The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett The Narcissism Doctor: "1 In 6 People Are Narcissists!", "Are Narcissists Better In Bed?", "Can A Narcissist Change? - Dr. Ramani Durvasula
Feb 29, 2024
01:39:26
1 in 6 people are narcissists, so what is a narcissist and how can you spot one?
Dr Ramani Durvasula is a clinical psychologist, Professor of Psychology at California State University, and the Founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training & Consulting. She is also the author of books such as ‘Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist’, and ‘"Don't You Know Who I Am?": How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility’.
In this conversation Dr. Ramani and Steven discuss topics such as, whether your partner is a narcissist, the 4 types of narcissist, why up to 50% of famous people are narcissists, and whether narcissists are better in bed.
(00:00) Intro
(02:08) Why Dedicating Your Life To Studying Narcissism
(03:10) The Cost Of Narcissism
(06:07) How To Spot A Narcissist
(12:27) How To Differentiate An A*****e From A Narcissist
(15:19) Can You Cure Narcissism?
(16:39) What Gender Tends To Be More Narcissistic
(18:24) The Types Of Narcissism
(25:07) How Many People Are Narcissists?
(27:21) Is Social Media Fuelling More Narcissists
(32:09) Where Does Narcissism Come From Genetics Environment
(36:06) Narcissism Lives In A Spectrum
(37:08) Are Narcissists More Successful
(40:12) The Empathic CEOs Are Rare
(43:04) Does Money Make You More Narcissistic?
(47:03) How Do You Know If You Are A Narcissist
(50:19) What People Get Attracted To Narcissist?
(53:41) How To Know If My Partner Is A Narcissist
(55:32) The Three Rs: How To Know If You're In A Negative Relationship
(59:28) Pathological Manipulation
(01:00:56) What's Projection?
(01:04:20) Can They Take Feedback
(01:05:55) Gaslighting, What Is It?
(01:10:49) How To Deal With Being Gaslit
(01:13:10) Do Narcissists Engage In Domestic Behaviour
(01:15:17) What Should I Do If My Boss Is A Narcissist
(01:17:31) Can You Get Out From A Narcissistic Person
(01:21:32) Can You Be Happy In A Relationship With A Narcissist
(01:23:08) What Is The Weak Point Of A Narcissist
(01:24:44) Why Don't They Like Authentic People
(01:25:51) Famous Narcissists
(01:31:55) You Can Come Back From Narcissistic Abuse
(01:34:04) Hardest Day Of Your Life
You can order Dr Ramani’s most recent book, ‘It's Not You: How to Identify and Heal from NARCISSISTIC People’, here: https://amzn.to/42YI79K
Follow Dr Ramani
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Dr Ramani Durvasula is a clinical psychologist, Professor of Psychology at California State University, and the Founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training & Consulting. She is also the author of books such as ‘Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist’, and ‘"Don't You Know Who I Am?": How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility’.
In this conversation Dr. Ramani and Steven discuss topics such as, whether your partner is a narcissist, the 4 types of narcissist, why up to 50% of famous people are narcissists, and whether narcissists are better in bed.
(00:00) Intro
(02:08) Why Dedicating Your Life To Studying Narcissism
(03:10) The Cost Of Narcissism
(06:07) How To Spot A Narcissist
(12:27) How To Differentiate An A*****e From A Narcissist
(15:19) Can You Cure Narcissism?
(16:39) What Gender Tends To Be More Narcissistic
(18:24) The Types Of Narcissism
(25:07) How Many People Are Narcissists?
(27:21) Is Social Media Fuelling More Narcissists
(32:09) Where Does Narcissism Come From Genetics Environment
(36:06) Narcissism Lives In A Spectrum
(37:08) Are Narcissists More Successful
(40:12) The Empathic CEOs Are Rare
(43:04) Does Money Make You More Narcissistic?
(47:03) How Do You Know If You Are A Narcissist
(50:19) What People Get Attracted To Narcissist?
(53:41) How To Know If My Partner Is A Narcissist
(55:32) The Three Rs: How To Know If You're In A Negative Relationship
(59:28) Pathological Manipulation
(01:00:56) What's Projection?
(01:04:20) Can They Take Feedback
(01:05:55) Gaslighting, What Is It?
(01:10:49) How To Deal With Being Gaslit
(01:13:10) Do Narcissists Engage In Domestic Behaviour
(01:15:17) What Should I Do If My Boss Is A Narcissist
(01:17:31) Can You Get Out From A Narcissistic Person
(01:21:32) Can You Be Happy In A Relationship With A Narcissist
(01:23:08) What Is The Weak Point Of A Narcissist
(01:24:44) Why Don't They Like Authentic People
(01:25:51) Famous Narcissists
(01:31:55) You Can Come Back From Narcissistic Abuse
(01:34:04) Hardest Day Of Your Life
You can order Dr Ramani’s most recent book, ‘It's Not You: How to Identify and Heal from NARCISSISTIC People’, here: https://amzn.to/42YI79K
Follow Dr Ramani
Twitter - https://bit.ly/3wF91ra
Instagram - https://bit.ly/48A634K
Watch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/3kxINCANKsb
Follow me:
https://beacons.ai/diaryofaceo
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit theexperienceplus.substack.com