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Ep. 398 - How to Come Home to Yourself When Everything Falls Apart: The Process with Allie Carr

Mar 13, 2026
Allie Carr, a writer and creative who navigated a Saturn return and major identity shifts, shares a two-part comeback. She talks about shedding old selves, confronting financial and career collapse, and reparenting internal parts. Conversations cover daily silence, honoring protective blocks, and returning to playful creativity through music, memes, and writing.
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ANECDOTE

Dark Night Of The Soul During Saturn Return

  • Allie Carr experienced a prolonged dark night of the soul after leaving TBM and freelancing, feeling like her identity and creative engine died.
  • She recalled daily crying in the shower, a $21,000 unexpected tax bill, and confronting family and death as concrete stressors that catalyzed change.
INSIGHT

Identity Was Career And Money

  • Allie realized her identity was tied to career status and income, so losing that felt like death but was actually a shedding of ego parts.
  • She reframed the pain as dying parts, which allowed her to observe fears instead of being them.
ADVICE

Practice Daily Silence For Self Reconnection

  • Do a daily 20-minute silence practice to reconnect to your true self and observe fearful thoughts as transient.
  • Allie used breath-focused silence to pull back from inner critic moments like podcast nerves.
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