The Dildorks Was It Good For Me?
Aug 5, 2025
Dive into the intriguing topic of sexual selfishness as the hosts explore whether giving pleasure can be selfish. Discover how to satisfy partners with unique dynamics, including discussions on stone identity and the nuances of switch relationships. The importance of authentic communication shines through, along with insights on navigating reciprocity and boundary-setting in casual encounters. Personal anecdotes add a humorous touch, while the exploration of intimacy and consent brings depth to the conversation.
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Don't Leave Desire All On Them
- Not expressing your sexual desires often forces the other person to carry all the desire and direction.
- Owning desire both models behavior for partners and reduces their emotional burden.
Drive‑Thru Dick Example
- Billy describes a hookup dynamic where he shows up, performs oral, and leaves, while loudly praising the partner.
- He credits communication and compliments for making the interaction feel joyful, not selfish.
Understand Stone Top Pleasure
- If insecure about a stone-top's reciprocity, ask specific questions and read or talk to other stone tops for normalization.
- Seek out writers like Xan West and Sinclair Sexsmith to better understand stone identities.
