Squirting Saved Our Marriage

Mar 27, 2026

A couple recounts how radical sexual practices reshaped their marriage and healed long-buried trauma. They describe intense yoni crying, powerful squirting, and sustained multi-hour sex dates that shift energy for days. Conversations cover breaking religious shame, prostate work and cock worship, learning ejaculatory control, and using erotic rituals to alchemize relationship pain into deep connection.

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INSIGHT

Sex As A Daily Biohack For Healing And Creativity

Sex can be a consistent source of life-force energy for creativity, healing, and self-actualization.
Kim Anami frames orgasms as transformative peak experiences, claiming they can rejuvenate, heal trauma, and fuel creativity rather than being mere pleasure.

ANECDOTE

Married Virgins With A Numb Sex Life

Vi and Jared came from ultra-religious, sexually suppressed backgrounds and married as virgins, which left their sex life disconnected for years.
They described numb, duty-based encounters where Vi often consented despite lacking desire, and Jared felt confined to brief '30 seconds of glory' sessions.

ADVICE

Invest In Intensive Sexual Education Over Casual Therapy

Invest in guided relationship work rather than hoping therapy or time alone will fix entrenched patterns.
Jared and Vi chose Kim's course over repeated therapy and reported major shifts within two weeks, calling it their best relationship investment.

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One of my absolute most favourite concepts in ALL of my work is the idea of: Fuck them until you change them.

Our sex acts have the power to transform us. But only when they hit a certain level of Anami gourmet-style sex.

The big barometric question I always ask people about their sex lives, and the way you can tell whether you’re having Anami-style gourmet sex or plebeian junk-food sex, is:

Does sex change your life? Do you feel energized, rejuvenated, euphoric, healed, transformed and like you’ve seen God?

If not, you’re doing it wrong.

Anything other than that isn’t hitting the mark. At least in Anami Land.

In this episode we speak to Well-F**ked All Stars Jared and Vi:

The emotional catharsis of squirting
Healing and alchemizing past trauma through sex
Male G-Spot liberation
Orgasm without ejaculation for him
SHE LOVES HIS COCK. Can’t get enough of it.
From religious suppression to: “if the entire bed isn’t unusable with wetness after we’re done, then it was a small session.”
3-hour sex date impact lasts for a week

COMING TOGETHER FOR COUPLES SALON

EVERY couple can be having hours of sex, energy sex, multi-orgasmic sex, 20, 30, 40 orgasms in a session sex, and be turned on by each other for decades.

it's the Anami Guarantee.

I walk you through how to get there, step by step, in my Coming Together Salon. This is my 10-week online program for couples where you’ll learn everything from:

How to have wild, 10-hours long Tantric sex
How to communicate from the heart and genitals to achieve deep vulnerability
Using your sexual energy to alchemise ALL of your relationship and personal issues
Step by step guided lingam and yoni massage
Techniques to achieve all the deeper orgasms in women: G-spot, squirting and cervical
Achieving superstar stamina in men: being able to have full control over when you orgasm
Or IF you do: I’ll also teach you how to orgasm without ejaculation
Feminine and masculine polarity to amplify these energies in your life and bed, This is the secret to the hottest—and lifelong—sexual chemistry

To signup, go to kimanami.com/lovers