The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett Jordan B Peterson: You Need To Listen To Your Wife! We've Built A Lonely & Sexless Society! If You & Your Partner Do This, You'll Divorce!
Jan 13, 2025
02:28:14
From ‘make your bed’ to ‘stand up straight’, Jordan Peterson returns with some more radical rules to revolutionise love, sex, and marriage
Dr Jordan Peterson is a world-renowned former Professor of Psychology at the University of Toronto, and co-founder of the online education platform Peterson Academy. He is the author of bestselling books such as, ‘12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos’ and ‘We Who Wrestle With God: Perceptions of the Divine’.
In this conversation, Dr Jordan and Steven discuss topics such as, the hidden dangers of pornography, how to overcome loneliness, the real reason divorces happen, and why society has become sexless.
00:00 Intro
02:18 The World Has Become Fractionated
05:11 Where Do We Find Ourselves Without Community?
08:29 How Do We Address Individualism in a Self-Centered Society?
15:09 Do Many People Have a Clear Ultimate Aim?
16:05 What Movie Character Would Jordan Be?
17:48 Does It Bother You When People Attack Your Reputation?
20:27 What Do You Do When You Face Tough Times?
23:35 Why You Must Speak Your Mind
28:48 Why Spend 90 Minutes a Week Listening to Your Partner?
32:14 How Do You Resolve Years of Disputes?
37:27 How to Become a Person Others Want to Be Around
46:15 The Rise of Sexlessness
48:51 Why Does No Sex Before Marriage Lead to Better Outcomes?
52:07 The Purpose of Marriage vs Relationships
01:01:09 Is Porn a Bad Thing?
01:05:58 Why Doesn't Porn Feel Good to People?
01:09:54 The Effects of Pornography on You
01:12:23 AI Girlfriends
01:16:21 How to Overcome Weaknesses
01:21:02 Staying True to Your Principles
01:26:56 What to Say to People Struggling With Discipline
01:31:15 What Is Self-Belief?
01:34:35 Young Men on the Search for Religion
01:38:46 Was the Bible Just One Person's Opinion?
01:39:55 How Do You Believe We Got Here?
01:43:30 Should We Create Our Own Set of Rules?
01:46:34 Where Do Our Values Come From?
01:54:38 The Difference Between Sex and Reproduction
01:56:08 Is the Bible an Attempt to Understand Evolutionary Motivations?
01:57:06 What God Do You Believe In?
02:02:38 Has Your Belief in Religion Ever Been Shaken?
02:05:57 Life Isn't Fair, Is It?
02:12:16 Staying True to Who You Are
02:18:12 What Losing Someone Teaches You About Life
02:23:50 How Do You Feel Misunderstood?
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You can purchase Jordan’s book, ‘We Who Wrestle With God’, here: https://g2ul0.app.link/7BvitOAI2Pb
Watch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACEpisodes
My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACBook
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Dr Jordan Peterson is a world-renowned former Professor of Psychology at the University of Toronto, and co-founder of the online education platform Peterson Academy. He is the author of bestselling books such as, ‘12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos’ and ‘We Who Wrestle With God: Perceptions of the Divine’.
In this conversation, Dr Jordan and Steven discuss topics such as, the hidden dangers of pornography, how to overcome loneliness, the real reason divorces happen, and why society has become sexless.
00:00 Intro
02:18 The World Has Become Fractionated
05:11 Where Do We Find Ourselves Without Community?
08:29 How Do We Address Individualism in a Self-Centered Society?
15:09 Do Many People Have a Clear Ultimate Aim?
16:05 What Movie Character Would Jordan Be?
17:48 Does It Bother You When People Attack Your Reputation?
20:27 What Do You Do When You Face Tough Times?
23:35 Why You Must Speak Your Mind
28:48 Why Spend 90 Minutes a Week Listening to Your Partner?
32:14 How Do You Resolve Years of Disputes?
37:27 How to Become a Person Others Want to Be Around
46:15 The Rise of Sexlessness
48:51 Why Does No Sex Before Marriage Lead to Better Outcomes?
52:07 The Purpose of Marriage vs Relationships
01:01:09 Is Porn a Bad Thing?
01:05:58 Why Doesn't Porn Feel Good to People?
01:09:54 The Effects of Pornography on You
01:12:23 AI Girlfriends
01:16:21 How to Overcome Weaknesses
01:21:02 Staying True to Your Principles
01:26:56 What to Say to People Struggling With Discipline
01:31:15 What Is Self-Belief?
01:34:35 Young Men on the Search for Religion
01:38:46 Was the Bible Just One Person's Opinion?
01:39:55 How Do You Believe We Got Here?
01:43:30 Should We Create Our Own Set of Rules?
01:46:34 Where Do Our Values Come From?
01:54:38 The Difference Between Sex and Reproduction
01:56:08 Is the Bible an Attempt to Understand Evolutionary Motivations?
01:57:06 What God Do You Believe In?
02:02:38 Has Your Belief in Religion Ever Been Shaken?
02:05:57 Life Isn't Fair, Is It?
02:12:16 Staying True to Who You Are
02:18:12 What Losing Someone Teaches You About Life
02:23:50 How Do You Feel Misunderstood?
Follow Jordan:
Instagram - https://bit.ly/3WeVNeS
Twitter - https://bit.ly/429DFXn
Website - https://bit.ly/4fNbWiF
You can purchase Jordan’s book, ‘We Who Wrestle With God’, here: https://g2ul0.app.link/7BvitOAI2Pb
Watch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACEpisodes
My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACBook
You can purchase the The Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards: Second Edition, here: https://g2ul0.app.link/f31dsUttKKb
Follow me:
https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb
Sponsors:
PerfectTed - https://www.perfectted.com with code DIARY40 for 40% off
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit theexperienceplus.substack.com