
The Minimalists 535 | After Minimalism
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Apr 13, 2026 They explore what comes after owning less and how minimalism can be a tool, not a final destination. They debate presence, the arrival fallacy, and ways to let go of attachments. They share listener stories about deepening relationships and noticing complaints. They announce tours and retreats and offer three practical motivation tips for beginners.
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Expectations Versus Standards
- Expectations spotlight desires while standards underline values.
- Joshua explains standards are non-negotiable principles (e.g., remove what doesn't add value) that change how you judge outcomes over time.
Turn Expectations Into Agreements
- Translate expectations into predictions or explicit agreements to reduce disappointment.
- T.K. recommends stating requests and forming agreements (e.g., schedule or meeting place) so unmet expectations become harmless surprises.
Minimalism Is A Practice Of Presence
- Minimalism isn't an arrival but a practice of presence in ordinary life.
- T.K. uses the proverb before/after enlightenment chop wood carry water to show meaning arises from being present to the mundane.




