Love Life With Matthew Hussey

Want to know what he's really thinking on a first date? What do men worry about when looking for love? Matt and Stephen asked thousands of men in our audience about their BIGGEST insecurities and the answers were pretty amazing. If you want a real eye-opening window into male fears and his psychology in dating, you're going to love this. --- ►► Join our Love Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today.  ►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey ►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey ►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: podcast@matthewhussey.com  ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So, this wasn't the episode we planned to release this week. But an online conversation turned into something so unexpected that we scrapped the original plan and recorded something new, because I couldn't wait to talk about it. I asked men about their specific insecurities when it comes to early dating. And what we got back was more vulnerable and real than anyone expected. Not only that, but the women's responses to the men's candid comments were beautiful.The incredible responses also brought up some themes, which I decided to take closer look at in this episode. These include:Men's top insecurities, including how they feel insecure about being insecure.Helpful ways to validate our partner if they feel insecure.How to manage our feelings when the insecurity we see in someone else reminds us of our own insecurities.This episode is all about bravery and kindness, and my goal is that by the end of it, you will understand and be able to relate to men a little better.Your coach,Matt---►► Join our Love Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today.►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey ►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever felt let down from someone who promised to call but never did? Listen to this clip of Matt live coaching on how to move on when you feel disappointed from ghosting and build your confidence back today.---►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback at podcast@matthewhussey.com►► Join our Love Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today.►► Follow Matt on Instagram: @thematthewhussey►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Is it too picky to want to date who shares similar qualities to you? And when should you be more open-minded about who you choose a relationship with?Join Matt and Stephen to talk about pickiness, standards, and mindsets that can make finding love harder.---►► Download your FREE guide: 9Texts.com ►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey ►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: podcast@matthewhussey.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you’re dating in 2022, you can almost be sure that the person in front of you on that first date is dating multiple people at the same time. This omnipresent truth can make you nervous as you so desperately want to stand out from the crowd.The truth is, we all want so badly to be unforgettable on a date . . . but actually making that happen can feel tricky.In the pursuit of “making someone like us,” we may give in to the knee-jerk reaction of trying to impress them, or worse . . . people please.Even though we told ourselves we’d be chill and genuine, we suddenly find ourselves working our most spectacular moments into conversation, hoping they’ll see us for the treasure we are.Or we get so nervous that our walls go up and we lose all warmth and become sarcastic and cutting instead.These performances will often have us showcasing the more insecure sides of ourselves, taking the focus away from the purpose of being on that date in the first place: connection.But luckily, truly connecting—and making yourself memorable—is much simpler than that.---►► Get My Secrets to Mastering the First 5 Minutes of Any Situation. Download Your FREE Guide Now: First5Guide.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)?Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested in you? Why does this happen? Why do we conveniently keep getting attracted to the least convenient people?It can be deeply frustrating, especially when there might be someone who does like us but who we just don’t want.In this video, I explain two fundamental reasons why this keeps happening.At the end of this video, I give you a practical “mind trick” you can do on yourself to change this...Learn the 2 mistakes that keep you from meeting the right person...---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: podcast@matthewhussey.com►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s very common that we hear from women who say “men are intimidated by me!”But what causes this? Is it male insecurity? Do men instinctively get turned off by a woman’s success, income, or assertiveness?In this episode, Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about how this happens, what it means for our dating lives, and the dating dynamics between men and women.---►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: podcast@matthewhussey.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you get nervous that you’re not good enough? Feel a deep inner worry that you’re a “fraud” waiting to get found out?This is called “Imposter Syndrome”, and it’s a common trap that can make us live with SO much unnecessary anxiety and it holds us back from opportunities.In this clip, Matt explains how to defeat imposter syndrome with a simple mindset reframe.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When it comes to sex, some of us have very specific ideas about what it should be like in a relationship.There’s the “sexual destiny” mindset, which says that sex should be amazing from the start and is entirely about natural chemistry.Then there’s the “sexual growth” mindset, which says that sex can improve over time and couples can work out sexual differences.In this episode, Matt and Stephen discuss the difference between these mindsets and what they mean for a potential relationship.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback and thoughts: podcast@matthewhussey.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When a relationship with someone we had strong feelings for (or even loved) ends, we tend to get overwhelmed with emotions.Whether we were with them for a short period of time or in a long, committed relationship, these feelings are universal.They can come in the form of raw heartbreak, the feeling that we’ve lost control over our happiness, a paralyzing fear that they might move on, an overwhelming desperation to get them back, or simply the pain of missing someone who used to be a constant in our life.The trouble is, when heartbreak, control, fear, desperation, or pain are at the wheel, the desire to make ourselves feel better becomes insatiable and this will in turn start to dictate how we conduct ourselves. The solution? Setting yourself a goal.Perhaps you’ve heard of the “No Contact Rule” but don’t know exactly what it entails, or maybe it sounds a little too counterintuitive for how you feel right now, especially if you’re holding out hope that you could still get back together . . .Well, I’m here to tell you that’s not the case, and in this episode, I distill the best I’ve learned about breakups and the "No Contact Rule" into everything you need to know on the topic, including what you can say at different stages.---►► Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th): MHRetreat.com►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You”: SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.