Therapist Uncensored Podcast TU154: Conquer Shame by Understanding the Science Behind the Feeling, with Guest Expert Dr. Steve Finn – REPLAY
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Aug 25, 2021 AI Snips
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Shame Is A Social Adhesive
- Shame evolved as a social conditioning mechanism to keep humans cooperative within groups.
- It discourages dangerous behaviors by internalizing social rejection without constant external enforcement.
Toddler, Cat Turd, And The Repair
- A toddler proudly held a cat turd and was loudly scolded, then began crying and was soothed by repair.
- That quick repair prevented toxic shame while teaching the child not to repeat the action.
Repaired Shame Helps The Developing Brain
- Repaired shame supports healthy brain development by pruning frontal lobe connections and improving regulation.
- Unrepaired toxic shame elevates corticosteroids and can harm frontal lobe tissue and regulation.