I Don't Know Anything with Paige Harriman 66 – Act II: Paige Goes to a New York City Orgy / Polyamory Killed Rock and Roll
Feb 8, 2026
A candid dive into NYC non-monogamous scenes, from play party logistics to consent culture and etiquette. They map group dynamics, partner-swapping, and how interactions start. A wide-ranging chat links tech wealth, urban life, and shifting cultural incentives away from music. They also debate generational changes, parenting while polyamorous, and when people choose to settle down.
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What An Organized Playroom Looks Like
- Nick describes how organized kink events have condoms, water, cushions, and even a condom cart at Hacienda.
- He explains guests transition from mingling to a separate dimly lit playroom where people cluster with their groups.
How Play Starts And Progresses
- Nick outlines the organic flow: mingling, burlesque or transition moment, then gradual touching within small groups.
- He stresses consent norms: people ask to watch or touch and mostly interact with adjacent clusters.
Morning Sex Running Joke
- Nick recounts a running joke while in a relationship with two women about bathroom breaks during morning sex.
- The joke highlighted how partner dynamics and timing could produce awkward-looking scenarios.