

Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing! Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself. Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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May 6, 2022 • 4min
Say This to Him Then Watch Him Melt | Rewind
Has this ever happened to you?You’re on a first date . . . and . . .He’s charming, handsome, and you feel like you have chemistry . . .But at the end of the night . . . he doesn’t ask for a second date (nevermind a third or fourth).If this has happened to you (or keeps happening), you’re likely missing one of the two essential things that make him reach across the table and say:“I’d really like to see you again.”In this clip, I tell you EXACTLY what to say so that he’ll ask you out again (and again, and again) . . . (You might be surprised at how simple this is AND how often you’re skipping this step when you’re interacting with a guy you like, especially in the early stages of dating . . .)It’s genuinely crazy to me how obvious the phrase in this video is, how simple it would be for people to say, how many more second dates it would get them . . . and yet, they still aren’t doing it. I’m excited to read your thoughts in the comments.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: podcast@matthewhussey.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 4, 2022 • 32min
"He STILL Won't Commit to Me! Should I Cut Him Off?!"
What do you do if you feel a special connection, but he keeps you waiting on the big question of commitment?In a spontaneous Instagram live, Matt recently coached a follower who was struggling with this exact dilemma.If you’re sick of sitting in the “waiting room” and hoping for something to change, make sure you listen to this message.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: podcast@matthewhussey.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 2, 2022 • 15min
“Bad Texter” or Just Not That Into You? | Matt Monday
Few things can match the heady exhilaration of dating someone and building momentum through regular texting and a sense of closeness.But what about when the texting on their end is . . . kind of slow and intermittent . . . where there are big gaps in your text exchanges that leave you feeling unsure as to where, exactly, you stand with that person?Feeling this way might even lead you to start analyzing their relationship with their phone the next time you’re with them, looking for clues as to whether their sporadic phone usage is consistent in their life or reserved just for you.At some point, they might’ve even shared a generic line with you like, “I’m so rubbish with my phone,” or “I’m really bad at replying to people!” But is this really true?In this week’s video, I not only answer these questions, but I dig into a really common mistake people make in this area.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: podcast@matthewhussey.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 29, 2022 • 12min
Toxic Codependency or Healthy Closeness? How to Tell the Difference | Rewind
What should you look for BEFORE you even enter into a new relationship, to figure out if your attachment styles are compatible?Having a reliable and steady partner may not get as much attention as other “sexier” attributes, but it really is a beautiful thing.Knowing you can depend on someone romantically, physically, and emotionally can draw you even closer together—strengthening your growing bond.In this episode, Matt explains what it takes to avoid codependency and have the kind of healthy partnership that means you both flourish, instead of creating a scenario where you are excusing toxic behaviour.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: podcast@matthewhussey.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 27, 2022 • 57min
"I'm Always Attracted to the WRONG People!"
How do we find the right person if we're always falling for the wrong one? It's a common problem, one that can make you feel doomed to always be in unsatisfying relationship cycles over and over again.In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Jameson talk about why we feel this way towards certain people with negative traits and how we can heal so we align with the right kind of partner for us.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: podcast@matthewhussey.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 25, 2022 • 10min
"He Ghosted Me But Still Watches My Social Media... WTF?" | Matt Monday
What does it mean when someone you dated—a guy you still like even though things fizzled out—is still engaging with your social media.Maybe you went on a few dates, had a connection, and even got physical, but it didn’t quite go anywhere.Yet, strangely, he still seems to be keeping a watchful eye on what you get up to on social media.Immediately, the gears of your mind start turning as you analyze the timing and the meaning of each emoji he sends in response to the photo of your night out with your friends.In this week’s brand-new episode, Matt dives into the psychology behind his actions to reveal exactly what it means when someone likes your social posts (but doesn’t reach out in any other way) . . .. . . and most importantly, what you should do about it.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: podcast@matthewhussey.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 22, 2022 • 9min
Don't Get Into A Relationship With Someone Who Has This Trait | Rewind
It doesn't matter how many great qualities they have if they have one or more lethal negative traits that make it impossible to get your needs met. In this episode, Matt talks about toxic relationship behaviours to watch out for in every stage of dating.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts: podcast@matthewhussey.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 20, 2022 • 58min
Why "Single-Shaming" Is Dumb (And How To Resist It)
No matter how far we’ve come, there is still a stigma in society for people who choose to remain single for longer than the average person. And this leads to all kinds of judgment: you must be sad, you must want a partner, you must have a problem . . . Matt, Stephen, and Audrey discuss why “single-shaming” persists and how to avoid feeling the pressure from society in influencing your decisions about your romantic life.--- ►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: podcast@matthewhussey.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 18, 2022 • 14min
Why Did He Stop Chasing You? | Matt Monday
In this episode, I share with you 3 mistakes we can fall into that have the potential to hurt desire.These 3 insights could mean the difference between piquing someone’s interest and a situation just fizzling out.Once you’re aware of them, they’re extremely easy to spot . . . so you won’t inadvertently end up “8-Miling” yourself. (Trust me, it’ll make sense when you hear the episode.)---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 15, 2022 • 6min
Unsure If The Person You're Dating Is Right For You? Listen To THIS | Rewind
If you find you fall in love too quickly or feel you NEVER fall in love, this clip explains why either extreme might be preventing you from finding a relationship.Whether you want to stop chasing perfection or need to slow down and enjoy gradually getting to know someone new, it is possible to get out of your usual pattern (and enjoy the process!)---►► Protect your time, energy & your heart . . . Reserve Your Space for FREE for My Live "Dating With Results" virtual event on April 19th here: DatingWithResults.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: podcast@matthewhussey.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.


