The Dildorks New Queers' Resolutions
Jan 20, 2026
They trade surreal fantasies from sentient sex robots to work-break encounters and erotic boredom. Conversations hit femdom play, anonymous group encounters, and safer low-risk sexual scenarios. Planning and self-work show up in toy decluttering, queer media archiving, social rebuilding, and goals like PIV orgasms, falling in love, and embracing good gender feelings.
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Anonymous Encounters Over Known Crushes
- Billy shifted from fantasizing about known people to anonymous or archetypal encounters this year.
- She values anonymity and archetype play while logistics and moving paused exploration.
Location Shapes Dominance Fantasies
- Kate noticed increased femdom fantasies when feeling powerful in Toronto and more submissive in New York.
- Context and community shift sexual expression between top and sub roles.
Drop Stagnant Goals And Reframe Them
- Avoid making the same goal repeatedly without progress; scrap or reset unattained long-term goals.
- Billy admitted the DP/filming goal didn't happen and chose to drop it for now.
