Coaching Real Leaders How Do I Handle It When I Disagree with My Boss’s Decisions?
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Oct 21, 2024 A new executive navigates the tricky waters of leadership while grappling with disagreements with his boss. The discussion highlights building trust, effective communication, and balancing personal values with organizational demands. Personal anecdotes reveal the emotional challenges and complexities of workplace dynamics. Reflecting on discomfort as a growth opportunity, the conversation emphasizes strategic influence in decision-making. Ultimately, the coaching session leads to newfound clarity and confidence, illustrating the journey of growth in leadership.
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Separate Outcome from Influence
- Muriel advises Adam to separate his disappointment in the outcome from his influence.
- She highlights that influencing increases the chances of a desired outcome, but doesn't guarantee it.
Influencing vs. Decision-Making
- Muriel distinguishes between influencing and decision-making responsibilities.
- She points out that Adam, as an influencer, shouldn't hold himself to the same success criteria as the decision-maker.
Lack of Strategic Thinking
- Adam realizes he wasn't strategic, relying on "magical thinking" instead of preparation.
- He wasn't prepared to counter arguments or consider alternative scenarios effectively.