In Bed With Alexa: Have Better Sex How to Unlock Full Body Orgasms (ft. Sarah Tomchesson)
Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with Sarah Tomchesson, Certified Sex Educator, Embodied Intimacy Coach, Marketing Director for Magic Wand and host of the Fuck Yeah podcast, to talk about one of the most sought-after yet misunderstood experiences: full body orgasms. Recorded in Costa Rica at the Shameless Sex Retreat, this episode dives deep into what full body orgasms really are, how they happen, and how you can tap into them.
Sarah shares her journey from discovering sex-positivity in college to becoming a leading voice in pleasure-based sex education. We talk about how shame, stress, and disconnection block pleasure, and how somatic techniques, breathwork, and body awareness can help you reclaim your pleasure and access deeper orgasms.
We also cover:
🔸 Why so many people struggle to connect with their bodies (and how to change that)
🔸 The myths around orgasm gaps, genital-focused pleasure, and what it really means to be “multi-orgasmic”
🔸 How curiosity and playfulness can enhance your sexual experiences
🔸 Why full body orgasms aren’t just about sex—they’re about embodiment, confidence, and overall well-being
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