The Rachel Hollis Podcast 942 | 7 Surprising Ways to Make Friends as an Adult (Even If You Feel Awkward)
Mar 16, 2026
A lively take on why adult friendships take intentional work. Practical tips include dressing to attract your tribe and showing up authentically at events. Suggestions cover joining niche classes, saying yes to invites, and becoming a familiar presence in your community. Hear ideas like scheduling creative solo dates and following up to turn acquaintances into real connections.
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Dress To Signal Your Tribe
- Dressing signals who you are and attracts people who share your aesthetic and values.
- Rachel Hollis dressed as her authentic self after moving to Hudson Valley and immediately connected with more like-minded friends.
Doc Martens At A Fancy Dinner Party
- Rachel attended a local dinner party feeling unsure how to dress, then chose her Doc Martens and paint-splattered jeans and connected with a mom in similar boots.
- Her outfit made her feel confident and led her to find a kindred spirit at the party.
Join Niche Classes To Find Shared Interests
- Sign up for niche classes to meet people who share specific interests rather than relying on proximity alone.
- Rachel recommends things like sourdough workshops, creative writing circles, trail running groups, or volunteering in a community garden.
