Women of Impact

Stop Being Dismissed: Exactly What to Say the Next Time You’re Gaslit, Disrespected, or Ignored | Kwame Christian PT 2

Jul 3, 2025
In this enlightening conversation, Kwame Christian, a lawyer and master negotiator, teams up with Lisa Bilyeu to reveal the art of confident communication. They tackle the challenge of negotiating self-worth in a society that often discourages women from advocating for themselves. Discover practical techniques for turning conflicts into collaborations, the importance of emotional awareness, and how to set firm boundaries. Kwame also shares essential scripts for when you’re dismissed, emphasizing the transformative power of respectful dialogue and healthy detachment.
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ADVICE

Handle Emotional Reactions Compassionately

  • Expect emotional reactions (the inner toddler) during difficult talks.
  • Use compassionate curiosity to understand emotionality instead of taking it personally.
ADVICE

Just Ask for What You Want

  • Always ask for what you want; don't skip the crucial step of asking.
  • Understand fear of rejection is natural but not a reason to avoid asking.
INSIGHT

Control Yourself, Not Others

  • Focus on what you can control in tough conversations conserves energy and reduces exhaustion.
  • Control your self-comfort, speech, mindset, listening, curiosity, and patience for better outcomes.
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