Kingdom Sexuality

What if your sexuality was meant to be approached with awe instead of fear? In this episode, Kyle and Tiera chat with Sam Jolman about shame, the difference between arousal and desire, and how reclaiming sensuality as sacred can lead to healing, and freedom! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Resources: The Sex Talk You Never Got   Better Sex Through Mindfulness Sam Jolman’s Substack  ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Timestamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Discussion on Sexuality and Faith - 1:20 Sam's Personal Journey - 3:08 Exploring Masculine Sexuality - 6:24 Arousal and Desire - 13:41 Sensuality and Spirituality - 15:52 Shame and Evil - 33:49 Conclusion and Prayer - 44:25 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A candid conversation about how motherhood can swallow identity and reshape marriage. They unpack the mental load, postpartum hormonal shifts, and how parenting turns partners into co-managers. Practical ideas surface for small rituals, husband-led support, and reclaiming intimacy. The talk closes with faith, humility, and steps to rediscover self and connection.

They unpack why sexual dreams happen and why they do not necessarily reflect real-life attraction. The conversation explains REM sleep, emotional processing, and how memories create dream 'movies.' They describe why past partners surface in dreams and how common nocturnal emissions are across ages. Practical guidance is offered on whether to share these dreams with your spouse.

A candid conversation about differing sex drives in long-term relationships. They explain responsive versus spontaneous desire and how seasons of life shift libido. Practical tips on language to start intimate conversations and ways to map turn-ons and turn-offs. Guidance on setting expectations, negotiating frequency, and building nonsexual reassurance.

Candid Q&A covering mismatched libidos, navigating dry seasons, and managing screen-obsessed partners. Practical talk about sex during menstruation, position tweaks like making cowgirl comfortable, and tension during orgasm. Straightforward discussion on oral pleasure, how to bring up sex in faith communities, and avoiding idealizing future partners.

Tune in as Greta and Aaron Eskridge share their journey from pain and betrayal to renewal and hope!! Their story emphasizes the importance of honesty and community in overcoming difficult seasons, especially around topics like pornography and marriage. Don't miss it! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Resources: GretaEskridge.com @greta.eskridge It's Time To Talk To Your Kids About Porn book ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: Introduction and Verse Reading - 0:00 Guest Introduction - 0:31 Discussion on Isaiah 43:19 - 1:08 Greta's Background and Passion - 2:44 Aaron's Background and Ministry - 3:55 Their Story: Meeting and Early Life - 4:42 Challenges in Marriage - 10:35 The Bombshell: Confession and Aftermath - 14:11 Support and Healing - 16:49 Journey to Recovery - 20:02 The Turning Point - 25:19 Writing the Book - 36:01 Importance of Parental Involvement - 44:30 Creating a Porn Plan for Kids - 46:45 Closing and Prayer - 51:19 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A candid conversation about finishing too quickly and how to approach it without shame. Practical techniques like start-stop, squeeze, pelvic floor work, and breathing are explored. They discuss relational rhythms, foreplay, mental strategies, and available devices. Guidance on when to seek medical or professional support is offered.

Let’s talk menopause and perimenopause- and the things no one warned us about. Tiera does a beautiful job of unpacking the physical and emotional shifts women experience, how it can impact sex, and what’s actually helpful in this season. We want to help you feel equipped and encouraged as you enter this time of life! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Mindfulness with Dr. Lori Brotto Resources: Evree Lube: Use the code KINGDOM for 10% off! Coconu Lube: Use the code KINGDOM for 15% off Yes! Vaginal Moisturizer : Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off Better Sex Through Mindfulness book Sex Toys: Married Dance: Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off Tiera’s Fertility/Menopause Doula Info: Use discount code: KSFOLLOWER for $50 off any package ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: Introduction and Overview - 0:00 Discussing Menopause - 0:30 Understanding Menopause Terms - 2:06 Perimenopause Symptoms - 4:19 Hormonal Changes and Effects - 6:13 Blood Work and Diagnosis - 11:00 Common Symptoms and Treatments - 14:20 Vaginal Changes and GSM - 17:09 Libido and Hormone Therapy - 23:15 Testosterone Therapy Discussion - 27:34 Positive Outlook on Perimenopause - 35:04 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tune in as the KS team tackle real questions straight from IG followers- everything from body hair preferences and pursuing your spouse, to what’s actually going on with things like morning erections. Don't miss it! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Level Up Your Sex Life Add A Little Bit Of Spice episode Setting Up Your Future Marriage For Success Dispelling Wedding Night Fears Breaking Down Newlywed Barriers Birth Control episode Foreplay episode Lindsey Maestas episode Our Products: Unite & Ignite 5 Ways To Spice Up Your Sex Life Freebie It’s Getting Hot In Here Sex Challenge His Pleasure Sex Challenge Starting Life Together Bundle Engagement Guide Resources: Flirtation Experiment book Passionista book Intimately Us app: If you want the Just Between Us , the couples messaging app, open Intimately Us and tap ‘Chat’ in the bottom right. Married Dance: Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off Christian Friendly Sex Positions My Counselor Online Better Help Counseling The Penis Book ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Episode Overview - 0:12 First Question: Body Hair Discussion - 1:31 Spicing Up Marriage - 10:19 Lift Pillows and Positions - 15:16 Helping Newlyweds Feel Comfortable - 16:59 Family Planning During Engagement - 19:18 Foreplay in Long-term Marriages - 21:41 Edging Explained - 24:03 Divorce Trends Discussion - 26:13 Morning Erections Explained - 32:50 Closing Prayer - 35:24 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Morgan Cutlip, clinical psychologist and author focused on relationships and the mental load, joins to unpack invisible household work. She explains the three domains of mental labor and how it drains desire. Short, practical strategies are shared for renegotiation, narration experiments, appreciation practices, and ADHD-friendly structures to restore closeness.