DataFramed #359 My Best Friend is AI with Valerie Tiberius, Professor of Philosophy at University of Minnesota
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May 12, 2026 
Valerie Tiberius, philosophy professor at the University of Minnesota who studies ethics, moral psychology, and well-being. She explores whether AI can replicate friendship. Short takes cover chatbots easing loneliness, sycophantic AI that distorts advice, risks for children’s social learning, ethical design that nudges real human contact, and using AI to coach skills and stretch learning.
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Chatbots Lack Genuine Mutual Concern
- Ideal friendship involves enjoyment, shared activities, and mutual care; chatbots can supply enjoyment and shared activities but not genuine mutual concern.
- Tiberius argues bots cannot care or be harmed, so reciprocity is missing in current companions.
Longstanding Friendships Persist Without Deep Commonality
- People keep long-term casual friendships from grade school that lack deep shared values.
- Tiberius recounts interviewing friends who stayed connected despite little in common, prompting a broader friendship concept.
Protect Children From Companion Chatbots
- Avoid exposing children to companion chatbots as primary social partners because they may mislearn what relationships require.
- Tiberius warns kids could expect relationships to be sycophantic tools if they interact more with bots than people.
