The Rachel Hollis Podcast

915 | "Rach, how can I feel confident after failure?" "Rach, how can I motivate my teenagers?!"

Dec 5, 2025
In this engaging discussion, Rachel inspires listeners by emphasizing that confidence is built through experience, not just outcomes. She encourages reframing failure as progress and highlights the importance of persistence. Addressing parent concerns, Rachel offers valuable insights on motivating teenagers, stressing the power of leading by example rather than direct pressure. Her advice also includes creating supportive environments and respecting children's individual goals. It's all about the journey and the lessons learned along the way!
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INSIGHT

Work In The Gain, Not The Gap

  • People often suffer by living in the 'gap' between expectations and reality.
  • Rachel recommends measuring the 'gain'—how far you've come from where you started—to stay motivated.
ADVICE

Detach From Outcomes When Creating

  • Attach no identity to outcomes and treat creation as planting a seed you can't fully control.
  • Focus on being a vessel for the work and let the universe handle the rest.
ADVICE

Write For Your Own Curiosity

  • Write the book you want to read, not what you think will be marketable.
  • Trust your intuition and original voice rather than chasing trends for success.
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