

A Gay and A NonGay
James Barr and Dan Hudson
In a time where we're all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power; A Gay And A NonGay challenges our differences. No matter who you are, or what you're into, gay's and nongay's can & should be friends.'Highly Recommended' Guardian'One of the most fundamentally kind and funny podcasts in Britain' RadioTimes'A hilarious take on love, friendship and sex' TimeOutAn independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@DanHudson). Find us on Insta, TikTok, Twitter and Facebook @gaynongayGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed
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May 9, 2024 • 18min
Is it toxic for gays to be anti-pride?
Why are so many gays anti-pride? Is it internalised homophobia? Plus - are bisexuals just greedy?Dan ran the London Marathon in 3h 27! You can help him help Marie Curie here.Get tickets to see James’ new show at www.jamesbarrcomedy.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 1, 2024 • 22min
Is monogamy a hoax?
James and Dan react to RuPaul saying that monogamy is a hoax. Is there such thing as monogamy with men, and is it a different script for gays and nongays? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 24, 2024 • 23min
Who Is Joel Creasey's Front Runner For Eurovision?
Ahead of Eurovision, and James co-hosting Denmark's official pre party Malmohagen, Australian comedian and actor Joel Creasey joins James and Dan on this week's episode.Who will Joel be flirting with back stage at Eurovision? What was it like opening for Joan Rivers? And which Minogue sister would be amazing as a UK or Australian Eurovision entry? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 17, 2024 • 21min
Richard Gadd on Baby Reindeer (2019 Re-Release)
Richard Gadd, creator of Netflix's 'Baby Reindeer', discusses themes of abuse, trauma, and self-value in his show. The LGBTQ themes and masculinity in 'Baby Reindeer' are explored, along with navigating turbulent paths of self-acceptance and trauma in one's 20s. Gadd's emotional journey from personal struggles to performance art on a treadmill is also highlighted.

Apr 10, 2024 • 19min
Are 'TradWives' Progressive Or A Step Backwards?
Have you seen the TradWives movement? What do you think?In this episode James and Dan explore whether coming out will always be 'a thing', the boom of the TradWives movement and answer your pressing life dilemmas. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 27, 2024 • 19min
Exploring Trans Love And Identity: 'Close To You' with Elliot Page & Dominic Savage
James and Dan share a deep conversation with Elliot Page and Dominic Savage, makers of the new film 'Close To You'.Sam (Elliot Page) has a chance encounter with an old friend (Hillary Baack) on his way home to a dreaded family reunion that forces him to confront long-buried feelings.They explore the creative process behind creating this film and the importance of trans masc representation in cinema.This interview was part of the BFI Flare: London LBTQIA+ Film Festival. You can find more info about the festival and other great art pieces via their website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 20, 2024 • 21min
I Had To Have Tea With His Mum On The First Date
What would you do if you had to have tea with someone's mum on the first date?James and Dan are back and in this episode they explore whether online LGBTQ+ inclusivity posts actually do more harm than good... as well as responding to more of your pressing dilemmas! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 13, 2024 • 19min
Barbie needed The Gays
Happy Ken Day! ... But where were the gays in Barbieland? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 6, 2024 • 20min
Crystal Hefner's Journey to Freedom: How to find strength after manipulation and control
Crystal Hefner sheds light on her time at the infamous Playboy Mansion, from the glamour of the mansion to the shadows of manipulation, abuse and control. James and Dan discuss Hugh Hefner's legacy and the dark underbelly of the Playboy empire. From the pressures of maintaining physical perfection to the emotional and financial exploitation.Crystal shares her conflicting feelings about her relationship with Hefner and her eventual realisation of the toxic dynamics at play. Crystal's journey highlights the importance of self-respect and empowerment in breaking free from abusive situations.Follow our instagram and TikTok to view this episode, search 'GayNonGay'.Grab a copy of Crystal Hefner's book Only Say Good Things here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 28, 2024 • 20min
Do All Men Reply Like That...?
Do you find yourself attractive? Would you put your honey where your mouth is and literally taste your own penis?James and Dan are back with a chat about self-image, arousal, and how to navigate intimacy in modern relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices


