Sex for Saints

Episode 414 - Mutual Masturbation

Mar 27, 2026
They explore mutual masturbation as an intimate practice that teaches partners what truly feels good. The conversation highlights learning your own body before sharing it. Practical boundaries, consent, and gentle ways to start are discussed. Vulnerability and being seen are presented as powerful pathways to deeper connection.
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ADVICE

Learn Your Body First

  • Do learn your own body before showing your spouse how to pleasure you.
  • Amanda Lauder says solo exploration reveals pressure, rhythm, and touch that you must know to teach your partner effectively.
INSIGHT

Seeing Beats Telling For Sexual Communication

  • Mutual masturbation acts as the clearest form of sexual communication because watching reveals exact pressure, location, and rhythm.
  • Amanda Lauder explains that this visual education is impossible to get from verbal descriptions alone.
ANECDOTE

Marissa Shows Todd How She Likes To Be Touched

  • Marissa felt awkward touching herself at first but Todd was captivated and admitted he'd been 'touching you wrong for years.'
  • That admission relieved Marissa because Todd could now see what her body actually responded to.
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