The Way Out Is In

Calm in the Storm Q&R, Part Two (Episode #101)

Mar 5, 2026
They answer listener questions about calming anxious thoughts and managing health anxiety. They discuss how calm can provoke others and how deep listening can transform anger. They explore raising children in uncertain times, accepting changing identities, and offering steady presence. They describe befriending inner darkness, building new habits, and using community to reduce overwhelm.
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ADVICE

Use Deep Listening Instead Of Jumping To Fix Anger

  • Do practice deep listening rather than fixing someone's anger; ask open questions like 'How is your heart?' to offer understanding.
  • Jo Confino and Brother Phap Huu recommend asking if they need space or support instead of immediately calming them.
INSIGHT

Calmness Is An Active Leadership Quality

  • Being calm is an active engagement that improves leadership quality and decision making.
  • Brother Phap Huu describes meditation training producing clearer, less anxious execution versus frantic leadership, using meditation-hall coordinators as example.
INSIGHT

Mindfulness Is Awareness Of Suffering And Ethics

  • Mindfulness in Plum Village centers on awareness of suffering and ethical action, not mere concentration.
  • Brother Phap Huu contrasts Plum Village mindfulness with 'light' app-based practices and stresses cultivation over a lifetime.
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