MGTOW Sandman Quotes

"Hi sandman. I'm a new avid watcher of your videos. I'm a younger subscriber in my early 20s and I wanted to make a video on the "friend zone." It seems like whenever the same topic shows up, its always focused on how the guy only wanted sex and the girl is portrayed as being an innocent victim. It seems like no one really wants to talk about how women can use a guy's feelings to manipulate him into doing what she wants. I've found myself in this situation a lot and I wonder why no one really wants to address this issue. They offer you friendship and then treat you like a tool or a means to an end. Is this thing common or its something i only went through? How do i avoid this kind of behavior in the future? Thanks a lot." Well, that's what Justin has to say. The topic of the friendzone has been covered extensively in the past. It's one of the reasons that many men go their own way, especially the ones that were not in long term relationships when they heard about MGTOW. I don't want to rehash the same issues we associate with the friendzone that I talked about in my video called "Male Harems." We all know how women try to get us into the friendzone and then try to use us to them favours and be their emotional tampons. But there are things that we can do with womenthat have friendzoned us. We can use them for things as well and I don't think that topic has been covered all that well. If you're a MGTOW that doesn't want a relationship but is looking for sex and the occasional date then being friendzoned might not be a bad idea. Being in her friendzone might expose you to a stable of other women that she has as friends. The only hard part is going to be to convince her to introduce you to her more attractive friends.If you can say one thing about women that put you in the friendzone they never seem to introduce you to better looking female friends because they don't want to lose their own personal chump, sorry I mean friend.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

"MGTOWs often bring up Japan because of the Herbivore Movement and the panic it's causing for Japanese economists. A great number of Herbivore Men indulge in dating sim games and hentai(or porn) in lieu of pursuing women for sexual gratification or even love. If they can afford it, men also go to hostess clubs, where men pay to have drinks and casual conversations with women, a sort of "rent a girlfriend" service. That's not to say that a growing number of Japanese women aren't partaking in such activities as well, as host clubs are frequented by single women as often if not more. In a way Japan is sort of a looking glass for the rest of the world in how MGTOW can effect society. I'm including a two links on the subject of love in Japan to help with your research, in case you haven't seen them already. Thanks Ichigo for your comments and bringing up this subject. I'm also including the two links in the description below so that everyone can watch them and get a little bit more background on where he's coming from. After watching these videos I began to make sense of what I have been seeing most of my life with regards to synthetic relationships. We have been having artificial relationships for a long time but they have been basic up until the 1990s and they were one way. When I was in high school I was in a very multi-cultural school and there were a lot of Japanese and Korean kids in my classrooms and they were obsessed with Tamagotchi. For those of you unfamiliar with Tamagotchi it's a handheld digital pet that was sold by Bandai in 1996. It came out just in time for my senior year in high school and people in my class were obsessed with it. They were constantly feeding their Tamagotchi and giving it attention. The Asian kids played with the virtual pet and many of the white girls had synthetic baby dolls they were given in their home economics classroom. The baby would measure how you took care of it through a bunch of sensors found inside. These were the first truely virtual types of relationships I saw in my life. And if Tamagotchi was so popular in Canadian classrooms I can only imagine how it must have influenced Japanese culture. A relationship with a virtual pet might have eventually lead some to see a virtual relationship with a girlfriend or a boyfriend. As additional research for this video I watched the Spike Jonze film HER, yesterday. It's about the Virtual or Synthetic relationship between the main character Theodore and Samantha his synthetic operating system. Spike Jonze wrote and directed this film and I think it's quite forward thinking.Game Exchange: Dating Sims and Synthetic Relationshipshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7PKwc...​Vice - The Japanese Love Industryhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qpZbu...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

"Hello SANDMAN, I enjoy your videos and would like for you to cover a topic. I'm naming it "the legacy of success." First a little bit about my background. I'm an electronics technician and work for a large company. I've been working there for several years and would say that 98% of the people that do my job are men. Of the 2% that are women they are mostly Asian females that have relatives who started work at the company before them. It is extremely rare to have females doing the type of work that I do. That is to say I think that they have the capability but not the interest. My entire time at the company I have seen about maybe four females that completely defeat certain stereotypes and demographics when it comes to what they do, and even then there are "special" things about them. a rare event occurred in the lab; a new worker arrived and SHE was a blond haired blue eyed large breasted female. although she was starting out as a tech she in fact had just graduated from school (after 5 years) as an engineer. It was like watching a unicorn run past me. In the months that i got to know her i found out that her dad was an engineer and that he primarily raised her. I honestly wanted to know what her life would have been like if she had been raised by a single mom in the U.S. would she still have chosen to become an engineer? One of our highly accomplished laser technicians is a black female and I would consider this to be extremely rare. But one of the reasons why she is different from the average female, especially black females is that she is actually African, not African-american. her mindset is quite different from black females in the united states. she is more geared towards success. She has also encouraged her three kids (by the same man that she divorced) to go to college and to seek higher education. In effect she created a legacy and I'm not talking about just having kids. SHE GUIDES HER KIDS TOWARDS A PRODUCTIVE FUTURE. about a month ago i read an internet story about this half Filipino girl that invented a flashlight that is powered by the heat of the human hand (via the use of something called a peltier junction). As a tech myself i knew exactly how the thing worked but i never would have came up with the idea. Sheer genius. if you look closer into her family you will see that her dad is an engineer. now where do you think these ideas came from? or at least the seed of curiosity with science? It seems that the average female does not guide or groom their children for success; this guidance and drive I think comes from a man usually. Men pass on their knowledge and skills to their sons, in the absence of a son it may be the daughter that receives this. There is no way for me to prove my theory but here it is...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

One of my friends is dating and he's been noticing something really unusual lately. He was in a long term relationship from the age of twenty six to thirty two and says that his ex was receptive to the love and affection that he gave her. After that relationship he took a break for six months and is now dating women in their mid to late twenties and it seems that many women are afraid of love. They are afraid of men hugging them and showing them affection. They somehow think that it's wrong for men to do that. When he embraces her she don't seem to know how to react to it. That makes her uncomfortable, but sex doesn't. He says that a girl he's seeing now has no problem having sex almost each and every single day but when it comes to him trying to show her affection she does everything she can to detach from him. And this is the third girl in the last year that's been like this. So I spoke to a few other guys and they are saying the same thing. They think it has something to do with the behavior of guys younger then us. Guys in their twenties. Apparently more guys are being direct about what they want. They are approaching ten or twenty girls and telling them they want no strings attached sex and even if they get one or two out of the twenty saying yes then they win. They get to have sex and the girl gets male attention. But if a woman does it enough times then she associates male attention with sex and nothing else. So when she meets a guy that is both sexual and emotional it makes her uncomfortable because she has been conditioned to see men as sexual creatures and not emotional creatures. I spoke about the fact that women don't love men the same way that men love women in my second video on this channel. And apparently loving a woman doesn't matter anymore. Even if a man loves women these days are increasingly unable to recognize loving behaviors or those types of behaviors are making some women increasingly uncomfortable around men. So if you're a man without love in his heart women find you more attractive.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Ever since last fall when I firmly became a mgtow I don't feel love anymore towards women in a romantic sense. I don't lose my cool and become irrational and flood my body with love hormones. I understand that it's my mind that produces those chemicals and my conscious mind is not allowing me to get close to any woman because the danger Will Robinson alarm is going off in my head every time I speak to a woman. I feel like I'm wrangling a bear or a puma rather instead of speaking to a woman. I look into many women's eyes and I can almost see her mind trying to work the angles and trying to read the signals I'm sending out. What I'm trying to say is that I can't fall into romantic love anymore and I have zero desire to do so and I never thought this would happen. I wouldn't have a problem having sex without love now and I'm perfectly fine with that. It's the good women or the mythical NAWALTS that are the worst thing for men because they are the ones that oppress men the most. It's like the good slave owners in the south. They made it tolerable for black people to be slaves and in doing so they prolonged the period of slavery in America. If all slave owners were mean to slaves then I believe the emancipation of slaves would have happened much sooner because there would have been a larger outcry from both whites and blacks in society. My point is that when we acknowledge that the NAWALT exists we are saying that not all women are cruel to men. Am I going too far and saying that not all slave driving women are bad towards men? And I think the influx of women into the MGTOW and men's rights movement is having the effect of keeping the rigged game going a little bit longer. MGTOW will win but every time a woman posts a video saying that she's different it slows down our movement because it gives guys out there that little bit of hope that women are different. I firmly believe that we need to discount what these new MGTOW groupies have to say. It's like they are harpies here to distract us from our goal of going our own way. They flash their tails and men go nuts and men that are in the early stages of digesting the red pill are vulnerable to such behavior.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

"Dear Sandman, I'm hooked on your daily dose of red pills. Keep 'em coming and I think you are a wonderful complement to the first generation of MGTOWs, despite what anyone says. I was wondering if you would do a video on women and their dismissal and/or general treatment of short guys...or more specifically guys who are not tall. I suppose this is a special case of hypergamy, but I find it really strange how important bone length is to so many women. I can't tell you how many dating profiles I've seen where women request that potential suitors be tall, even before other requested attributes like "kind", "motivated", "confident", or "passionate". I've even seen a 5'9" women say she only dates guys who are 6' or taller and went on to say "Sorry shorties!". And in another profile, I saw a 5'2" women say, "It doesn't hurt if you are at least a foot taller than I am." And no, neither of these women were exactly model-esque, shall we say. What's up with this strange obsession, and why is it not spoken of much in the mainstream media? All the best, Vishal. Well Vishal I've got to hand it to you, I've never really thought about this one but I do believe I have an answer for you. I found an online comment at the bottom of an article called "Women's Ugly Truth About Men: There's NO TIME for Short Dudes." One of the women leaving a comment had this to say: "I don't have a problem with short men except for the fact I would die if my son was a short man! For some reason I just expect my son to be a grown man much bigger than his mom (and I'm 5'4-ish.) So think about this Vishal, if a woman marries a short guy and has kids with him and she has a son that's shorter then her, how is that son supposed to take care of his mother when she gets old and frail. Mothers often times treat their sons well when they are younger because they expect that behavior to be there as a form of insurance policy. So essentially a short husband means a short son which means a harder time for a woman in old age. Especially if they want a son to take care of them after their husband dies. That's one way of seeing it anyways. Women's Ugly Truth About Men: There's NO TIME for Short Dudes.http://www.thisisyourconscience.com/2...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This video is made possible by a donation for Eti. This is your third donation thus far so thank you very much for your help supporting my youtube channel. Eti and I finally agreed that I should cover the topic of herding mentality in women. And Eti wanted me to cover why women get tattoos and do other things in a herd mentality. And I thought I'd take this chance to show some pictures of some the hipster girls in Toronto so everyone can see the quality of the females in some of Toronto's hipster neighborhoods. After seeing these pictures you can probably see why Toronto is considered by some to have the largest number of MGTOWs per capita in the world. The photos in this video are of women in the Kensington Market part of Toronto which by many is considered hipster central in this city. Today it's trendy to be considered a hipster in this city and many women are choosing to fall into the trappings of hipster life. So what does that mean? Well for one it's all about second hand or one of kind clothing, skinny jeans and funky sunglasses. Many hipsters also work hard at looking unkept and the it's almost like some of them try really hard to look like they don't bathe or take care of themselves. Seeing the hipsters kind of reminds of the grunge movement in the early nineteen nineties. When I was in high school in the mid nineteen nineties many of the women in my school were all into Alanis Morisette and Nirvana and they all dressed the same way for the most part. Everyone back then seemed to wear jeans, flanel, tie dye shirts, sandals with socks and play hacky sack. And the men that could grow them had beards. I didn't think to much of it but then when I as in the tenth grade I started noticing that women were starting to get piercings in unusual places. Tongue piercings seemed to be more and more popular and girl after girl started showing up to class barely able to speak after they had their tongues pierced. They all wanted to have tongue piercings and some of their tongues started getting infected and just over half the girls had their piercings removed. But the tattoo culture hadn't exploded like it has today. Back then women would get a tramp stamp above their ass but they didn't get full arm sleeves or cover their entire bodies with tattoos from head to toe like some do today. Women in both movements, the grunge and the hipster movements were also girls from backgrounds that often times had money. There's even the joke going around that many of the hipster guys have large trust funds and they are just playing poor until they grow up and take on real responsibilities.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today's video is brought to you by a donation from E-Chee-Go! And this is what he has to say: "Hi Sandman I discovered MGTOW by stumbling across A Voice For Men, and by chance I found one of your videos and I've taken MGTOW to heart. It's essentially a formal declaration of a man's independence from women and societal norms. As I've said through my rantings in the comments, I've always been single and have never really been involved with women. What used to be a source of shame, I now take it as a badge of pride, as I've never had to deal with the bullshit of dating and women at large. So thanks for offering me red pills. I would like you to cover the idea of women in combat. While most cultures have ultimately decided that women have no place in the brutality of war as combatants, as that has always been the job of the brave or disposable male. Yet women have made their way into war in the past, such as Boudicca, Joan of Arc, as well as the resistance fighters of WW2 in France and Poland, as well as the female Partisans and snipers of the Soviet Union. While the idea of women in combat is hard for the Western world to stomach, Kurdish women are fighting alongside men in Syria. There are a lot of factors that make women in combat controversial, such as them meeting the same standards as men, how they'll interact with each other on the battlefield, as well as the ever present issue of sexual assault and pregnancy? What do you think? Is the world ready to see women butchered the same as men are? And what does this mean for men? Could this be another form of women invading male spaces? Well E-Chee-Go you bring up some very interesting points. I'm going to try and cover some of your points but I think that the wars of the 21st century are going to involve a lot of women fighting in them. The United Statesis pushing to build an unmanned army at this time. We are seeing more unpiloted drones and ground vehicles. Don't believe me then take a look at the article I'm adding in the description below. The article is called "Army prepares to replace thousands of troops with military robots. Government soldiers and private contractor soldiers are about to start losing their jobs in droves.Army prepares to replace thousands of troops with military robotshttp://rt.com/usa/gen-cone-drone-army...​The Private War of Women Soldiershttp://www.salon.com/2007/03/07/women...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Someone once said that when all paths are closed to you the first one that opens up is the one you're supposed to take. That's kind of how I've felt running my own businesses my entire life. Starting your own business from scratch in most cases does not lend itself well to running a family and keeping a woman in your life. Unless of course your partner is also an entrepreneur. But then money can be even more tight if you don't know how to manage it. That's the thing about working for yourself, each and every month you're going to make a different sum of money. There is no steady paycheck, no security and the pace of change is something very hard to keep up with. So unless you want to get into debt really fast you need to watch your money like a hawk and live well below your means. If you don't do that you will find yourself in debt quite quickly. And you need to always keep more money around then you think you'll need. Before the days of corporations most people were crafts people, farmers and artisans. Essentially the economy for the most part was built by entrepreneurs. The only group back then not producing their own goods and wealth were the aristocracy and they would tax everyone and love off the productivity of others. Today companies have found ways to extract peoples productivity for a steady paycheck. You are selling your labor for relative stability. You know how much you will be paid every two weeks so it's easy to get a mortgage, finance a car and get married. A woman can assess how much you make and she can quite often allocate where a good portion of your earned income is going to go, especially if you have a family and she's a bit bossy. But without a steady paycheck relationships with a wife and children become strained and often fail because you're not a steady provider. Another problem with being an entrepreneur these days is that with the internet people in third world countries can sell goods and services into Western economies and you can't compete with them.Live Free Live Rich:https://www.youtube.com/user/LiveFree...​Live Free Live Rich Website:www.LiveFreeLiveRich.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We can also look at women as used car salesmen. But instead of selling used cars they are selling their bodies. More women are having promiscuous sex, riding the cock carousel, getting abortions and sexually transmitted diseases. Not to mention that the more relationships they get into the more emotional baggage they carry with them. So they increasingly have to become better sales people. They have to convince men that they are a good buy and that they are reliable like a good used car. A man going his own way will understand emotional baggage, the cock carousel and will not fall for the same tricks that most mangina blue pill men will fall for. Women are masters at putting up a facade. Women remind me of the fake facades at places like Disney World or Universal Studios or Las Vegas. You walk down a street that's supposed to be a recreation of an actual place but it's a cheap knock off. Many women present themselves as authentic and sincere but they are just like cheap knock off watches or purses being sold on the street corner. If you look past the brand name you'll start to see the cheap stitching and material these defectivegoods are made from and you'll want to go out and find the real thing. The irony is that for MGTOW there are no real woman on the market. They are all seemingly knock off brands. The nawalt is like the priceless Faberge Egg. The odds of getting one into your possession are incredibly rare. You'd have better luck finding one at a garage sale then in an antique shop. And if there are Nawalts out there they were probably taken off the market in their lateteens and early twenties and the odds of them coming to the market again are slim because the bad women drive the good women out of the market. The idea of bad women driving the good out has to do with a reference to the analogy of Gresham s law. The best example of Gresham s law today can be seen in pre 1981 pennies. Pennies before that date were made of copper and those made after are steel plated copper. The copper pennies are worth over two cents if you factor in the copper price, while the steel plated ones are only worth a single cent. So people hoard the copper ones and put the steel ones into circulation. The Romans did the same when they debased their currency. The older denarius coins had actual silver in them while the newer ones were cut with more copper and other metals. So people kept the old and only put the newer money into circulation. This could explain why the same women keep circulating on the dating sites because they have no value. If they did they would have married and found a man a long time ago. So we could say that the less value a woman has in our society the more she gets passed around andcirculated through it. It's a self perpetuating cycle, the more they get passed around the cock carousel the lower their value and the lower their value the more they continue to get put back into circulation. It's basically a self fulfilling prophecy.The Market for "Lemons" : Quality Uncertainty and the Market Mechanismhttp://www.sfu.ca/~wainwrig/Econ400/a...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy