The Better Sex Podcast ~ Unfiltered Conversations

In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Deborah Catt interviews Beth Davis, known as the Dr. Purpose, an advisor to entrepreneurs and career professionals globally. Beth uses her intuition, extensive sales, marketing, and content creation experience, along with expertise in scientific hand analysis and human design, to help clients discover and unleash their purpose and design their life around their gifts for soul fulfillment. Beth shares her journey into entrepreneurship and the importance of being present in the now. Throughout the podcast, Deborah and Beth have an unfiltered conversation about sex and relationships, exploring the topic from a variety of angles. In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I sit down with Baeth Davis– often known as "Dr. Purpose"-- with over 24 years using her intuition, business experience, expertise in scientific hand analysis and human design to help global leaders clients discover and unleash their purpose for deep soul fulfillment. You might wonder what this has to do with better sex…. Well, in this lively conversation you get a taste of Baeth's passion for purpose as we how this along with human design supports better relationships (thus, better sex!) Throughout our conversation she shares how to cultivate your relationship with your body to feel empowered both in the boardroom AND the bedroom. We also get a bit of her story along the way with loads of juicy tidbits to help you fully show up in your relationships. Connect with Baeth Davis https://yourpurpose.com Join the Facebook community: https://facebook.com/groups/aligntoyourdesign Connect with Deborah https://DeborahKat.Com https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon

When it comes to sex, sometimes you need some help. You may be wondering how you can move towards better sex, or even how you can make your current sex life better. It's hard to say exactly what steps you should take in your personal search for improving your sex life without some guidance. In today's episode of The Better Sex Podcast, we are joined by Louis Brantmeyer, an extraordinary business coach for heart-centered coaches, powerful creator, magical manifestor, eclectic philosopher, and devotee of growth, healing, love, and science fiction. He will talk about how can we properly use our desires and some tips to make our sex better. Tune in now and Learn how to be comfortable in the dating world! Highlights: (01:59) Getting to know Louis More (02:46) How he helped BrainJuice go national via Whole Foods & promoting the "woo that works"? (08:21) Maximizing the use of Desires (11:40) Meaning & Distinction of "Always on call, but we're not always on duty" (18:57) The Path to Fulfillment (21:41) Sexual Abundance Back to Patriarchal Rules and Regulations(Why it didn't work for Louis?) (26:23 ) Aligning Mission and Purpose ( 27:55) What Is Co-empowered Alignment & Codependence? (34:11) A Way You Could Do to Move Towards Better Sex (41:02) Man & Woman: Whose Purpose Goes First? Links: Website: https://louisbrantmeyer.com/ LinkedIn: Louis Brantmeyer - CEO / Founder Facebook: Louis Brantmeyer Instagram: Louis Brantmeyer (@louisbrantmeyer) Youtube: Louis Brantmeyer - CEO / Founder - Things Mentioned:: (Audio Course) Your Wish Is Your Command Mark W. Willis Letting Go: The Pathway of Surrender A Course in Miracles: Combined Volume The 45 Days to Awakening Challenge The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures Sex on the Brain: 12 Lessons to Enhance Your Love Life Carl Jung

Today on The Better Sex Podcast, we're doing something a little different! I'm turning the tables (or mic) around and for the first time ever, I'll be the guest, and my dear friend, Missy Singer DuMars will interview ME! In this intimate conversation, nothing is off-limits! We'll talk about my early relationships, unique childhood experiences, and how my passion for this work began. Along the way, we'll chat about how to get your 'sexy' on, the basics of Tantra, Kink, Communication, and what I see as the Three Pillars to Better Sex all peppered with fun stories! Missy Singer DuMars, is a conscious businesswoman, a mindful farmer, a curious cook, a spiritual seeker, and the hostess of the Women in Food Podcast. Highlights: (02:30) How Deborah Entered the World Of Sex and Intimacy (09:11) The Different Possibilities of Relationship and Sex (15:39) Applying Sex and Intimacy from Personal Life to Professional Life (18:21) Where does sexual arousal start? (19:42) Ways to pleasure yourself (21:12) Ticks to make you sexy and feel sexy (21:42 ) Tantra and the Three Basic Broad Techniques (28:33) Unconscious Mistakes That Can Destroy Any Relationship (35:00) Better Sex for Couples (41:50) The Definition of Kink and The Umbrella of BDSM (48:04) Everything You Need to Know About Using Safewords (52:57) The Key Role of Communication in Relationship (01:05:48) Things Everyone Should Know About Relationships Links: https://bettersexforcouplessummit.com/ Website: https://www.womeninfood.net/ https://www.spiritbizpeople.com/ Https//crownhillfarm.com Instagram: @crownhillfarmny Facebook: Missy Singer DuMars LinkedIn: Missy Singer DuMars

Dating can be stressful and intimidating at times, but it is also an excellent opportunity to connect with others, especially when you've found a good match. Whether you're a beginner to dating or looking for a refresher course in overcoming your dating fears, this episode is for you! Today on The Better Sex Podcast, we have Matchmaker and Dating Coach Dan Silverman, who helps those singles prepare for fun dates by teaching them proven techniques for success. He offers immersive training to teach clients how to overcome dating fears and learned habits. Tune in now and Learn how to be comfortable in the dating world! Highlights: (01:35) How Dan became a Matchmaker and Dating Coach (05:12) Why Is Dating So Hard? (09:56) How to know if two people are a good match? (15:31) Why Women don't like to date 'Nice Guys'? (23:02) Dating and Consent (35:39) Dating Tips for Introverts (42:09) The Mastery Curve (47:21) What does vulnerability look like in dating? (50:330) How to deal with women's emotions? Links: Website: Dan Silverman Matchmaker Miami LinkedIn: Dan Silverman - Miami, Florida, United States Facebook: Dan Silverman - The Miami Matchmaker Instagram: Dan Silverman (@matchmakerdan) Twitter: Dan Silverman (@MatchmakerDan) Deborah's Links: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session Appointments 3 — Deborah Kat Coaching Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: Events Near Me | Facebook Twitter: Deborah Kat (@TantraKat) / Twitter

In today's episode of The Better Sex Podcast, we will be having conversations with Eirikah Delaunay, a writer, Witch, and sexual rebel who identifies as a white, polyamorous, bisexual, cisgender woman, Dominant-leaning Switch, and sadomasochist. She is also the mother of two amazing adult children, an executive-level academic professional, and previously a monogamous wife of 20 years. Both/and is her magic word. The founder of Desire Alchemy, she is a somatic sex+relationship coach and initiated priestess who helps people use embodiment, storytelling, and ritual to transform the energy of their own unique desire into fuel for lives of connection and passion. Her mission is to re-ignite and strengthen stale relationships (including the relationship with self) by cultivating true authenticity, practical skills, devotion, and delight. In her pursuit of deeper connection through language and embodiment, she earned an MFA in Creative Writing, and trained as a sex+relationship coach at the Somatica InstituteTM. She has had the joy of more than a decade of connection, education, and service in the Seattle sex-positive community, where she has served as a "Tasting Top" and guest educator and facilitator on topics ranging from hands-on skills, D/s dynamics, sacred sexuality, and strategies for maintaining intimacy and connection in long-distance relationships. She currently serves on the Board of the Center for Sex-Positive Culture in Seattle. Her erotic writing appeared in the Seattle Erotic Arts Festival Literary Anthology in 2018-2020 and 2022. Her chapter "Light Your Fire: Ecstatic Embodiment to Fuel Your Dreams" was featured in the Amazon #1 bestseller, Sacred Medicine: Mystical Practices for Ecstatic Living, and her chapter "Turn Yourself On: Embodiment Practices to Jump Start Your Day" was featured in the Amazon #1 bestseller, The Ultimate Guide to Self-Healing Volume 5. She provides individual, partnered, and group coaching for people curious and excited about using effective communication, magic, sexuality, kink, and/or power exchange relationships as vehicles for personal growth and bliss. Experience better sex and learn the importance of communicating your desires by tuning in to this episode! Highlights: (05:28) Erikah's Story (09:41) What does it mean to be polyamorous, bisexual, cisgender, and dominant leaning switch? (15:13) The Power of Asking Questions (18:52) The importance of putting into words what we really want (20:15) How did sex and spirit come together for Erika? (23:00) One of the most powerful ways to raise energy and fuel any intention (25:06) How do asking and desire come together? (30:58) How do we recover and be in the place of desire and connection? (32:24) The Power of NO in Expression and Reception (40:00) The importance of knowing what your partner wants Links: Website:desi(re al)chemy Instagram: Eirikah Delaunay (@eirikah) • Instagram photos and videos Linkedtree: https://linktr.ee/eirikah Facebook: Eirikah Delaunay | Facebook https://facebook.com/desire.alchemy ****Catch her at the Seattle Erotic Arts Festival this weekend**** Deborah's Links: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session Appointments 3 — Deborah Kat Coaching Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: Events Near Me | Facebook Twitter: Deborah Kat (@TantraKat) / Twitter

Are you having sex with your partner and not feeling like you have a clear understanding of their sexual needs? Are you unsure of how to ask questions, make requests, or navigate through conversations about sexuality? If so, it may be time to look toward honest and authentic sex. Today on The Better Sex Podcast, we have Shana James, who has coached more than a thousand men and women to have passionate connections and fulfilling relationships. Whether you're single and looking to date, want a long-term relationship, or your relationship isn't satisfying, Shana quickly pinpoints the cause in her new book: Honest Sex: A Passionate Path to Deepen Intimacy and Keep Your Relationship Alive She will talk about how she believes that it is important, to be honest with oneself and others in order to create closer connections, the importance of being able to have conversations about sex in a way that is comfortable for both parties, and shares her experience working with clients who want more foreplay or longer experiences. Tune in now and learn more about how to be honest with your partner during this vulnerable time and still remain in sync with your long-term goals! Highlights: (03:05 ) Being committed to authenticity (05:48) The Impact of Presence (07:02) Breaking Down the Meaning of Honest and Sex (16:38) What is Sex mean to Shana? (19:21) The Making of Honest Sex (24:31) How to Ask for What You Want Sexually (31:25) Steps Toward Being Honest and Open in Sexuality (34:12 ) The Importance of Self-Pleasure in a Relationship (37:11) How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex (41:48) Understanding the word 'Intimacy' (50:46) Things That Both Males & Females Should Be Aware of if They Are Interested in Relationships (54:31) Co-creating More of What You Want Links: Website: shanajamescoaching.com LinkedIn: Shana James Facebook: Shana James Book: Honest Sex: A Passionate Path to Deepen Connection and Keep Passionate Relationships Alive. Deborah's Links: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session Appointments 3 — Deborah Kat Coaching Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: Events Near Me | Facebook Twitter: Deborah Kat (@TantraKat) / Twitter

Today on The Better Sex Podcast, we have Zahava Griss, Founder of Embody More Love, a spiritual kinky dance community for personal and cultural liberation. For over 22 years, Z has been guiding dance, embodiment, and eros as the source of healing, creativity, building community, and shifting our culture. Z's love coaching focuses on secure attachment, kink, gender, expression, polyamory, and the erotic arts. In this episode, Z will unravel how they grew up with a lot of energy and was socialized as a white girl, which gave them the opportunity to understand how white supremacy culture is conditioned in the body. Z talks about how they recovered from ballet, "being a bun head." Z also highlights the importance of growing in relationships especially when an erotic charge is involved. Experience better sex by tuning in to this episode! Highlights: (03:27) What is the Grief Ritual Lineage? (04:10) Getting to know Z's story (11:46) What is the social locator in Z's leadership program? (12:35) Z's leadership program and how capacity is being incorporated into it (16:01) ​​What makes the difference between someone just surviving the trauma versus someone growing from that? (18:07) Understanding conscious breathing through yoga (25:54) What happens to your presence if you feel at capacity and where does it go? (33:00) What are some of the stories that interrupt our sex life? (41:35) The idea of growing in relation (45:25) The healing power of conscious kink (47:04) Dominance as a form of leadership Links: Book a schedule here: Embody More Love Deborah's Links: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session Appointments 3 — Deborah Kat Coaching Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: Events Near Me | Facebook Twitter: Deborah Kat (@TantraKat) / Twitter

In today's episode of The Better Sex Podcast, we are joined by Leah Piper. Leah Piper, Founder of More Love Works and Co-Founder of the Sex Reimagined Podcast. Leah is a Certified Tantra Master Coach & Educator with a background in Positive Psychology. For 20 years she has been the primary female facilitator at the Source School of Tantra with Charles Muir. By combining the ancient art of conscious loving with the modern science of well-being, her students have discovered that sex unlocks the keys to having a passionate, loving, and spiritually fulfilling life. ​Leah has facilitated thousands of couples and individuals worldwide to elevate sex to an art form through live seminars, online courses, private VIP retreats, certification courses, and mentoring professionals in the sacred sex & relationship for nearly 2 decades. Make your sex life better by tuning in to this episode! Highlights: (01:56) Getting to know Leah Piper (07:03) Understanding premature ejaculation + how you can harness your sexual energy (08:58) Can you really separate orgasm from ejaculation? (09:21) Ejaculatory Control: How to do it (12:20) How to deal with your partner's expectation (13:44) The importance of partnership to increase the sensations of desire (14:00) Erotic Blueprint Model (15:05) Why partnership really matters Links: Website: Leah Piper Twitter: Leah Alchin Piper (@leahalchinpiper) / Twitter Books mentioned: Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving by Charles Muir Deborah's Links: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session Appointments 3 — Deborah Kat Coaching Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: Events Near Me | Facebook Twitter: Deborah Kat (@TantraKat) / Twitter

We're glad you're here! Expectations about pleasure, and the messages you get about what it means to be a sexual being, are often deep. But I want you to know that it is possible to embrace pleasure —and that it is possible to find joy in your body and in the world around you. In today's episode of The Better Sex Podcast, we are joined by M'kali-Hashiki. M'Kali is a Somatic Sacred Storyteller & Erotic Ritualist. She holds certifications in Sexological Bodywork; Sound, Voice, & Music Healing; and Tantric Sacred Intimacy. As a Somatic Sacred Storyteller, she helps you uncover the stories your body is holding onto, jettisoning the ones poisoning you, and helping you to reframe & retell the ones left. As an Erotic Ritualist, she designs journeys for you to commune with The Divine using your physical pleasure as the conduit of communication. Her Divine Purpose is helping folx heal their erotic wounds so they can have the joyous & juicy life that is their Divine Birthright and move further along in their path to individual & collective liberation. In her nomadic travels across North & Central America, she teaches at colleges & universities, conferences, and the occasional adult toy store or educational center. She offers sexuality training & employee wellness/team-building skills to organizations & companies. She is also a skilled Sensitivity Reader hired to read manuscripts to make sure they avoid explicit & implicit systemic bias. Her lived experiences as a fat, black, queer, femme, and trauma survivor inform every aspect of her work. Highlights: (03:57) How did M'Kali get here? (12:52) How M'Kali discovered the Body Electric (17:59) Breathwork as a modality of healing (24:18) The Michigan Women's Festival (29:31) What needs to be in place to have a safe, consensual experience? (35:58) Erotic breathwork and breath play (40:53) How to use breath as a vehicle to connect with the spiritual and physical (46:00) What makes your breath work different? Links: Website: M'kali-Hashiki She/Her/Hers www.FiercePassions.com "Where Presence, Pleasure, & Prayer Meet" Twitter: M'kali-Hashiki (@MkHashiki) / Twitter Deborah's Links: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session Appointments 3 — Deborah Kat Coaching Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: Events Near Me | Facebook Twitter: Deborah Kat (@TantraKat) / Twitter