Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami

A couple recounts how radical sexual practices reshaped their marriage and healed long-buried trauma. They describe intense yoni crying, powerful squirting, and sustained multi-hour sex dates that shift energy for days. Conversations cover breaking religious shame, prostate work and cock worship, learning ejaculatory control, and using erotic rituals to alchemize relationship pain into deep connection.

A viral Instagram comparison of 90s masculine male models versus today’s effeminate actors sparks a debate on lost testosterone and cultural programming. The conversation covers environmental xenoestrogens, hormonal birth control impacts, and how media may be normalizing softer men. Practical topics include rebuilding masculine strength through diet, detox, exercise, dopamine work, and sexual practices to cultivate masculine energy.

Hell hath no fury like a woman underf**ked. When you have an underf**ked woman on your hands, you’ll know it. Because she’ll MAKE you know it. It will be loud and clear. Her underf**ked behavior is a cry for help. A cry, which distinctly says “F**K ME.”Men THIS is your job. THIS is your raison d’être. So… how do you f**k her? Do her moods merit different techniques? Indeed they do. I’ve got you. In this episode: Signs your woman is underf**ked Which orifice and when? Sex is medicine. Oral is medicine. Anal is medicine. Throat-gasms for the win What to do when your woman nags and belittles you Ideal frequency of sex Ideal duration of sex What to f**k IN and what to f**k OUT of each otherJunk food vs. gourmet sex The Coming Together Salon for Couples is coming soon! In this 10-week online salon you’ll learn:How to harness the healing and creative power of your sexual energySexual reflexology maps of the genitalsMy sexual position prescription guideThe full orgasmapedia—all of the life-changing vaginal orgasms for womenSuperstar stamina techniques for men to last for hours and how to orgasm without ejaculation.The salon begins in April. In the meantime, signup for my FREE 7-Day Sex Cleanse and to be notified when the salon opens for registration.https://kimanami.com/lovers

Being a well-f**ked couple isn’t all fun and games, you know. There are some serious issues that come to pass, and I’m here to help you through them.In this episode: The 5 biggest well-f**ked couple problemsNavigating life and hotel rooms with a prolific squirter Which private island to have your sex weeks at What to do when people keep throwing cash at you Dumping your underf**ked friends: it’s okay. You’ll find new, well-f**ked ones in Anami Land Setting and keeping the bar high: your moral and ethical responsibility to guide the underf**ked out of their morass and stupor of underf**ked blindness and into the light We can get through this. Together.  ***Signup for the free 7-Day Sex CleanseA weeklong sex date. Anami-Style. Each day, you'll receive homeplay to deepen into each other emotionally and sexually.Side effects of this 7-Day Sex Cleanse may include: Ejaculate-soaked bed sheetsBroken bed framesBeing fully energized by each other's life force energyClearing of relationship blocksStronger staminaIncreasing trust, intimacy and opennessSky-rocketing libidosSignup here.https://kimanami.com/lovers

Someone alerted the “All women need HRT!” community that I put up an apparently oh-so controversial post: That I don’t take HRT. They came RUNNING. A gang of underf**ked orcs, rabid, foaming at the mouth, grunting and panting, clambering over the hills and mountains to arrive at my page and tell me HOW DANGEROUS IT WAS THAT I WASN’T TAKING HRT AND I WAS SO LUCKY THAT I DIDN’T HAVE SYMPTOMS AND JUST WAIT UNTIL MY VAGINA FALLS OFF. In true Anami-style, I took down each of these underf**ked orcs one-by-one. We even held a “Who wore it better/ who would you rather f**k” poll?” Frumpy HRT doctor or Hot asf no-HRT Kim Anami? In this episode: Whiners get bitch-slapped.Are menopause and perimenopause entirely Nocebo effect? The New Yorker columnist who “racismed” me Is simply “being a woman” a lifelong pathology that requires medicating from puberty until death? Is Serena Williams a great tennis player because she’s lucky?A crash course is standing your ground against mindless, NPC, underf**ked orcs A woman who knows how to live in a female body: me Victims vs. victors. Whining vs. winning Being well-f**ked makes you wittier, smarter and hotter. It’s just a fact. It also makes you not get menopause symptoms My original post that started all the controversy:https://www.instagram.com/p/DUQ41LgkQrd/?igsh=MWVmNDBzdzY3MThhdg==My responses to the underf**ked orcs: https://www.instagram.com/p/DUlnn2ejxmU/?igsh=MWl1MjR4ZDJyOXdtNg==https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUqqrIQEfrZ/?igsh=MW00MzJ5c3o3bzR6Zw==Check out my new Psychedelic Menopause Substack: https://psychedelicmenopause.substack.comSignup for my upcoming Psychedelic Menopause Salon waitlist: http://kimanami.com/psychedelic-menopause 

A fiery case for sourcing healing from your own body instead of perpetual meds, supplements or tech. She maps reproductive symptoms to emotional meaning and argues for pelvic training over invasive fixes. Conversations include vaginal strength exercises, reversing prolapse with discipline, treating periods and menopause as portals, and reclaiming sexual energy as creative power.

Dr. Beth, a chiropractor and pelvic health specialist who champions jade yoni egg practice, shares her journey of pelvic rehabilitation and sexual reclamation. She talks about healing prolapse with vaginal weight training, awakening cervical and anal orgasms, integrating energetic clearing with physical work, and using sexual practices for embodiment, birth preparation, and manifesting life changes.

A woman wakes up her sexuality after decades of numbness and unlocks G‑spot, cervical, squirting, anal, nipple and full‑body orgasms. Menopause is reframed as a new beginning for pleasure. Practical tools like vaginal weight work, yoni eggs, and focused exploration drive rapid transformation. Conversations also tackle penis length, brief sex culture, and how different orgasm types serve emotional healing.

I often say that my vagina created my life. I've learned how to tap into the power of my sexual, pro-creative energy and use that to “birth” my life and projects with. And so can you. In this episode: The fastest way to achieve creative geniusWhat it really means and looks like to “magnetize with feminine energy”Using your vagina and sexual flow to manifest in your life “My vagina is my doctor and business advisor” How to do Anami salons as a solo person. People always ask if they need a partner—you don’t The best psychedelic trip: vaginal orgasms Well-F**ked All Star Ondrea on the road to surrender and living in feminine energyMy legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon is now open for registration. In this 10-week online salon, I've compiled the best of my 30 years of sexual and vaginal experience (!) to take you over the edge into a lifetime of bliss. We cover everything talked about in today’s episode, from yoni massage to how to use the jade yoni egg, to activating your feminine energy as the receiver in your life—all of which bring you into your creative genius.You'll learn:How to have a toned, orgasmic and ecstatic vagina;How to channel your sexual energy into creative powerStep-by-step instructions for your vaginal weight lifting practice, thereby putting yourself in the running for the Guinness Record for world’s strongest vagina;My guided routine for giving yourself, or having your partner give you, a healing and activating yoni massage.How to give your man a hand job. With your vagina. An essential life skill for all. To signup, go to Vaginal Kung Fu. http://kimanami.com/vaginal-kung-fu

Look ma! No hormones! These kinds of stories are my favorite. The ones that showcase the direct impact that being well-fucked, awakening your vagina and activating your sexual energy has on your life.Milena had PCOS and was experiencing “peri-menopause” symptoms in her 30s.She was, of course, bombarded with the allopathic narrative of “There is no cure for you. All you can do is learn to manage your symptoms with drugs. Forever.”No thanks. I’ll pass on the snake oil.She found my work, and dared to believe that she could heal herself.Or more accurately, that her vagina could heal her.And it did.In this episode:Do shamans have HRT in the jungle?Hot flashes, irritability and sleep disturbances—gone!No more hormones or even herbs—nothing but good fuckingPCOS remedied through using the jade eggFinding your inner sex monster underneath “I’m just one of those people with a low libido. I’m just not that sexual…”Evaporating a UTI instantly with VKF toolsThe life-changing power of vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, squirting and cervicalHow a control freak surrendersSquirting across the bed as #goals. Oh, and squirting is not pee! Just ask anyone who has ever squirted.Lubrication went from Sahara Desert to major waterfalls“We have more sex when we need more money. It always comes.”Time flies during a 3-hour sex dateBreasts increasing more than a cup sizeWeight loss from trauma shedding—literally losing pounds of belly fat overnightOur kids tell us: “You look like two horny teenagers!”My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon opens for registration on January 14th.In this 10-week online salon, I've compiled the best of my 30 years of sexual and vaginal experience (!) to take you over the edge into a lifetime of bliss. We cover everything talked about in this episode, from yoni massage to how to use the jade yoni egg, to activating your feminine energy as the receiver in your life—all of which bring you into your creative genius.You'll learn:How to have a toned, orgasmic and ecstatic vaginaHow to channel your sexual energy into creative powerStep-by-step instructions for your vaginal weight lifting practiceMy guided routine for giving yourself, or having your partner give you, a healing and activating yoni massage.How to give your man a hand job. With your vagina.Go to Vaginal Kung Fu to get on the waitlist and be notified of when we open the doors. In the meantime, you’ll receive my free masterclass: Manifest Men, Money and Miracles with Your Vagina.