

Beyond Gender
Stella O'Malley, Mia Hughes, Bret Alderman
What’s really going on with gender—and how does it connect to wider cultural shifts? Psychotherapist Stella O’Malley, researcher Mia Hughes, and psychologist Bret Alderman explore how debates around gender, identity, psychology, and medicine open up bigger questions about culture, society, and mental health. With guests ranging from doctors and therapists to parents and detransitioners, they offer honest, thoughtful discussions—no jargon, no ideology.
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Mar 27, 2026 • 1h 20min
Lionel Shriver
We are joined by Lionel Shriver who discusses why she uses fictional novels and dialogue to explore emotional, politicized issues, focusing on her book A Better Life, inspired by NYC Mayor Eric Adams’ proposal to pay residents to house migrants. The conversation expands to arrested development, climate-change apocalypticism as an excuse to avoid adulthood and family, and claims that medical transition offers a false, endless “project.” Shriver further critiques contemporary left-wing illiberalism and talks mass immigration policy reform.

Mar 20, 2026 • 1h 21min
Eoin Lenihan
In this episode, we speak with Eoin Lenihan about his bestselling book "Vandalising Ireland" and what he argues has happened to Ireland since the mid-1990s.Eoin describes Ireland’s shift to a foreign direct investment model, who’s supported it and the prerequisites for this outcome. He also discusses the replacement of the church, collusion of the elite and provides suggestions for moving forward.Follow Eoin:https://www.eoinlenihan.net/https://twitter.com/EoinLenihan

Mar 12, 2026 • 55min
Soren Aldaco
This is a special episode for Detrans Awareness Day with Soren Aldaco, a researcher, producer of our podcast and IW (Independent Women) ambassador.Soren talks about her personal process with detransitioning, her understanding and writings on the matter, and ideas of how someone in this position can move forward.Follow Soren:https://www.sorenaldaco.com/https://twitter.com/sorenaldaco

Mar 5, 2026 • 1h 6min
Dr Niamh Regan
The episode features a discussion with Dr. Niamh Regan, a concerned parent with a child in primary school, about Ireland’s Cineáltas/“Bí Cineálta” (Be Kind) anti-bullying policies and what she describes as an ideological shift in education. She argues that the Irish constitution and Department of Education recognize parents as the primary educators of their children, but says schools treat parents as mere “stakeholders” and disregard objections. The conversation links Irish developments to broader international trends, via lobbying strategies and policies.Follow Niamh:https://twitter.com/niamhlanesBeir Bua:https://www.beirbuaeducation.ie/🎧 Read the full show notes here

Feb 26, 2026 • 1h 15min
Peter James Steven
We are joined by Peter James Steven, the creator of detrans.ai, an innovative chatbot created to provide key insights into the experiences of detransitioners, offering a counter-narrative to the mainstream affirmation ideology seen in other AI models like ChatGPT. Peter shares the motivation behind the project, highlighting personal connections and societal implications. The episode also includes a detailed discussion on the technical functioning of the chatbot and the notable statistics gathered from the project's database, focusing on transition and detransition trends. Additionally, the conversation ventures into personal reflections on identity and the importance of open-minded dialogue in addressing complex issues surrounding gender identity and medical transition.

Feb 19, 2026 • 1h 1min
Ellie
A harrowing story from Ellie, a Ukrainian immigrant mother, who discusses her family’s ongoing California dependency case involving their daughter “Maya.” Ellie says Maya was a joyful child but was bullied, later diagnosed with ADHD, ODD, major depression, anxiety, BPD, and previously hospitalized at age 11 for suicidal and homicidal ideation. During COVID, Maya became increasingly online before the family relocated to California, where the online grooming escalated, which led to 14 year old Maya being willingly abducted by the state.Ellie's Substack

Feb 10, 2026 • 1h 59min
Airiel D. Salvatore
https://stellaomalley.substack.com/p/rejection-belief-reflection-and-collapse-996

Feb 6, 2026 • 1h 16min
Ronan McCrea
https://stellaomalley.substack.com/p/the-end-of-the-gay-rights-revolution

Jan 28, 2026 • 1h 20min
James Lindsay
James Lindsay, PhD-trained mathematician turned cultural commentator and founder of New Discourses. He recounts the Grievance Studies hoax, why he targeted certain academic fields, and the shift from satire to activism. He explains his definition of woke, traces its spread across the spectrum, and describes the personal and political fallout from his work.

Jan 21, 2026 • 1h 3min
Laoise de Brún
Laoise de Brún


