Sex and Psychology Podcast

The complexities of managing finances in romantic relationships are tackled head-on. Discover why many couples are opting for separate finances, even in monogamous unions. Learn about the various financial arrangements that polyamorous individuals adopt. The conversation dives deep into how partners handle discrepancies in income and debt. Plus, uncover the surprising financial perks of having multiple partners. It's an enlightening exploration of love and money that challenges traditional approaches!

Laura Boyle, author known for her book on polyamory, shares insightful tips for living harmoniously with multiple partners. They discuss common living arrangements and how to address challenges like scheduling conflicts and personal space. Laura emphasizes the impacts of 'new relationship energy' on dynamics when a new partner moves in. She also tackles practical issues such as navigating leases and societal biases faced by polyamorous households. Listeners gain valuable advice on fostering communication and adaptability in their relationships.

Dr. Rena Malik, a board-certified urologist and sexuality educator with a massive online following, shares valuable insights for men seeking to enhance their sexual health. She tackles the common challenge of delayed orgasm and offers tips to boost pleasure, including the use of sex toys and improving communication. Listeners learn about the natural variability of erections, hydration's role in performance, and the myths surrounding penis size enhancement. Malik encourages realistic expectations and promotes safer alternatives for those concerned about size.

Female sexual pleasure is a topic that is not often covered in traditional sex education. In fact, it’s extraordinarily rare for the word “clitoris” to even be mentioned in sex ed! The unfortunate result is that many women (and their partners) never learn the information they really need to know. In today’s show, we’re diving into the sex ed you never got in school and discussing key facts about women’s sexual health and pleasure. My guest is Dr. Rena Malik, a board-certified urologist and sexuality educator. With over 300 million views and 2 million subscribers, her YouTube channel @RenaMalikMD has become a go-to destination for frank, evidence-based discussions of taboo topics. With a prolific portfolio boasting over 80 peer-reviewed publications, she has contributed to advancement and innovation in the field of urology. Some of the specific questions we answer in this episode include: What are some ways of making intercourse more pleasurable for women? How do you deal with a problem like sexual pain, and what are some common solutions for it? What can women do if they’re having trouble orgasming? What should women who are concerned with vaginal taste and smell know? What can you do to prevent vaginal infections? You can check out Rena’s website to learn more about her work. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors!  Are you looking for a space that celebrates diverse perspectives, explores new frontiers and brings all of your favorite people together?  The Annual Sexological Conference hosted by Sexual Health Alliance is where sexuality leaders gather. Get your ticket to be inspired, educated, and empowered. Head over to SexualHealthAlliance.com, select the Annual Sexological Conference page and save your spot today! Whether you’re just a few dates in or have been together a long time, it’s time to lighten the mood and have fun with your partner by using Paired. Head over to paired.com/justin to get a 7-day free trial and 25% off if you sign up for a subscription. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

Sex educators and researchers are often called upon to serve as expert witnesses in legal proceedings. This is particularly true in cases that center around kink or BDSM, consensual non-monogamy, and sexual or gender minorities. The job of the experts is to help judges and juries better understand the sexual issues at hand. In today’s show, I’m going to interview a colleague who has extensive experience serving as an expert witness. We’re going to talk about the some of the cases she’s been a part of, what the experience is like, and more. My guest is Dr. Elisabeth Sheff, a researcher, expert witness, coach, speaker, and educational consultant. Dr. Eli holds a PhD in Sociology and certification as a Sexuality Educator from AASECT. She has published four books, over 30 peer-reviewed journal articles and chapters, and is currently editing a series of books on relationship and sexual diversity. Some of the specific questions we answer in this episode include: How do you decide which legal cases to get involved in? What are some reasons why you might not take a particular case? What kinds of legal issues come up for non-monogamous individuals that would require an expert witness? What are some of the legal issues that come up in the context of kink and BDSM? Given that consent is not a valid legal defense for injuries that arise during sex, what do kinky folks need to know with respect to avoiding potential legal peril? You can visit Dr. Eli’s website to learn more about her work. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors!  The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University has been a trusted source for scientific knowledge and research on critical issues in sexuality, gender, and reproduction for over 75 years. Learn about more research and upcoming events at kinseyinstitute.org or look for them on social media @kinseyinstitute. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

Learn how to get what you truly want in bed with practical tips on communicating sexual desires. Discover ways to introduce kinks or fetishes into your relationship and navigate conversations around differing fantasies. Explore the journey of understanding your own sexual preferences and the importance of ongoing dialogues with your partner. By fostering curiosity and vulnerability, you can create a more intimate connection and encourage openness in your sexual relationship.

Dr. Elisabeth Gordon, a board-certified psychiatrist specializing in sexual health, dives into the tricky terrain of sexual conflicts in long-term relationships. She breaks down the most common fights couples have about sex, from mismatched desires to communication hurdles. What do you do when one partner craves more intimacy? How can you express unmet needs without sparking a fight? Elisabeth offers practical solutions, encouraging open dialogue about solo sexual habits like masturbation and porn use to foster healthier connections.

Join Martin Monto, a Professor of Sociology at the University of Portland, as he explores the rising tide of bisexuality in today’s society. Monto discusses how definitions of bisexuality vary and the impact of gender differences, especially why more women than men identify as bisexual. He shares insights from a recent study revealing trends in bisexual identification and behavior over time. Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the biopsychosocial factors influencing sexual orientation and the changing perceptions around bisexuality.

Delve into common male sexual health challenges, including erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. Discover what Peyronie's disease is, its symptoms, and treatment options. Learn how societal expectations and anxiety affect sexual experiences, as well as strategies for lasting longer in bed. Explore the distinction between sexual dysfunction and disappointment, and uncover practical tips for maintaining penile health as men age. With expert insights, this discussion aims to destigmatize and empower men to address their sexual health issues.

Melissa Hadley Barrett, a nurse practitioner and sexologist, dives deep into the fascinating world of the penis. Discover surprising insights about penile sensitivity, the truth behind average sizes, and why flaccid measurements can be misleading. She discusses the misconception of breaking an erection and the benefits of vibrators for men’s health. Barrett also tackles the stigma around men's sexual issues, like erectile dysfunction, promoting open conversations and self-acceptance in intimate relationships.