No Small Endeavor with Lee C. Camp

260: Nicholas Ma: What to Do With the People You Love But Don’t Agree With

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May 4, 2026
Nicholas Ma, documentary filmmaker behind Won't You Be My Neighbor? and Leap of Faith, explores empathy, faith, and how to stay connected across deep differences. He recounts convening pastors with opposing views, the tense line exercise, unexpected vulnerability, and how time, witness, and proximate care can build durable relationships despite disagreement.
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Durable Friendships Across Deep Difference

  • Friendships formed across deep differences are more durable than those based on sameness.
  • Nicholas Ma observed that loving parts of someone you don't understand lets relationships flex as people change.
ANECDOTE

Line Exercise Reveals Hidden Divisions

  • The film used a
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Duration Is Necessary For Change

  • Pain sometimes cannot be fixed immediately and must be witnessed over time for change to emerge.
  • Ma emphasizes duration: enduring painful moments across meetings allowed deeper discovery among pastors.
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