you want to become a powerful person then cut the distractions and tune in because you about to learn what it takes to be a powerful person.--If you want to develop your character and build a whole, healthy family of your own, visit LovingOnPurpose.com and get all our online courses plus access to additional training and resources. Visit LovingOnPurpose.com --Referenced Resources:Keep Your Love On! by Danny Silkhttps://lovingonpurpose.com/shop/keep-your-love-on-books/  Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

God gave the human family a mission to be fruitful, multiply, and subdue the earth. In essence, to build family and build culture. Specifically, a kingdom culture. Our original mission was to expand heaven on earth. Sin didn’t remove the mission or mandate, it perverted it and caused it to be full of pain, frustration, futility, and strife. We’ve created hell on earth. Jesus came to redeem all of that and renew our mission. Our mission is to build the family of God, kingdom culture–and to bring heaven to earth.--If you want to develop your character and build a whole, healthy family of your own, visit LovingOnPurpose.com and get all our online courses plus access to additional training and resources. Visit LovingOnPurpose.com now!--Referenced Resources: "Culture Making: Recovering Our Creative Calling" by Andy Crouchhttps://andy-crouch.com/#section-Culture-Making  Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Being made in the image of God means being made in the image of family. We are not atomized individuals who just hatch out of the ground or get made in a factory. We are persons connected to other persons and to God in the design of family. This means our identity is relational AND that we can’t know who we are, why we are here, and what we need to be doing with our lives apart from this relational identity. --If you want to develop your character and build a whole, healthy family of your own, visit LovingOnPurpose.com and get all our online courses plus access to additional training and resources. Visit www.LovingOnPurpose.com  --Referenced Resources: C. S. Lewis - Membershiphttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AlHu_bmDFeA  Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

The current divorce rate is nowhere near 50 percent and has never been close to the 50 percent mark. Instead, the vast majority of marriages last a lifetime. Top experts continue to project divorce rates of 40 to 50 percent, but these are future projections based on various assumptions, and we’ve never come close to that high of an overall divorce rate. Most marriages (about 80%) are happy, but there’s a strong cultural message that most aren’t, which creates fear and discouragement about the institution of marriage. God’s design for marriage has been under attack. A perverted version of marriage has taken root in our culture. Marriage is to be the image of our relationship with God. It’s an epic adventure that’s hardwired into us. Married, divorced, single, or dating? This episode is for you.--If you want to develop your character and build a whole, healthy family of your own, visit LovingOnPurpose.com and get all our online courses plus access to additional training and resources. Visit LovingOnPurpose.com --Referenced Resources: The Good News About Marriage: Debunking Discouraging Myths about Marriage and Divorcehttps://shaunti.com/tb-books/good-news-marriage/  Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.