
The Leader's Journey Podcast Beyond Fight/Flight: The Fawn Response (People pleasing and Peacekeeping)
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Jul 13, 2023 AI Snips
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Make Fawning Visible And Intentionally Use It
- Make fawning visible and intentional so it can serve connection rather than only survival.
- Chuck advises shifting toward connection so responses like fawn can be employed thoughtfully and healthily.
Fawning Can Be Mistaken For Maturity
- Fawning often looks like maturity because it soothes others, yet it serves the fawner's anxiety not their values.
- Tricia notes fawning gets rewarded and masks that actions aren't aligned with deeply held values.
Fawning Fuels Triangulation In Organizations
- In leadership, fawning fuels triangulation and avoids direct conversations, keeping unhealthy patterns normalized.
- Chuck points to subtle moves like asking a colleague to 'nudge' someone instead of addressing issues directly.










