

Fatherhood Field Notes
Ned Schaut
Fatherhood Field Notes is where we hear real stories from real men living real lives every week. Fatherhood is not only about being a dad, it incorporates providing and serving a home, loving and serving a spouse, engaging and serving in a community, as well as intentionally serving your children. Fatherhood is an adventure, one full of fun, wild, and messy stories. In this podcast, we will hear stories from real men who have found themselves living the Adventure of Fatherhood. The Craft of Fatherhood episodes are 5-10 minute episodes where your guide Ned Schaut shares stories on his own fatherhood journey.
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Jan 9, 2024 • 52min
EP 378: Father-Daughter Connection…A Conversation With My 17 Year Old Senior Brooklyn
Join Ned as he shares his journey of being a father to his daughter Brooklyn, who is in her final year of high school. They talk about the joys and challenges of father-daughter relationships, from dating to college applications. The episode reveals how they keep their bond strong through honest communication, empathy, and teamwork. It also shows how a father’s influence can shape a daughter’s outlook on life’s opportunities and obstacles, from career decisions to personal development. ----------Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: RUK FitnessThis episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood.Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate

Jan 5, 2024 • 9min
EP 377: New Year, Set Some Intention! | Craft of Fatherhood
Ned dives into the profound role of fatherhood, emphasizing its power to shape the world. He shares personal stories and insights, reflecting on the responsibilities and joys of being a father. He explores the importance of physical fitness and discipline, highlighting his impact on mental and spiritual well-being. Ned discusses the concept of being a role model, not just within the family but also in the wider community. Ned shared a blend of motivation, personal anecdotes, and practical advice, aiming to inspire fathers to embrace their journey with intention and purpose.----------This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood.Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate

Jan 2, 2024 • 48min
EP 376: Reflection on the Transformation and Growth From 2023 and How I Plan for a New Year
Ned shares his wisdom on how to pursue true transformation, growth, and presence as a father. He reflects on his most transformative moments of 2023, such as traveling with his family, writing love letters to his wife, getting in the best shape of his life, and attending two powerful events that challenged him to see his blind spots and deepen his connection with his wife and kids. He also reveals how he plans for a new year, setting intentions and goals that align with his values and vision. He talks about the difference between discipline and transformation, the importance of rest and listening, and the impact of his fatherhood role on his world. Ned shares his insights, stories, and practical tips that will inspire you to rebel against low expectations for fathers and create a life of transformation, growth, and presence.----------Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: RUK FitnessThis episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood.Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate

Dec 29, 2023 • 10min
EP 375: Listen to the Words Your Kids Say | Craft of Fatherhood
Ned goes into the complexities and joys of fatherhood, focusing particularly on how fathers can effectively engage with their teenage daughters. He shares personal anecdotes about setting boundaries, the importance of being more than just the 'no' parent, and fostering open communication. Ned offers valuable insights into creating a culture of trust and understanding, highlighting how fathers can be actively involved in their daughters' lives and decision-making processes.----------This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood.Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate

Dec 26, 2023 • 41min
EP 374: Highlighting Wisdom from the Trenches of Fatherhood
Ned revisits key moments from the past year, weaving together a tapestry of fatherhood experiences that underscore the transformative power of this role. The episode highlights a range of fathers, each sharing profound insights into their personal journeys, struggles, and triumphs. From confronting personal flaws and rebuilding relationships to finding strength in vulnerability, these stories illuminate the deep emotional landscape of fatherhood. This is a reflection into the complexities of managing emotions, the impact of fatherly actions on family dynamics, and the pursuit of personal growth for the betterment of one's family. Each narrative serves as a beacon, guiding listeners through the tumultuous yet rewarding voyage of fatherhood, emphasizing its significance in shaping lives and fostering resilience. The episode stands as a testament to the courage, introspection, and dedication inherent in the journey of being a father.Previous Episodes:EP 354 with Chris Bruno: Enter the Pain, Transforming into the Man, and Being Real: https://open.spotify.com/episode/29CDXYD9QNfNgAG7HUpxNQ?si=TpHurQPFR9KcALQtE4B47gEP 334 with Chris Flores: Jail, Redemption, & the Power of your Story: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4nKXTKqLMLCgtEUL3rUuOs?si=xnwS_-9KSZ6SWt0aI1JEnAEP 274 with Dr. Kelly Flanagan: Illusions, Transformations, & Understanding: https://open.spotify.com/episode/72B6LqURF6suMS65qq10s6?si=Axy3unRcQgiOc0GBORtHvwEP 370 Dan Tocchini: WHO To Be For Your Family, Processing Death in the Family, and AI Parenting: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3nkldCsEnFurpmIEHjF8NI?si=Aa3GNpEVTX6078uRIIvTeQ----------This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood.Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate

Dec 22, 2023 • 8min
EP 373: Presence is the Best Gift You Can Give | Craft of Fatherhood
Ned shares his personal journey, underscoring the profound importance of presence and connection within the family, particularly during festive times. He narrates heartwarming moments, like playing guitar by the Christmas tree with his children, illustrating the deep and lasting impact of these experiences. During this holiday season use this time as a reminder of a father's role in fostering familial bonds and personal growth, resonating with listeners who value the intricacies and joys of parenting, especially during the holiday season.----------This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood.Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate

Dec 19, 2023 • 53min
EP 372 Luke Entrup: Guide Your Son in His Power, Create Healthy Rites of Passage, and Don’t Outsource Your Parenting
Luke Entrup, a men’s and leadership coach who is passionate about helping boys make the transition into healthy manhood. Luke shares his own story of how he was initiated into fatherhood through a psychedelic journey and a divorce, and how he learned to show up for his kids in a deeper way. He also talks about the work he does around rites of passage, helping fathers and sons connect with nature, their emotions, their purpose, and their power. Luke offers some practical advice and insights on how to face the challenges and opportunities of fatherhood, and how to cultivate a sense of belonging, influence, and sensitivity in ourselves and our kids. Luke Entrup is a men’s and leadership coach who helps men navigate the complexities of modern life and leadership. He is the founder of The Adventure of Fatherhood, a program that helps fathers and sons bond through nature-based rites of passage. He is also a co-founder of The Modern Elder Academy, a retreat center that helps people midlife and beyond to repurpose a lifetime of experience. Luke has over 20 years of experience in coaching, facilitation, and organizational development. He is a father of two and lives in Sonoma County, California.His website: https://www.lukeentrup.com/His LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/luke-entrup-04b68116----------This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood.Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate

Dec 15, 2023 • 11min
EP 371: How do you respond when your kid lies? | Craft of Fatherhood
Ned shares a personal story of how he handled a situation where his teenager lied to him. He explains how he used the opportunity to have a deeper conversation with his kid, rather than just reacting with anger or punishment. He also talks about how he encourages his kids to lead in different situations, and how he prepares for the new year with his 90-day fatherhood legacy journal. Ned shares his passion for helping men discover their powerful fatherhood role and build their fatherhood skills through his online courses and resources.----------This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood.Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate

Dec 12, 2023 • 59min
EP 370 Dan Tocchini: WHO To Be For Your Family, Processing Death in the Family, and AI Parenting
Ned welcomes guest Dan Tocchini, who dives deep into the intricate and rewarding journey of fatherhood. Sharing his personal experiences, Dan highlights both the challenges and victories inherent in being a dad, from navigating family tragedies to fostering profound connections with his children and reflecting on his marital journey. His honest discussions shed light on the resilience and growth that come with paternal responsibility. Listeners will be inspired by Dan's perspective on confronting life's obstacles, the significance of remaining a steadfast pillar for one's family, and the art of crafting a legacy rooted in love, understanding, and consistent presence.Bio: Change Agent, Catalyst, Consultant, CoachDan Tocchini has been helping leaders bring some more magic onto their teams for over 35 years. He has worked with executive teams from Interstate Batteries and ESPN, to Smarty Pants Vitamins and Impulse Space, as well as with non-profits like Homeboy Industries and Defy Ventures. Dan gives a no-fluff approach by helping transform leadership teams without any pixie dust - just courageous leadership, creative conflict resolution, and relevant restructuring. No conversation is too difficult, no situation too conflicted because a leader with a vision cannot be held hostage by circumstance or history.Follow Dan here: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dan_tocchini/LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/dantocchini/takenewground.comwearerevenant.comFree Ebook: The Change Imperative: Innovating with Your TeamThe Naked Leadership PodcastApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-naked-leadership-podcast/id1495058489 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/73ZuLDaxdfhCNYXlmIQy01----------This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood.Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate

Dec 8, 2023 • 8min
EP 369: Making Your Home a Sacred space | Craft of Fatherhood
Ned, dives deep into the transformative journey of fatherhood. He reflects on the profound impact fathers have in shaping their homes into sacred, safe spaces where children can thrive. Ned emphasizes the importance of creating an environment of safety and trust, nurturing peace, and embracing the messiness and challenges of family life. He shares personal anecdotes and insights, encouraging fathers to be present, curious, and involved in their children's lives. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of the role of fathers in building a foundation of love and understanding within their families.----------This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood.Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate


