Love Life With Matthew Hussey

If Your Ex Moved On and Crushed You Completely, THIS Is How You Heal | Matt Monday

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Jul 31, 2023

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ANECDOTE

Seven-Year Relationship Collapse

A man was in a seven-year relationship where his partner withdrew affection and found him unattractive.
After their breakup she became affectionate with a new fiancé, which crushed his self-worth.

INSIGHT

When Exes Prove What You Wanted

Seeing an ex give you what you wanted to someone else creates a clear, painful belief that you must be flawed.
That visible contrast intensifies feelings of not being enough and leads to deep ego damage.

INSIGHT

Worth Tied To Their Attention

Long-term dependence on a partner's approval makes your self-worth fluctuate daily.
Living at the mercy of their attention causes chronic anxiety, unhappiness, and loss of inner peace.

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