Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing! Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself. Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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May 11, 2026 • 18min
4 Step Approach To Stop Obsessing Over Someone
They unpack why liking someone can trigger obsessive overthinking and how past fears get projected onto new people. A protective “bodyguard” pattern that fuels control and anxiety is explored. A four-step CALM framework is introduced to reconnect with yourself, anchor your value internally, loosen the story, and move slowly to protect your heart.
May 8, 2026 • 32min
If They Cheated, Can You Ever Trust Them Again? | Rewind
They tackle how to respond when trust is broken early in a romance. They debate whether past cheating predicts future behavior and when disclosure matters. They examine why people hide mistakes and how ownership differs from secrecy. They outline steps for reparative action, boundary-setting, and spotting someone who can truly support your healing.
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May 4, 2026 • 17min
4 Ways To Spot Somebody Who's Right For You | Matt Monday
They unpack signals that show whether someone is worth investing in. You’ll hear about communication openness and the idea of an investment gap. They explain how relationships progress naturally into clarity and exclusivity. The conversation covers being more yourself with the right person and how compatibility survives hard moments.
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May 1, 2026 • 22min
How to Know If Someone Is Right for You (4 Key Questions) | Rewind
They walk through four diagnostic questions to judge if someone fits your life. Sexual chemistry and how it can appear or be hidden is explored. They examine whether core emotional and physical needs are easily met. Daily lifestyle compatibility and shared long-term vision are discussed to avoid short-term joy that costs your future.
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Apr 27, 2026 • 15min
The #1 Question To Ask In Early Dating | Matt Monday
They unpack how early avoidant behaviors can quietly trigger insecurity and make you chase connection. They explain why closeness sometimes causes people to pull away and which small signs to watch for. They outline simple tests of intimacy and how someone’s reaction to being called out reveals underlying patterns. They offer practical prompts to pause and reassess when attraction feels confusing.
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Apr 24, 2026 • 13min
How to Date When You Don’t Love The Way You Look | Rewind
They explore how appearance anxiety transforms into a chronic cycle of shifting insecurities. They explain why cosmetic fixes rarely solve deeper confidence issues. They suggest finding role models with similar looks and choosing situations that highlight your strengths. They emphasize seeking meaningful connection over superficial attention and playing the long game in dating.
Apr 20, 2026 • 15min
The Problem With Watching Online Love Advice (Yes, Including Mine) | Matt Monday
A warning about how endless online dating advice can feel like progress while blocking real change. A look at why learning without action becomes avoidance and how content saturation substitutes for real dating risks. A push to choose one concrete dating risk this week and use tools wisely to turn inspiration into real-world steps.
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Apr 17, 2026 • 19min
Why Modern Dating Feels So Frustrating (And What To Do Instead) | Rewind
A take on why dating apps create choice overload and emotional burnout. Conversation about why matches can feel meaningless and timing often misaligns. Practical ideas about giving a little more warmth to test momentum. Guidance on when to stop investing if effort is never returned.
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Apr 13, 2026 • 14min
What Japan Taught Me About Life and Love | Matt Monday
Travel-inspired reflections on lessons from Japan about craft, focus, and doing less to do better. Observations on collective responsibility and how small public acts shape personal behavior. Thoughts on caring for your home and self as emotional protection. A warning about romanticizing places and what freedoms you bring back with you.
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Apr 10, 2026 • 18min
5 Mindsets for a Successful Love Life | Rewind
Practical mindsets for prioritizing love even when life is chaotic. Why waiting for the perfect time is procrastination and how small, weekly actions move you forward. Techniques for staying steady under pressure, including breathing and incremental progress. A push to trade fresh-start fantasies for realistic, consistent effort toward better relationships.
