Beyond Gender

First, Do No Harm: How Bad Therapy Betrayed Vulnerable Youth - Interview with Abigail Shrier

Dec 5, 2025
Abigail Shrier, a journalist and author renowned for her work on youth and mental health, dives into the pitfalls of modern therapy culture. She shares alarming insights about how affirmation over inquiry in therapy can harm young people, and discusses the negative impact of mental health interventions in schools. Shrier emphasizes the importance of parental involvement and critiques the current diagnostic culture. She also addresses the challenges teens face in relationships today, offering guidance for parents navigating these turbulent waters.
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INSIGHT

Schools Becoming Therapeutic Hubs

  • Schools expanded roles into mental-health provision, offering broad therapeutic programs to students.
  • Shrier links this to a generation receiving mass interventions and still showing worsening mental-health trends.
INSIGHT

Adolescent Therapy Is Distinctly Risky

  • Therapy with adolescents differs fundamentally from adult therapy due to coercion and buy-in dynamics.
  • Shrier warns adolescents are often strong-armed into care, incentivizing therapists to flatter or undermine parents to bond.
ADVICE

Support Parents First, Then Children

  • Make parents the primary recipients of support for mild youth problems instead of sending children alone to therapy.
  • Have parents get help and then use that authority to guide and stabilise their child.
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