

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Eric Zimmer
Build resilience. Cultivate self-compassion. Live with purpose. The One You Feed brings conversations with leading thinkers — James Clear, Susan Cain, Tara Brach, and more — to help you navigate life’s challenges and feed your good wolf. No perfection, just direction, insight, and the small, consistent actions that make a meaningful life.
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May 12, 2026 • 1h 7min
Emotional Strength Training 101: How to Process Trauma Without Getting Stuck in the Past with Nikki Eisenhauer
Nikki Eisenhauer, podcaster and coach specializing in emotional strength training and trauma processing, shares practical tools for nervous system regulation. She explores the two-wolves parable and choosing responses, contrasts constructive processing with rumination, and offers small daily practices to build presence, patience, and sustainable healing.

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May 8, 2026 • 1h 8min
Unlocking the Power of Reflection and Action in a Distracted World with James Beshara
James Beshara, philosopher and entrepreneur who blends Vedanta with modern life, shares how reflection can outmaneuver distraction. He lays out the body-mind-intellect framework and daily habits to strengthen wisdom. Expect practical rituals, the role of aligned action or svadharma, and why real spiritual work happens in the world, not in escape.

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May 5, 2026 • 1h 5min
Practical Techniques to Manage Anxiety, Improve Listening, and Speak Clearly When It Matters Most with Matt Abrahams
Matt Abrahams, Stanford communication teacher and author of Think Faster, Talk Smarter, offers practical tactics to handle anxiety and speak clearly under pressure. He outlines ABC tools for anxiety, simple response structures like What-So-Now, and ways to listen deeply. Short, actionable strategies for embracing imperfection, recovering from mistakes, and turning small talk into real connection.

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May 1, 2026 • 51min
How To Find Belonging When You Feel Like an Outsider with Vir Das
Vir Das, comedian, actor, and author of The Outsider, reflects on his multicultural upbringing across India, Nigeria, and the U.S. He talks about moving between cultural worlds, performing despite fear, and how exhaustion pushed him toward authenticity. He explores friendship rituals, the healing power of laughter, balancing ambition with gratitude, and navigating controversy while staying true to his voice.

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Apr 28, 2026 • 1h 1min
How To Build Mental Strength, Cope with Stress to Thrive Under Pressure with Amy Morin
Amy Morin, psychotherapist and bestselling author on mental strength, shares practical tools for resilience. She talks about personalized pep talks, ‘taking out the mental trash’ to ditch negative thoughts, dread diffusers and short-start rules to beat procrastination. She also covers reframing questions, motivational interviewing for better conversations, and choosing effective strategies when under pressure.

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Apr 24, 2026 • 1h 8min
The Greatest Lessons in Philosophy, Parenting, and Kindness with Scott Hershovitz
Scott Hershovitz, philosopher and author who explores philosophy with his kids, discusses parenting, moral responsibility, and public reasoning. He talks about children’s natural curiosity, personal identity puzzles like the Ship of Theseus, civil discourse versus relativism, and treating others as moral agents. Short, thought-provoking conversations connect philosophy to everyday choices and kindness.

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Apr 21, 2026 • 1h 10min
How Reparenting Your Inner Child Can Heal Old Wounds and Transform Your Life with Dr. Nicole LePera
Dr. Nicole LePera, a clinical psychologist known for holistic self-healing and reparenting work. She explains the inner child as bodily emotional memories and introduces her five-sphere Individual Development Model. Topics include why reparenting matters, how to start when memories are fuzzy, the biology of childhood adaptations, breaking shame cycles, and why small habits build lasting change.

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Apr 17, 2026 • 54min
The Most Effective Strategies to Overcome Anxiety and Build Positive Habits
Tommy Zora, a listener in recovery who faces low-level anxiety and habit follow-through, joins a live coaching session. He explores momentum from activity and social connection. They unpack the SPAR framework — specificity, prompts, alignment, resilience — and practice self-compassion to break avoidance and build small, concrete routines.

Apr 14, 2026 • 51min
How To Live with Uncertainty and Find Hope in the Midst of Chronic Illness with Marisa Renee Lee
Marisa Renee Lee, author and essayist who writes about grief and chronic illness, shares her journey through long Covid and loss. She talks about living with prolonged uncertainty, redefining hope as a practice, shifting identity toward enduring values, managing pain versus suffering, and the importance of community and asking for help.

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Apr 10, 2026 • 59min
How to Have Better Conversations: Learn to Argue Less and Listen More with Jefferson Fisher
Jefferson Fisher, an attorney, author, and communication coach who teaches practical conversation skills, shares how to argue less and listen more. He reframes arguments as knots to untangle. Short timing rules, emotional self-awareness, framing chats with clear topics and outcomes, and avoiding over-explaining are highlighted. Simple practices for pausing, acknowledging feelings, and traveling light in relationships are discussed.


